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Brona
Very passionate, sensual submissive looking for my perfect dominant. No, he need not be perfect, only perfect for me.

As I said, I am sensual... and prefer sensual relationships and play, beginning with emotional capture and intellectual stimulation. The mind is my most active sex organ. I am interested in connections that stimulate my intellect, my humour, my emotion as well as my body.

I am an adventurous and very open minded individual. There isn't too much you might suggest that I would be opposed to... in any part of our walk in life. I have learned that life's circumstances can be changed in the blink of an eye, and therefore wish to minimize any drama, conflict, and drudgery... preferring to laugh, explore and enjoy every last moment.

Just to be upfront and get it out of the way, so you don't waste your time here's what I am not:

**A pain slut – I prefer sensation play to pain.

**Service oriented, and really have no desire to be beyond what one shares in a close, connected, caring relationship. If you are seeking a domestic please move on now.... there are other subs/slaves out there that love that sort of kink, or I can refer you to a rent-a-maid site*g*

**A doormat - If you wish to have a 'yes Master, no Master' sub/slave, stop reading and go to the next profile. ** Under no circumstances will I join a couple as a 2nd or lesser partner. Please do not contact me if you seek someone to serve a household. I do not submit to females nor am I interested in being anything but primary partner to an alpha male.


Who am I looking for? He is intelligent, honest, has a super sense of humour, strength, integrity and is completely comfortable with himself and his dominance. He will not need me to define nor prove his dominance, he desires me by his side to compliment it.

To balance out his dark and very deviant side, he is fun, and can be gentle when he chooses.... perhaps even on occasion, a romantic. He knows when to treat me as his lady, and when to treat me as his whore. He must be able to stimulate me intellectually as well as sexually. He understands the concept of a power exchange being an exchange, and is willing to inspire me to submit completely to him. He is a man that finds his own path and heads off to explore life needing no one but me to follow him.

He is looking for a life partner and best friend and believes that what we share in this lifestyle is defined only by us.

further.....
I am one of those people in love with living and learning. I am courageous in big and small ways. I love to laugh and cry, am sensitive and feel things passionately. I think we should find our bliss, and follow it.

I know my manners, and more importantly when to ignore them. I like to live in the present, experiencing the moment to it's fullest. Rarely outgoing, usually introspective and intraverted, I am comfortable in my own skin, in most situations, and able to blend with the mood. I enjoy weekend and world travel, fine wine and the perfect cup of coffee on a lazy Sunday morning. I want to go new places literally and figuratively. Sometimes being outside of our comfort zone makes us look at the world, and ourselves, with new eyes. This a good thing, and I like a challenge. Oh, do I like challenge!

I actively seek the company, both friends and lovers, of those who have created their own successes, possess a keen sense of humour and dry wit, and who know how balance work and play. Yes, I am willing to re-locate, most anywhere in the world. Confidence, creativity, communication, and anticipation turn me on. Someone strong, confident, dominant...is an equal match for me in daily life, and what I seek in a romantic mate. It's the man that makes the difference, and for the right man anything of mine is his for the taking.
Note added 24/05/2004: Please do not bother to contact me if your interests include "naked always/collar and cuffs". For that to be your interest you are either too intense for me to find an enjoyable day to day life with, or, you live in fantasyland. It would appear that the number of people on this site that say this is there interest is the majority, so I am not expecting to hear from many. I can understand 'sometimes for play' but not 'always'... it doesn't leave much room for 'real life'. I expect to be treated as an intellectual companion, not solely a sexual plaything.
5/8/2006 7:13:55 AM

I've been getting a lot of mail lately, and its taking me some time to catch up.  Just so its clear and known, I will not answer an email consisting of one line greetings.  This includes: hey, how's it going?, are you online now?, or tell me about yourself?. 

I will also be unlikely to respond if you don't have your profile filled out.  That goes for those of you with one or two sentences in your profile.  I have taken the time to detail who I am and what I seek, if you are interested in contacting me you should be prepared to do the same.  Please do not email me with an empty profile and ask me for more details about myself. You are only showing me how rude and self-absorbed you are.

Finally, key word turn-offs are: stern, strict, humiliation, objectification and punish(ment).  Should your profile or email contain any of those references, we are philosophically incompatible and you are unlikely to get a response more than a 'not interested'.

10/25/2005 4:48:59 PM
its amazing to me, how very few people actually read what i have to say... i'm not sure why you think i would be interested in a journey with anyone that can't be bothered to take three minutes and read what i have to say. it certainly doesn't bode well for r/l listening to what i have to say 

Cheers!
7/25/2005 7:03:01 PM

anyone who describes himself as 'strict' or a 'disciplinarian' need not apply.  i do not respond to attempts at being dominated by fear, intimidation or humiliation.  i do respond to and am inspired by those that lead by example with respect, trust and adoration... and in return he will receive the same back 100 fold. 

7/5/2005 6:10:25 PM
To answer the most common question... yes, I will re-locate.... just about anywhere for the right one.