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Male Switch, 40, knoxville, Tennessee
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About Voldamort
I am a Malay guy who have Dominant traits in me....
They says that creating a profile is very important here in CollarMe.com. It will shows who you are determine whether you are fit to be a good Dom or not. To me profiles are important, but the reality is sometimes there are certain Dom that is not good in expressing themself in writings or words. It takes a real interface, real life communication, an eye to eye interaction to understand if there are the dominant traits behind the so call Dom. I want to say that I want to try to explore all aspects of Ds relationship.
I believe that the most powerful connection that can exist between any two people is the truest M/s relationship – where the sub/slave surrenders so very much to the Dom/Master – a true power exchange. Now the depth of the surrender depends upon the depth of the person’s submission – the deepest submission, slavery, is the complete surrender of all power – truly the surrender of all rights all limits – the slave genuinely becomes property, an “it.”
The most significant aspect of this true surrender is that fundamentally a slave is still a human being – and humans have free will. We just do. The point is, to truly be a slave – to have that true complete power exchange – BOTH parties must understand that the slave will maintain her – okay, “it’s” – free will. Now sure, that “will” can be damaged – one can try to chain his slave for life, but such chains will damage but never break the human will – again it is a fundamental aspect of being human, and as much as you crave to become property, without any free will, you simply cannot eliminate that essential aspect of your humanness.
The greater surrender – the true test of the “power exchange” is where the slave willingly surrenders completely to her/it’s Master/Owner – she/it maintains her “will”, but she chooses to do whatever her/it’s Owner wants simply because her/it’s need/desire/compulsion to serve, service, please and amuse her/it’s Owner is so great that this is her very being. That “invisible chain” is so much more powerful than any material chain could ever be – the slave comes to see that her very being is to serve to surrender completely to her Owner – she not only submissively accepts being marked as a slave (tattooed, pierced, branded etc), but she needs it – she craves it. The slave understands that she/it is only complete in being able to truly service, and needs her Owner so she/it can serve Him and in that way, be complete. The true slave needs an Owner who understands her nature, and completely accepts her for what she truly is – a slave, His property, to use as He wants.
Moreover in accepting this – in taking a slave, the Master/Owner must accept a huge responsibility – to truly Own another human is an awesome responsibility – He becomes responsible for her physical, mental and emotional well-being. Yes, it is wonderful to have a slave, but it is a responsibility. I understand this responsibility – and cherish it.
Please respond with a description of prior experience (but note that experience is not required) and a clear statement of your understand of what it means to be a slave as well as a statement of how you would hope to serve and be used. As you can see, in our opinion, real slavery is not just kinky sex - its about so much more, like service and pleasing her Owners, making My lives better and easier. What does it mean to you and why should I chose you? UPDATE: 18 Feb 2010
I am looking for someone 'permanent'. I want to settle in. That means I want to have a submissive/slave in view of marriage. I am fully understand that it is my responsibilty to take care of her. I am serious and I am ready to verify whatever doubts that you may have about me. In return I expect total devotion. |
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Its been a while since I first exposed to BDSM materiels.. it was way back in 2000 and since then I found out that my life have never been the same.. vanilla relationship seems to be less interest to me and after all these tears I have resolved on finding the one that I can own permanently...
I have this wild fantasy.. of owning someone who have experience being a slave and also well trained.. and I owned it through inheritance.. lol.. maybe this will be my fantasy and will always remain a fantasy.. :) |
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