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willowinchains

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	eager2learn61



	Im looking for someone who is into the more primal side of bdsm and who is a dominant. I want a beast to ravish me.. a sadist to torture me and a Man who can then put me back together. I am also looking for someone who is local to me (within an hour commute) and who is in the age range of 35-50. I have done distance in the past and I prefer to be with someone who is local or if the connection is strong one of us being willing to relocate. I have been in the lifestyle since my early twenties both online and in the local scene. I am active in our local group, Albany Power Exchange. I feel I need to expand on the above statement. I am VERY active in the kink community. I go to many bdsm conventions around the New England area. I have even presented at one. I am looking for a partner that also enjoys going to cons, play parties and events. If you are private about your kink I am not the girl for you! Kinks I am into I am a pain slut, masochist and a sadist, love thud play, knife play, floggers and rope. I love to laugh, joke, cum, scream and have fun in my scenes. I love to push my limits and find out just how much I can take before I give in. I love to serve and make my Dominant s life easier. I have also been delving into the world of 1950s housewife. I find my peace in making my house a home full of warm scents, neat and tidy and full of food made with love. What am I looking for? The end goal for me is a relationship that has many levels boyfriend girlfriend and Domsub that can include all of the aspects of bdsm that we enjoy. I am not just a bedroom player. I want aspects of bdsm in everyday life. If you have ever heard of Mark Davis.. then you will know the type of play I like.

I again got blocked because I asked what kinks someone was into and how many partners they have had..so mr blah blah..this is my response.. So, no experience then? It is okay to say you don't have any, I would respect you more. Instead, you go straight into name calling because I asked you a couple of questions? Here is how I would have answered the questions. I'm into a wide variety of kinks some are rough body play, rough rope, flogging, and service. I have had five bdsm relationships, two of which were poly and I have a number of established play partners that I have had for a number of years. As you can see, it gives you some insight into the things I like and a little history about me. It should show you I have a bit of experience and references if it ever came down to that. I'm not just a keyboard bdsmer, I was once but that was about 18 years ago before I joined the local community and started to go to bdsm events in the area. Anywho..good luck in your search. Its okay to say you don't have experience. We were all new once and needed that push into learning and practicing kink.

I received my first block yesterday! Why do you ask? Because I asked someone who was messaging me what their experience was and how many play partners they have had. I went from being the cats meow to being uneducated, having no job and being fat. And I should never post a picture again until I loose weight and go to the gym. Well, to let you all know. I am educated which is why I ask the questions I do. I do have a job, and know now the importance of life/work balance. And I do go to the gym, in fact I would love it if my partner would go with me. So, if you are the type of man who gets offend when a girl asks for your experience, don't even bother messaging me. It is my right and duty to ask you how you learned the skills that you claim to have. I am into edge play, I like rough play. That means you have to know what you are doing or one or both of us could get badly hurt. If you are not asking the people you are talking to about their experience you are going to get hurt.

It was time to update my profile to reflect the more up to date me.

There is something about

Being pushed up against a wall, face first

Cheek resting on rough wallboard

Breath caught in your throat

Listening to the growling in your ear

And trying to remember your own name

There's something about being

Pushed up against a wall

Your back flat up against it

Staring straight into eyes that see through you

Swallowing hard

Waiting for your heart to start beating again

There's something about

Being made to crawl across the floor

To a seated Man, staring into your eyes

Not letting you not look at Him

Not letting you stumble

Drawing you to Him without a word

Trembling, a whimper caught in your throat

There's something about

Being pulled up by your hair

Feeling that hand slink up your neck

Into your tresses, close to the scalp

Grabbing, gripping it, guttural sounds emitting from His lips

The pain not nearly as strong as the urge

To cry or bite a hole through your bottom lip

There's something about

Being bitten

Especially on the back of the neck or nipple

Feeling His teeth so close to piercing you

Wondering, as you cry out, if He will, this time

Wondering, if you're going to bleed for your Submission

There's something about

Being bent over the back of a chair, without warning

Without pretense, without question

Having your skirt flipped up, cool air hitting hot skin

Your cheeks blushing, with the same color of your ass

As He warms it with the striking of the palm of His hand

The tears you cry not cooling you

The tears you cry because He has found you

There's something about

Those words He uses

Those names He calls you

Those phrases meant to elicit a response

And you do respond

All of you responds

And your body betrays you, always

There's something about

Being thrown down and taken

Not against your will

For your will is to be there

To please, to submit, to offer, to relinquish

And you cry out for breath, for more, for Him

And you know you are home

There's something about

Being dragged into the shower

Forced to your knees

Hissed at for silence

Growled at to be still

And awaiting the flow

That you know

Marks You as HIS

There's something about

Kneeling quietly beside Him

Your body reddened, coated, tired

Your mind silent, for once ~ for a time

Your head bowed, your eyes closed

Your lips quivering as His fingers touch you

Your submission, unquestioned

Your Peace at Hand

Author Unknown

I had a very nice time at the Flea.. unfortunately I did not get to see all of Midori's class on humiliation play..:(

There were always in me, two women at least,
one woman desperate and bewildered,
who felt she was drowning and another who
would leap into a scene, as upon a stage,
conceal her true emotions because they
were weaknesses, helplessness, despair,
and present to the world only a smile,
an eagerness, curiosity, enthusiasm, interest. - Anais Nin