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Applicants invited. Do you dare to become a true woman?

I am a Stepford Mentor, this is often confused with being a Dom or Master.

I will not chase you across the net or spend hours with protracted email and drivel or pretend 'dom sessions'. Read the profile and journal, if it tugs at the core of your being, contact me. On occasion this place confuses me, I cannot understand why some on here think brutalisation is domination. I suppose that this thought is typical of the StepforWay, where soft control is exerted continually, so that the individual concerned slides into a dream of subtle bonds and ties.
More recently I have been studying hypnosis and using it with girls to empower the inner woman. The ability to leave the male aspect behind and live, when dressed, as a mentally fully enabled woman is liberating I am told.


As a Stepford Mentor I like girls and -Tgirls, I love the act of controlling them, taking a sissy and turning her into a perfect school girl or a t-girl and bringing her to the point of being a perfectly elegant woman. With woman the joy of returning them to the role they were designed for to be, nurtured, controlled and steered to perfection is such a thrill. It has been remarked to me that 'being powerless and surrendering to control is very empowering'.

The first thing that must be understood is that a Stepford Mentor is not a 'Master or a Dom', while he has several aspects of both. As a mentor my role is to guide the Stepford Woman into ever increasing femininity and act as a true man for her true woman.

For more information on the Stepford Way READ MY JOURNAL, it will answer many of your questions.

I am a guy who likes to be in control of the situation, I like to lead and initiate. I firmly believe in the Stepford Wife way of a relationship. A woman should be guided, on occasion forcefully, into becoming something more beautiful and desirable, every movement every attitude, every thought until she represents perfection.

My personal desire is to push my partner into the perfection and personification of all that a woman could be. You may be a woman or a TV but the evolved individual can be guided into becoming a Stepford Wife, this is the ultimate expression of being a woman. If you wish to evolve read these books: How to be adored, Caroline Cox; 1940's Hair styles (Vintage living Series) Daniela Turdich; Pocket Book of Etiquette, Margery Wilson. As for style, you will see a couple of photos of what you should be considering, if you want a genuine experience with a guy who takes his time and knows what he is doing read on, if its just on-line fantasy, pick another.

Before we start I need you know I am a man and you are a woman. At all times I will take regard of your femininity and your female nature. I would ask a fundamental question, why are you scared of finding someone who wants treat you like the woman you are, a man who can see the real you inside your mind? If you are not then read on.

So if you want to fall into a mans arms, know your place, like 50's style and attitude and want to look like the screen goddess, sit by the fire and snuggle, pour your man a glass of wine, receive flowers, wear stockings, heels and a corset, be complimented, hold a conversation, be kissed and consider that the two essential things to be found by the side of the bed are a bottle of pink champagne and a pair of handcuffs- drop me a line.

The essential qualifications of a Stepford Girl

If you understand why Aristoc made fully fashioned stockings.
If you understand why ladies choose to wear them.
If you understand why silk babydoll night dresses were designed.
If you understand the effect they have on men.
If you smile when you put on a corset.
If you grin when you put on 4 inch heels.
If your nails and lipstick and lip colour match.
If you drink champagne from a dish not a flute.
If you have a shoe collection to rival Imelda Marcos
If you prefer silk, satin and leather to polyester.
If you understand why erotica and passion is often wasted on the young.

Then you follow the way Goddess.

If you have not archive this yet you can become one, there is a path you can follow, remember all screen goddess's were self inventions.

I am 5'10 strongly built, sort of between stocky and muscular . Mid brown hair, sea grey eyes and a slightly school boyish charm. I have a casual and classic dress style, in away just casual ordinary.

When I'm in the chat room drop me a line I'm always polite and sometimes even amusing. In this very crazy world we live in people who think like you and share your point of view are at a premium. As much as anything, just sitting down with a glass of wine or a cup of coffee in our situation, and just being as we feel we ought to be can be as big a head rush as anything else. When it leads to the bedrooms in can be even bigger. I am a man who likes babes who have something extra to offer. As far as I'm concerned the TV babes cultivate all of the feminine charms and do all of it much better than RG's.

I have a fondness for 'cool jazz' Miles Davis Kinda Blue, delta blues, MJQ, heavy rock from the 70's, and a general mixture of classics including some modern.


I am not a puber or a clubber though I do occasionally go to them, more opera and cream teaer. But on the other hand if you have never been and want to go and be escorted a gentlemen as well... consider me. I will even pick you up and deliver you safe back home, sometimes you just go out and have fun.

The erotic Dream.

Dressed in a pencil skirt, white linen shirt and a broad belt, Dream is wearing stiletto heels and sheer seamed stockings, around her neck she has a little pink scarf. She is standing in front of the kitchen sink as I enter, she appears not to notice me. As ever when she does domestic things she is wearing a pair of long black latex gloves. Silently I approach her from behind and put my arms about her waist, I pull her gently to me and kiss her neck. Dream presses her body against mine, still she does not look at me. I feel my manhood rising as I stroke her hips, she gives a little sigh. I hold her and kiss her neck and lick the top of her back. Slowly I pull her skirt up around her hips, I kneel down and begin to kiss the tops of her legs, her reaction is a little shiver. I run my tongue across the tops of her legs where the stockings meet flesh and then across her cheeks. She gives out a little groan and bends forward, grasping the taps and silently parts her legs.

Slowly I enter her, she is using a femidom because she has planned this little erotic encounter, I begin by a gentle thrusting but then slow down as she clenches her buttocks in time to me massaging my cock which is deep inside her. I concentrate on not cumming as her internal massage comes to a climax. As she cums, giving out a low moan, I resume a slow gentle thrusting, my continued thrusts bring little yelps of protest as the sensual agony becomes almost to much for her. I climax into her holding myself tight against her. For a while we stand still, with me inside her while we both experience the sensations of being one and spent passion. We stand there full in the knowledge as a pair both in control and being controlled.

I withdraw and she wiggles her skirt down and returns to the washing. The scene is as before I entered except for a faint smell and a patch of something sticky on the cupboard in front of her, as I turn to go a droplet falls from between her legs, and runs down a stocking, she gives another little shiver and returns to domestic duties.

Want to become your own fantasy?

I'll String Along With You

You may not be an angel, `cause angels are so few,
But until the day that one comes along, I'll string along with you.
I'm looking for an angel, to sing my love so to,
And until the day that ones along, I'll string along with you.
For every fault that you have, say, I've got three or four,
The human little faults that you do have, just make me love you more.
You may not be an angel but still I'm sure you'll do,
So until the day that one comes along, I'll string along with you.

Sung By: Frank Sinatra
I respond to all emails.

Don't just look, say hello!

WHAT I WANT. Due to my life and work this is not going to be a 24/7 relationship. But I will dress you, caress you and meet up once or twice a month at a hotel at my expense. When my life changes this may well become 24/7 until then it is an escape for both of us to a world we both desire.

Before you go a general note. I have no control over those who decide to appoint themselves as 'admirers' on this site. Some of the people who do may well not share the same values in life as me. If they are on a list do exercise the normal and sensible caution that you would use any other situation on the net.


Whizz

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 Hetero

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9/23/2010 2:22:57 PM
Ladies to be inspired by.


http://moviemaidens.com/

8/25/2010 11:49:53 AM

The Good Wife's Guide

From Housekeeping Monthly, 13 May, 1955.

This probably a fake article but it does reflect the views of women in magazines of the time.  For a stepford it is an aspiration and a positive role model on the possibilities of being a perfect woman.

  • Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
  • Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
  • Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
  • Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
  • During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
  • Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
  • Be happy to see him.
  • Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
  • Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
  • Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
  • Don't complain if he's late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
  • Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
  • Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
  • Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
  • A good wife always knows her place. 

    ‘A good wife always knows her place’ we would amend to ‘A good wife always knows her place and is confidant in her ability to perform her duties to perfection. This is her contribution to her husband and home and is her fundamental strength’.




8/22/2010 2:01:53 AM

http://stores.ebay.co.uk/TopRunway
    

I have been asked where is a good place to shop for a stepford girl?  Gloria who is beside me at the moment had a classic suit or three made by these people.  They look very chic and are nicely fitted being made to measure.  Happy browsing ladies.

Whizz

Gloria had a wonderful time, a lady complimented her on her dress and shoes, men seeing that she was a woman and a classy lady let her into the lift first. She had a delightful time as did we both. One guy said to me as i was walking towards her, he did not know we were together, 'thats a classy bit of stuff!' to which I replied 'Thank you I shall tell Gloria you liked what you saw'. At this point he got a bit flustered and just grinned and then said 'You lucky bugger, thats one hot lady'. To which I replied 'You have no idea!'  I left him drooling and took Glorias arm and we moved on.


8/21/2010 12:33:22 AM

This will be an interesting weekend, I am taking 'Gloria' out for her first public encounter as a stepford.  Gloria has had another aspect before as a party girl at various clubs, but this is the first time she as ventured forth as a full stepford girl. So art gallery in the morning, then lunch. After that the theater which involves a dress change and in the evening dinner at the hotel which has a jazz band so the possibility of dancing.

I will keep you all informed.

Whizz

8/18/2010 11:02:01 PM
Borrowed from sweetpuppy77

8/19/2010 5:48:20 AM 
"Most men who think they are dominant really aren't. They are just insecure and mean."- Craigslist is a fountain of wisdom.  
How true this is, its easy to pinch, prod, shout and scream, ignore a person while they watch tv and the girl suffers both boredom and discomfort.  But to be active in their thought process, to be with them at the point in time, to continually watch and correct and if need be apply thinking discipline, this is an erotic and compassionate art form.

Thank you Puppy77.

8/16/2010 11:17:29 PM

Amusing

while in the chat room on this site a young man said 'dressing is boring and shows no control', nakedness in his mind was the only solution. While I respect his opinion I feel he has not thought it through.

There is nothing more controlling than 1000 times a day checking to ensure perfection of dress, style, makeup and presentation. Irrespective of discomfort of your corset or heels, making sure you are looking serene and have a kind and polite word for all. 

The stepford is the most controlled and self aware individual in the room, they run a continual program of self observation and analysis. Constantly running through their mind the list of endless instructions and guidance given by the mentor. They are only to aware that were they to make a mistake that the mentor considers to be one that should not of happened some form of punishment may ensue. From sleeping in shoes, to (if they are a tv) buying tampons and using them, small things that ensure that the stepford knows their place.

Nakedness may well come into a relationship but in such a controlled way as to be something special and as a contrast against the norm. It is often used to bring out the need for femininity and encourage the stepford to understand that dress and perfection as a stepford girl is her true state.

Dressing can often be a greater discipline than nakedness. It offers more challenges for perfection and maintaining that perfection that is sought after in the perfect stepford girl.

Below is a very good link to a modern article on 'power dressing', stepfords will find some of it most interesting. For a true stepford this is a little too modern as it is a watered down version of dressing, for the beginer it will be very informative.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/charlotte-safavi/fashion-power-dressing-fo_b_638230.html                                            


8/15/2010 1:56:21 AM
 

Becoming a Stepford Woman
Home study



To me the the Stepford TV is perfection and personification of all that a woman could be. The evolved stepford can be guided into becoming the ultimate expression of being a woman or a man.  Becoming a stepford is as much as anything about changing the achitecture of the mind, every action irrespective of dress, social occasion or working life is dictated by the stepford ethics. It is possible to be a stepford 24/7 whatever your social or personal circumstances.
To be a stepford is to be proud and confidant, the personal awareness that you have total conviction in your place in society and the role that you fill in it is a wonderful feeling. To know that you bow and respect your mentor and that in turn your mentor values every single aspect of you and your persona.  Stepford mentors care not if you are tall, short, fat or thin only that you try to attain perfection and that the perfection is guided and nourished.



 If you wish to evolve read these books:

How to be adored, Caroline Cox

1940's Hair styles (Vintage living Series) Daniela Turdich

Pocket Book of Etiquette, Margery Wilson. 

For foundation wear:
http://www.whatkatiedid.com

For other clothing

http://www.vivienofholloway.com//index.php

http://www.pandoraschoice.com/

Look up classic 40/50's dress in Google and type in Classic Wiggle dress in images.
 

As a general principle a stepford is a modern woman in control of her life, her attitude, dress and demeanour are all designed to entice her man, she seduces by compliance and subtle feminine ways. Her acknowledgement of her status gives her confidence, glamour and sensuality lost on so many others.
As for style, you will see a few of photos of what you should be considering on my profile or just type in Wiggle Dress to google images and see what you get.

If you want  a genuine experience with a mentor who takes his time and knows what he is doing read on and do some home study. 
If its just online fantasy, pick another. While I understand that fate is cruel and in our modern socitey many awaken late to their desires and needs, if this is just a fantasy or a firtive wankfest late at night please respect my wishes and do not waste my time.

Whizz


8/10/2010 11:14:35 AM

Dinner in and out

 

A stepford, if she was to eat alone, may well consider wearing her post luncheon wear until it is time to retire, however if she is expecting guest or her partner she would pay a little more attention to her clothing.  She would shower and change for a longer dress or a skirt which would allow no more than a 14” stride, the trade mark hip sway of a stepford is to be cultivated at all times. A stepford does have power as a modern girl and knows that she should in subtle ways entice her man. A stepford would not choose a mini dress, such things are for young girls and she would never dream of falling into something that could class her as ‘mutton dressed as lamb’, a stepford is aware that the less flesh she shows to the world, the more exciting it is to her man to get glimpses of her, this is part of her personal power.

 

Dress for dinner may include a sheath dress, matching jewellery with earrings and bracelet. Her cincher would be nipped in another inch or two and she would adopt a higher and even more delicate heel, the choice of open toe being left up to her mood of the moment.  It is know that modern girls do smoke but an etiquette is required for this, a stepford never lights her own cigarette, She will wait for a man to light it for her, if they do not she will put it away with a smile. At this point she should ask of herself what is it she has done wrong. Did she not radiate enough femininity or charm to make a man realise she needed this service, what was it that prevented her feminine aura shinning through?

 

Dinning out, the first thing that must be emphasised is that a ball gown is for a ball, not a restaurant or semi-formal gathering. A stepford would never place a host or hostess in a position of being embarrassed or even worse amused by her sense of dress. There is one tactic that can be used and that is the statement that you are ‘going on somewhere else’ after the event.


 http://www.vintageous.com/dressy.htm

Wisdom when out at an event:

  1. Never cross your legs, put your knees together and cant your legs sideways.
  2. If you smoke, smoke only half a cigarette, extinguishing should be as elegant as lighting.
  3. Champagne should be drunk from a dish not a flute. A dish was the thing in Paris, New York and London before the flute.
  4. Never drink pints of anything, uggh! Wine, cocktails or mocktails are the rule.
  5. Never smoke when walking or on street corners.

 

For a dress, a dress of longer length, with shoulders exposed should you wish. Gloves if worn should be well fitting and match, there is nothing worse than a badly fitted glove. Sheer dark stocking should be worn unless they clash, a clutch bag and of course an evening coat of some description, irrespective of the weather.


8/8/2010 1:18:18 AM

The Stepford Man.

The first thing that must be understood is that a Stepford Man is not a 'Master or a Dom', while he has several aspects of both, a Stepford Man is a Mentor.  As a mentor his role is to guide the stepford into ever increasing femininity and act as a true man for her true woman.

The acts of mentoring are the six Wisdom Tactics know to stepfords as 'The Wisdom'.

Since the focus of mentoring is to develop the whole person, the techniques are broad and require wisdom in order to be used appropriately.

1. Accompanying: means making a commitment in a caring way. Accompanying involves taking part in the learning process by taking the path with the learner.

2. Sowing: Mentors are often confronted with the difficulty of preparing the learner before he or she is ready to change. Sowing is necessary when you know that what you say may not be understood or even acceptable to learners at first but will make sense and have value to the mentee when the situation requires it.

3. Catalysing: When change reaches a critical level of pressure, learning can jump. Here the mentor chooses to plunge the learner right into change, provoking a different way of thinking, a change in identity or a re-ordering of values.

4. Showing: this is making something understandable, or using your own example to demonstrate a skill or activity. You show what you are talking about, you show by your own behaviour.

5. Harvesting: Here the mentor focuses on "picking the ripe fruit": it is usually learned to create awareness of what was learned by experience and to draw conclusions. The key questions here are: "What have you learned?" "How useful is it?"

6 Steering: Stepfords do not shout or bully they direct. The direction my be forceful on occasion but is considered e.g. a stepford girl has complained that her feet ache to another, not the mentor, and removed her shoes. The male would quietly and politely say to his partner 'do you think that is appropriate dear?' Being female she may just of forgoton the initial Sowing lesson, but if she did it a second time discipline and education would be needed in some form. For some this may require having their feet padlocked into the footware and sleeping in the shoes, others my require stronger discipline.

Stepford man and dress
A stepford man try’s to avoid jeans t-shirts with slogans and etc when out with his partner, he pays her the compliment of wearing elegant trousers a shirt and tie, possibly a casual suit. There is an exception to the dress code which is manly pursuits such as motor cycling, walking, climbing, martial arts etc.

A stepford man asks his partners opinion about his personal clothing as she wishes to be as proud of him in public as he is of her. In the same sense shoes are polished not scuffed and dirty.  In the same sense they always try to be well groomed, clean neat and odourless.

The stepford man encourages the personal art of being as much as possible a gentleman. This makes any disciple that has to be applied even more extreme as his comment would be 'I am doing this for your own good so you remember that at all times you are a lady' or 'I am doing this because I value you, love you and want you to be perfect'.

At all times during a stepford relationship, limits and fears have to be respected. Ultimately a stepford relationship is about the joy of having a perfect partner; this perfection has to be developed. Some relationships require more discipline, others more nudity at home the point being that the stepford relationship is a mutual path of discovery.

A note for some men, there are Stepford Female Mentors, do not be shocked, you do not own the province of mentorship. Let us be realistic some men need all the guidance they can get!


8/6/2010 1:31:13 PM

Lunch and dressing

The stepford is dutiful in her attention to the daily routine. She would set the table, stepfords do not eat off a try or standing up, the place setting would be appropriate to the meal provided. She will change for lunch the day dress would be removed, make up and eye liner and lashes inspected, a richer  lipstick applied. She would at this point choose a crisp blouse and pencil skirt or a ‘wiggle’ or sheath dress. In addition she may swap her pearls for a gold chain or similar. Some girls at this point wear a waist cincher over the corselet and tug themselves in about an inch or two tighter. This has the affect of reaffirming their femininity and control the appetite.  She would also choose another pair of shoes appropriate to her dress and at this point they should be finer and a little higher with a more slender heel. A stepford girl always ends a meal with a compliment and leaves a little on the plate claiming that she is ‘just to full to eat another morsel’.

 

This mode of dress would remain for the entire afternoon and early evening while she prepared the evening meal for her partner. At that point after preparing food she would change in anticipation of his arrival, possibly shower and apply her perfume. At this point she is setting the mood of the home for his arrival.


8/6/2010 1:18:54 PM




Morning or day dress.

This is for general wear about the house, cleaning and general food shopping, as such it can be considered as ‘day or domestic’ wear.

She will start the day in a below the knee, mid calf day dress, often but not always, in a floral pattern. If she is cleaning she will wear a pinafore. Her shoes will be a moderate heel of no less than 2.5”  (6 cm), below this level is considered a ‘flat shoe’ which is something she would never consider. She will wear foundation garments such as a corselet to dictate form and shape, seamed stockings and suspenders. Hold ups are never considered unless suspenders are used.

 

If she decides to shop for food or domestic items this is perfectly adequate clothing, she would of course wear a suitable coat carry a hand or clutch bag and have gloves, whether worn or not, at hand in case of need.  The gloves would be black , red or matching.


 http://www.dorotheasclosetvintage.com/1950s.html     this website will provide you with some wonderful examples.


8/6/2010 1:18:10 PM

A note on foot wear.

Stepfords do not wear the outrageous footwear that is often seen as part of burlesque shows and displays. The only occasion anything as vulgar or cheap would be worn is when she is being intimate at home with her partner.  In the same sense a stepford never goes bare foot under any circumstances. Even when waking at night for a call of nature she will put on an appropriate pair of mules with a suitable heel, stepford’s do not own ‘flats’. Stepfords do not take their shoes off in public, neither do they complain about their feet hurting or being uncomfortable. The stepford wears a mask of feminine calm and charm at all times, it is her armour against the world, her feet may hurt but she would never show it or reveal it at any point. It is her pride that as a woman she endures the discomfort, as the discomfort is a constant reminder of her own efforts and perfection.

 


8/6/2010 12:55:37 PM

Stepford

 

Dress and the day

 

A stepford girl has three distinct modes of dress. The dress style is very detailed as it is about the discipline of the feminine form, this discipline requires effort and self observation. It goes beyond the common ‘its feels so good to be dressed’ cathartic activity. The mode of dress is about acute self observation and analysis, does this match, is my make up correct, do these heels look appropriate, are my seams straight. The art of dressing is about perfecting her role as a stepford and the psychological perfection required to become the perfect woman. This is why only seamed stockings are worn, they require observation and continual self assessment in the form of ‘are the seams straight’? Only by the continual repetition of a feminine thought process and actions can a truly feminine mind be constructed, in effect the stepford programs her mind by actions and activities into becoming truly and classically female.


8/4/2010 11:01:28 PM

I have been asked by a few of the TV/TS ladies here to expound on the 'stepford' principle of existence. So this journal will contain occasional musings and thoughts upon the subject. 

Many of you will be familiar with the film 'The Stepford Wives' and that the term has become to some an insult. The stepford concept is badly understood and gets very bad press. Simply put a stepford life is to be guided and controlled by 'The discipline of the feminine form'.

The discipline of the feminine form requires both thought and effort. It requires a code of conduct that can be lived in a practical way 24/7 even if your other life does not allow you the freedom to outwardly express your inner desires. 

As I post I will go through the various aspects of the stepford way of existance , but for now contemplate the effort it takes to remain gracious and well dressed and groomed, being well mannered to all. Its difficult but the discipline of the feminine form can allow you to do this.

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