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About VraxandTara
They can be funny, or sometimes sad, and even occasionally poignant. Too often, however, they're too short, and are obviously written on a paid-per-word basis. Luckily we have Collarme, and so our personals can be as personal as we want them to be, right?
I'm not sure that I can write one with any of the usual abbreviations, as I wouldn't even know where to start. I'm married, but also divorced, not single, but still open, straight-ish, but I don't mind other guys in bed, my wife is a lesbian, except that she's married to me. See, it's complicated. I'm a Top, but also a masochist, and only Dominant with the right woman.
I'm a polytheistic hedonist with strong Asian philosophical beliefs that I live through a filter of South American native tradition. I love wrestling people into submission, but not as much as I love being a sacred whore with a dedicated Tantric practice. Yeah, a Toppish Tantrika whore that will wrestle you into submission, only to heal your heart. Abbreviations just don't stand a chance.
I think science and magick and religion not only can, but must, co-exist. If any of your versions of these preclude or diminish the others, then I think you're a fucking failure at life. Have I mentioned that I am brutally honest? Oh sure, a lot of people say that, only to use it as an excuse to be a dick. Me? I see it as a reason to be a dick, not an excuse after the fact, because I don't need an excuse to be honest. I try to be kind, I try to be good, but I don't give a fuck about being nice.
Kind is doing what's right to do, being as good as you can be. Occasionally you get to be nice at the same time; more often though, you don't. I hate people, because I love them so much, and I see what we all waste. That doesn't make me wise, it just means that I spend a lot of time in the gutter. I really want to build a temple there.
That's what I'm looking for, someone who wants to move into the gutter-temple world of a brilliant lesbrarian (a hot librarian that is into girls) and the pet human that bosses her around sometimes. Someone who finds godliness everywhere, but can admit that some of them are just making fart jokes, and it's ok. Somebody who wants to learn and discuss anatomy with the depth of a surgeon, then cuddle while we watch pulp tv like Supernatural.
I want somebody who takes her appearance into account, who eats sensibly and does something to stay in shape. Someone who loves eating meat from the bone, and carries that attitude into the rest of life. Someone who keeps honing herself so that she can be better at making out with the sky on a sunny afternoon. Or, better yet, a starry night.
And then things get complex, because it's time I mention what we want in the bedroom. See, I don't want for myself in bed any more, I haven't for a long time. I want for my wife and I , not just for me. We're both multi-orgasmic (yep, me too, Tantra rocks) and skillful lovers. Perhaps talented, too, but I mean we're highly trained sex operatives. So you better be ready to join the G.I.Joe team of sex, and bring your best. Also our safe word is Serpentor. Maybe.
Along with the skills that our dream girl already has, she should be ready to train in Tantra, Reiki, anatomy, mantra, and meditation practices. And she needs to either know, or be into learning how to wield a strap-on. We have a strange Pompeii-style suburban ascetic whorehouse apartment thing going on. That would be the gutter temple I was talking about. Well, sort of.
Which I guess brings me to the last things (finally, right?) that I am looking for. We want another partner to help us in building our true gutter temple. Someone who loves knowledge, teaching, learning, and touching. A constant and intrepid explorer and taster of life.
So, mostly straight, mostly white, divorced, re-married, sadomasochistic, toppy, sacred whore male, and his 99% gay, submissive, white, divorced, re-married, wife seek unicorn polytheistic hedonist with a sense of physical, mental, and spiritual purpose. Must adore sex. And coffee. And bad TV. And our fat kitty.
I'm sure this whole thing sounds facetious, but it's real, we're real, and we have an entire support system in place for the life of the right woman. You're out there, right? |
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