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Male Switch, 35, Minot, North Dakota
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About widget24

Time for a re-write. I've had my last profile up for a couple years now...and while it was still relevant, it needed a re-fresh.
Its hard to believe that I've been on this site for something like 6-7ish years now. Long enough that I have lost track. I've had some great experiences so far, and met some cool people; and I look forward to what is to come.
One piece of writing that describes me well can be found https://fetlife.com/users/1160335/posts/1172726.
I can not tell you how much that accurately describes me. Some of you may be thinking...wait, isn't he a dominant? Yes I am. Introverts can still be dominant. It just means we have a different way of going about things. If you're going to understand me, it is important to understand this writing.
I have my personal life together. There is no drama present. And I am looking for someone to share it with.

What I'm Looking for


As with most people on here, I am hoping to find something that could turn into something long term. I'm fine with taking my time, and waiting for the right girl to come along. Until she does, short term relationships and play partners are an option. But I would really like to be friends too. As for the 'type' of person I'd ideally like to find...I'm open. My interests are fairly "standard", and I tend to get along well with most people, so shoot me a message (or reply to the one I sent) and let's talk. I will say that I'd like to find someone who has some drive in their life.
Location seems to always be an issue as well. I enjoy traveling...and work can take me pretty much anywhere in the US (and potentially internationally too!). I also enjoy traveling on my personal time as well. If you're near an airport that I can fly to directly from Chicago...then hands down...I would hop on a plane to meet you when the time was right (or have you hop on a plane to come see me). So, I am not opposed to long distance, but both of us need to be able to put in the effort to make it work.
As for looks, again, I am open. I do have my preferences, but everyone is different, and it would be hard to quantify the variations I might be interested in.
As for age, I generally I like to keep within 5-10 years of my current age. But, if something feels right, there's no reason for age to get in the way.

Interests


I do have a diverse list of interests, things I've done and things I'd like to do. Part of me never wants to limit myself to a list...and I just want to limit myself to what we both are interested in exploring. I have a few interests listed on here, but If there's something you don't see, or think I might enjoy...let's talk about it. If I had to pick a 'Top 5' list here it is...

  • Rope

  • Spanking

  • Wax/Ice/Sensation play

  • Orgasm Control/Denial

  • Breast/Nipple torture


Photography


I do enjoy photography quite a lot too. I a photo posted on here, and I have a wonderful portfolio I'm willing to share with those who ask. If you ever need a photographer for something kinky...or even vanilla, I'd be happy to help with that. I am not a full time photographer, so my availability is at the mercy of work and other personal engagements. I do consider this a very serious hobby, and I have lots of money invested in the body and lenses I own.

Other stuff


I do have a face photo to share for those of you who are interested too, but you'll have to ask nicely or be one of my friends on here. The majority of photos I have are all a more than 6 months old. So, I will try to update some new ones when I get a chance. But I tend to not be in front of the camera lens.
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