‎"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." ~The Dalai Lama

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. - John F. Kennedy

If it matters to you, you will find a way. If it doesn't, you will find an excuse. 

Sometimes, deleting an email without opening or responding to it is in itself a kindness and sign of good manners, given the type of response that would be warranted were it given. 

I am happy to speak with female submissives. However, if you have a Master and are poly, please pass by. I have no interest even in friendships in this instance. 

It is not of worth to complain, speak negatively about others, and create laundry lists of annoyances here in a public domain, for 1) you attract to yourself what you focus on, 2) we cannot control the actions of other humans, and 3) it is more likely to alienate those who you are actually seeking than deter the people you don't want to hear from.