Where is my Christian Grey???????

If you don't know who this is, please feel free to ask....if you do know who I am referring to.....'nuff said.........

As I peruse profiles on here I am always curious.....why, if one has found the 'perfect' sub/dom/partner, they are still on here looking.  Yes, some are now seeking to add to their harem but others....I have to wonder how wonderful a relationship is when one party of it continues to be online looking??????????

It has been an interesting study of the human psyche on this site thus far.  The most common thread among 'Dominants' on here is fear of committment.  The two terms seem to contradict one another, for in my mind at least, Dominant implies one is secure in who they are and self confident yet fear of committment infers lack of self esteem and inner strength.  I guess the internet allows those with shaky self worth to be all that they can be while remaining protected and hidden behind a screen.  My only wish for the new year is to meet one of the true, strong (inner strength) confident, secure men on here who are Dominants by nature not by being able to type a few words into a profile or an email.

It's a brand new year....2011 was 100% better than 2010....2012 is going to be even better yet....Life is good

Is anyone real on this site....make it your new years resolution to state in your first contact if you are real, fake or just playing around on here to amuse yourself....

....don't look back....you're not going that way....

let's see who actually reads full profiles here.....

answer this question for me....

my knight in shining armour will do what to sweep me off my feet and forsake all for him?

It is wise to never profess to be what you are not for even in a simple email it comes out.  Be who you are, say what you mean and mean what you say....particularily if you want me to seriously think you are a Dominant.

....went to MTCC this weekend....pretty awesome....came home with a pretty new - somethings need to be kept hush hush.....

Listening to my favorite waltz of all time....The Tennessee Waltz....sooooooooooo beautiful and timeless.....

....and now for some Buddy Holly and Ritchie Valens.....

....what do you think....was JP Richardson (The Big Bopper) singing about his submissive in Chantilly Lace....

mandatory requirements in my world.....

HONESTY

RESPECT

COMMUNICATION

TRUST

MONOGAMY

If you don't possess these basic (well not so basic/easy for some) traits then in my eyes you aren't much of a dominant but rather a player of games.  I left high school many years ago and have no desire to return to the childish and imature games experimented with then. 

For some this lifestyle is a game....for a very - we function quite well (and usually successfully) in the 'vanilla' world but our core being flourishes and blossoms when our submissive (or Dominant) beings are cared for, loved and expounded on by the ONE. 

I am not one for long, lengthy online chats (life is too busy for that) and two people never really know if there is a connection until they meet in person.  If all you seek is online then this lady is not for you.

A Letter To One Whom Once Was....

I went to you all those years ago (it seems like a lifetime ago now) with love, respect, honor and trust.  I gave all I had to you emotionally, financially, spiritually and physically because I loved you so deeply.  And you took it from me, all of it and then some.  When there was nothing left for me to give other than my life you threw me out like a discarded rag so that you could replace me with another.  I was an empty shell whose heart had been ripped out, chewed up, spat out and stomped on repeatedly.  You left me with nothing, not even my sense of self.  In time I rebuilt me.  I have learned to love me for me again and now realize  that your need to destroy me came from your own insecurities and not from within me.  I did not need fixing or controlling, I did not need submission beaten into me.  I needed love, nuturing, respect, honor and trust.  While I strongly desire to continue as a submissive to one and only one I am not sure that will ever be possible.  It will take a truly special man with patience and understanding to capture my heart for your actions left me with an inability to trust completely and a deep fear that someone else may try to destroy me and this time succeed.

me

Oh I want you so bad, I can't wait until you make everything warm and wet....come on spring....hurry up....

"Never settle for someone you can live with....instead find someone you can't imagine living without...."

I was born in the mornin' but it wasn't yesterday mornin'

The difference between a true Dominant and an abusive controlling male....a Dominant puts his charges needs before himself, an abuser puts his needs above the world.

if he doesn't want you at your worst he doesn't deserve you at your best....annonymous

Lying is the ultimate form of disresepct and breach of trust in any relationship.

When you find one whom you can converse with for hours and not notice the time....amazing