Warrior


WarriorDom Male Dominant, 32, Middle, Tennessee	Warriormaster Male Dominant, 51, Rockford, Illinois	warriorofthem Male Dominant, 49, Columbus, Georgia

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	About Warrior The intellectual profile that was here for years is gone. It got lots of looks and some responses over time, but never got me the results. And as I age, and enjoyed a few very intense relationships, life is, and was, very good. But now it is time to find a proper fit. I am a secure, financially and otherwise, older guy. So here is the short version I am looking for a full and complete relationship, both in and out of the lifestyle. I am not however, a big time participant in lifestyle events. I want someone who wants to do all those Leave it to Beaver type things couples do in those idyllic television lifestyles of the 50s.... go to dinner, go on vacation, shop, etc. I am a participant in life in general and want you to be as well. I want someone however, who enjoys the physical side of the lifestyle, someone who wants the whip and chain side and wants to serve and service. You must not only be a willing partner, but also a wanting partner who truly enjoys, perhaps even craves, that side of life and wants to satisfy. I can provide safety, security and stability and will cherish the one who fulfills my needs. Easy to say, hard to do, but I have done it before. Much to discuss. I am not in a hurry and I respect that each person has their own views. I do not need to bend or break someone to satisfy my ego but would rather find a compatible thinker.

I wander around here every year or so to update age. I would really like to be ageless like those people who haven't aged a day in 10 years.

People write a lot and say very little. I have to assume it is intentional, but a profile is a marketing activity, so if you wish to get noticed, say something about yourself. But alas, that is not the way of the online community.

Online dating/meeting is like door to door sales. Knock on 100 doors and 97 either don't respond or slam the door in your face. But that is typical of life in general, so I will keep on going with life.... I am happy where I find myself today.

Life can present challenges, and if you are strong and Dominant, you overcome them. Like most people I have had my share, but I perservere and overcome and maintain my sunny outlook on life and positive attitude. That's the way I am.

I know who I am, I know what I can do and I know what I have to offer. As I age, age no longer matters. But I can provide that nurturing, calm and safe environment that most people truly want, but almost nobody talks about. But so many are scared that someone is not what they seem or worse, too good to be true. Live life. Give life a try. See what you get in a positive sense.

Life itself is interesting. I still occasionally read and often chuckle (remember that word?) at the profiles of "submissive" and "slave" women. What do I find interesting? They still think it is all about them.... I want this and I want that. But it is not about you, nor is it really about the Dominant exclusively. It is about how one interacts with the other. How each makes the other "feel good" about themselves and life. About how each takes responsibility as well as enjoying the pleasures of life. When you get there with someone, you will know.

I have been there. It is nice. But it is not an easy road to travel. What say you?

A lot of people on these sites are unrealistic, to say the least.    The ladies want hunks, the men want supermodels, or porn stars half their age.    Come on folks.     For the most part, not going to happen unless there is a lot of money involved in the relationship.

So here's the deal.   I am looking for a good woman who has wants and desires that are complementary to mine, but of course on the sub side.   I have no problem with a nice lady who is over 50.   I want to make clear I am not prowling the 30 year olds and would welcome someone who knows what life is about and what it takes.

I also am willing to travel to find the right one, who would eventually relocate.   I have the time, energy and resources to accomplish that.

I cant read every profile here.   Nobody can.   So if I don't find you, it is fine if you find me and send a note.

Enjoy.

A great many people seem to have lost their way in the lifestyle. Dominance for example, is not about how many whips you own, or how harsh you can treat someone. True Dominance is an innate trait that someone either does or does not possess. How it manifests itself varies greatly among people, but the common thread is that it is not a role to play, but rather a part of someone.

Similarly, submission, or being a submissive, is also something that is a part of a person. Certainly once again, how one expresses their submissiveness varies with each human, but overall once again, it is not something that is a role one "assumes" on Saturday night. I see a real submissive as someone with a compelling need to serve.

A good relationship between a Dominant and a submissive acknowledges that need to serve on the part of the submissive and a Dominant who actually knows how to accept that service and appreciate it. That is a beginning. Beyond that there has to be a level of both passion and compassion, and a knowledge within the Dominant that a true submissive is a precious person who has to be supported in her daily life (emotionally, etc.... ).

Physical activities are only one part of the mix, but they are important. I have always found, and of course this is my opinion, that the best relationships are those in which the submissive and Dominant are on the same page, and the submissive is a willing participant in what transpires, as opposed to being "forced" or seeing some things as a "duty."

But each person has their own ideas and they are to be respected. On the other hand, if you see yourself as reasonably compatible with my goals and objectives, say so.

Always happy to engage in meaningful conversation.

It amazes me at the lack of understanding that most people have, not just about the lifestyle, but about life itself.   But I digress.

Lets talk about that thing called a Dominant, yes with a Capital D.   Not the I play with toys type, but the type that has a strong knowledge of what he/she is all about, a modicum of self esteem, is self assured and really does not need to "force" that dominance upon anyone.   Think about it. If one is truly Dominant, then one exudes that dominance in all aspects of his/her life.

However, that does not mean that someone is always barking orders or demanding service. It means that inside you there is something that you feel. It means you are the one who can be strong in time of need, and at least for many, can stand back and support someone rather than putting them down to stroke the ego.    On the other hand, one also would not suffer fools gladly, and looks for someone who is compatible and competent.

Let me ask this.   Which is worth more?   Someone who bows out of fear or someone who bows out of respect?   Some from whom you have to demand service, or someone who wants to provide service?

Yes... I have been reading profiles again and once again, laughing and shaking my head at people who fail to understand the basics of human nature, let alone the lifestyle.

Enjoy.

A wealthy hospital benefactor was being shown around the hospital..

During her tour, she passed a room where a male patient was masturbating
furiously.

"Oh my GOD!" screamed the woman. "That's disgraceful! Why is he doing
that?"

The doctor who was leading the tour calmly explained,

"I'm very sorry that you were exposed to that, but this man has a serious
condition where his testicles rapidly fill with semen, and if he doesn't
do that at least five time s a day, he'll be in extreme pain and his
testicles could easily rupture."

Oh, well in that case, I guess it's okay," said the woman..

As they passed by the next room, they saw a male patient laying in bed
while a nurse performed oral sex on him.

Again, the woman screamed, "Oh my GOD! How can THAT be justified?"

Again the doctor spoke very calmly: "Same illness, better health plan."

And yet another politically incorrect entry:

Husband and wife are waiting at the bus stop with their nine children. A
blind man joins them after a few minutes. When the bus arrives, they
find it overloaded and only the wife and the nine kids are able to fit
onto the bus..

So the husband and the blind man decide to walk. After a while, the
husband gets irritated by the ticking of the stick of the blind man as
he taps it on the sidewalk, and says to him, 'Why don't you put a piece
of rubber at the end of your stick? That ticking sound is driving me
crazy.'

The blind man replies, 'If you had put a rubber at the end of YOUR stick, we'd be riding the bus, so shut the hell up.'

THIS OUGHT TO MAKE ALL GRANDPAS FEEL WARM & FUZZY....

A six year old goes to the hospital with her grandmother to visit her
Grandpa.

When they get to the hospital, she runs ahead of her Grandma and bursts
into her Grandpa's room...

"Grandpa, Grandpa," she says excitedly, "As soon as Grandma comes into the
room, make a noise like a frog!"

"What?" said her Grandpa.

Make a noise like a frog - because Grandma said that as soon as you Croak, we're all going to DisneyWorld!"

A woman walks into an accountant's office and tells him that she needs to file her taxes.

The accountant says, Before we begin, I'll need to ask you a few questions."

He gets her name, address, social security number, etc.

And then asks "What's your occupation?"

"I'm a lady of the night," she says.

The accountant is somewhat taken aback and says, " Let's try to rephrase that."

The woman says, "OK, I'm a high-end call girl".

"No, that still won't work. Try again."

They both think for a minute; then the woman says, "I'm an elite chicken farmer."

The accountant asks, "What does chicken farming have to do with being a prostitute?"

"Well, I raised a thousand little peckers last year."

"Chicken Farmer it is."

Bad joke of the day......

> You are on the bus when you suddenly realize ... you need
> to fart.
>
> The music is really loud, so you time your farts with the
> beat. After a couple of songs, you start to feel better as
> you approach your stop.
>
> As you are leaving the bus, people are really staring you
> down, and that's when you realize, you have been listening to
> your iPod.

Do you happen to know why?

When a woman wears a leather dress,
A man's heart beats quicker,
And his throat gets dry,
He goes weak in the knees,
And he begins to think irrationally.

Ever wonder why?

Because she smells like a new car!

Happy Hour In Texas

A cowboy is driving down a back road in Texas

A sign in front of a Restaurant reads:

Happy Hour Special......Lobster Tail and Beer

"Lord almighty" he says to himself, "my three favorite things!!"

HIT MAN

Two old friends were just about to tee off at the first hole of their local
golf course when a guy carrying a golf bag called out to them, "Do you mind
if I join you? My partner didn't turn up."

"Sure," they said, "You're welcome." So they started playing and enjoyed the

game and the company of the newcomer. Part way around the course, one of the friends asked the newcomer, "What do you do for a living?"

"I'm a hit man," was the reply.

"You're joking!" was the response.

"No, I'm not," he said, reaching into his golf bag, and pulling out a beautiful Martini sniper's rifle with a large telescopic sight. "Here are my
tools."

"That's a beautiful telescopic sight," said the other friend, "Can I take a
look? I think I might be able to see my house from here." So he picked up
the rifle and looked through the sight in the direction of his house.

"Yeah, I can see my house all right. This sight is fantastic. I can see
right in the window." "Wow, I can see my wife in the bedroom. Ha Ha, I can
see she's naked!! Wait a minute, that's my neighbour in there with her......

He's naked, too!!!

He turned to the hit man, "How much do you charge for a hit?"

"I'll do a flat rate, for you, one thousand dollars every time I pull the
trigger."

"Can you do two for me now?"

"Sure, what do you want?"

"First, shoot my wife, she's always been mouthy, so shoot her in the mouth."

"Then the neighbour, he's a friend of mine, so just shoot his pecker off to
teach him a lesson."

The hit man took the rifle and took aim, standing perfectly still for a few
minutes.

"Are you going to do it or not?" said the friend impatiently.

"Just be patient," said the hit man calmly, "I think I can save you a grand
here....."

A judge working a double-homicide case tells the defendant, "You're charged
with beating your wife to death with a hammer."

"You bastard!" yells a voice from the back of the courtroom.

"You're also charged with killing your mother-in-law with a hammer," says
the judge.

"Bastard!" the same person yells.

The judge addresses the man sitting in the back of the courtroom."Sir, one
more outburst and I'll charge you with contempt."

"I'm sorry, Your Honor," says the man. "But I've been this bastard's
neighbor for 10 years, and every time I asked to borrow a hammer, he said he
didn't have one."

There seems to be much discussion, as well there should be, about what the relative roles of Masters, Dominants (not Dominates), slaves and submissives are and should be.   Quite frankly, I see some general parameters, but beyond that the relationships that develop are and should be what the parties to the relationship want, need and are comfortable with.

Having stated my general view, it is clear to me that there are some defined roles in the lifestyle, no matter how they are modified to suit the specific people.   First of all, this lifestyle to a great extent is about power exchange.   To start that places power, however one later defines that, in the hand of the Master or Dominant. But with that power comes also a great responsibility, which is to nurture and protect those who are in service to you. It appears to me that in all too many cases, both sides tend to forget their obligations and responsibilities and only consider the benefits and pleasures.

I used the word "service."   Another term of art in the lifestyle.   What is it? It is what the parties to the relationship negotiate and those negotiations can be formal or informal, and even unsaid, as a relationship evolves.

My wants and needs in some ways are no different than many others.   However, I live a simple life, and desire simple things, although for some they may be very complicated.   As an example, I dont need someone to clean my house, but if she wishes to as a form of service, I will certainly recognize it in a positive sense.   But if I am otherwise satisfied, that is not a necessity and I can hire that out.    To others it is a necessity. So be it and to each their own.

I am not, for example, one to exclude someone from contact with others.   I feel there is a constant need for intellectual growth. At the same time I do not share well in terms of the physical sense, so what's mine is mine in that regard.

As one can see, we are all different.   Anyone want to comment or discuss?

Tom was in his early 50's, retired and started a second career

However, he just couldn't seem to get to work on time. Every day, 5, 10, 15
minutes late. But he was a good worker, real sharp, so the Boss was in a
quandary about how to deal with it. Finally, one day he called him into the
office for a talk.

"Tom, I have to tell you, I like your work ethic, you do a bang-up job, but
you're being late so often is quite bothersome.'

"Yes, I know Boss, and I am working on it."

"Well good, you are a team player. That's what I like to hear. It's odd
though, you're coming in late. I know you're retired from the Air Force.
What did they say if you came in late there?"

"They said, "Good morning, General."

A retired four-star general ran into his former orderly, also
retired, in a Manhattan bar and spent the rest of the evening
persuading him to come work for him as his valet.
"Your duties will be exactly the same as they were in the army," the
general said. "Nothing to it -- you'll catch on again fast."

The next morning, promptly at eight o'clock, the ex-orderly entered
the ex-general's bedroom, pulled open the drapes, gave the general a
gentle shake, strode around the other side of the bed, spanked his
employer's wife on her bottom and said, "OK, sweetheart, it's back to
the village for you."

Two old drunk Navy Chiefs are in a bar. The first one says, "Ya know, when
I was 30 and got an erection, I couldn't bend it even using both hands. By
the time I was 40, I could bend it about 10 degrees if I tried really
hard. By the time I was 50, I could bend it about 20 degrees, no problem.
I'm gonna be 60 next week and now I can almost bend it in half with just
one hand"

"So", says the second Chief, "what's your point?"

"Well, "says the first, "I'm just wondering how much stronger I'm gonna
get!"

How many of you fear success? How many of you, when you find that situation that brings you great happiness, think it is too good to be true, and whether consciously or not, seem to work to make it fail?

How many of you are afraid that if you give too much of yourself, the only thing that can happen is that someone will take advantage of you?

I wonder how many subs and slaves hold back their hearts and souls because they are afraid? How does one overcome the fear?

An Irishman, an Englishman and a Scot were sitting in a bar. The view was fantastic, the beer excellent, the food exceptional.

"Y'ken," said the Scotsman, "I still prefer the pubs back hame. Why, in Glasgow there's a wee bar called McTavish's. Now, the landlord there goes out of his way for the locals so much that when you buy 4 drinks, he will buy the 5th drink for you."

"Well," said the Englishman, "at my local, The Red Lion, the barman there will buy you your 3rd drink after you buy the first two."

"Ahhh, that's nuttin," said the Irishman. "Back home in Dublin there's O'Driscoll's Bar. Now, the moment you set foot in the place they'll buy you a drink, then another, all the drinks you like. Then, when you've had enough drinks, they'll take you upstairs and see that you get laid. All on the house."

"Well," said the Englishman, "did this actually happen to you?"

"Not me myself, personally, no," said the Irishman, "but it did happen to me sister several times."

The jokes dont all have to be BDSM related, do they?

Dorothy and Edna, two "senior" widows, are talking.

Dorothy: "That nice George Johnson asked me out for a date. I know you
went out with him last week, and I wanted to talk with you about him
before I give him my answer."

Edna: "Well, I'll tell you. He shows up at my apartment punctually at 7
P.M., dressed like such a gentleman in a fine suit, and he brings me
such beautiful flowers! Then he takes me downstairs, and what's there
but a luxury car... a limousine, uniformed chauffeur and all. Then he
takes me out for dinner... a marvelous dinner... lobster, champagne,
dessert, and after-dinner drinks. Then we go see a show. Let me tell
you, Dorothy, I enjoyed it so much I could have just died from pleasure!
So then we are coming back to my apartment and he turns into an ANIMAL.
Completely crazy, he tears off my expensive new dress and has his way
with me two times!"

Dorothy: "Goodness gracious!... so you are telling me I shouldn't go out
with him?"

Edna: "No, no, no... I'm just saying, wear an old dress."

Some days we need a sense of humor, so here goes.......

The other day Bob, age 70, came home and was greeted
by his wife, dressed only in very sexy underwear and
holding a couple of short velvet ropes.

"Tie me up," she purred, "and then you can do
anything you want."

So, Bob tied her up and went golfing.

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