VinceNL

I have moved to Belgium!

About 5 years ago I started exploring the bdsm-world. I am Dominant, though at first I thought I would find the submissive side very interesting, based on my masochistic fantasies. When I started meeting people on gatherings though, I noticed I didn't feel submissive at all, I noticed I definitely feel and act Dominant. The thought about a sweet and submissive girl sitting on her knees before me, respecting my every wish, excited me. Now, after 4 years, I know very well what drives me, I got to know myself very well.

In my eyes, bdsmplay is always something that is based on the interests of two persons. Allthough I do expect a girl to respect my wishes, my wishes are based on boundries. Not only mine, but also hers. Some boundries are definitely hard limits, but I know that lots of them change with experience, so her boundries need to be explored and if possible expanded ofcourse. But they always need to be respected, and I will always be carefull with them, trying to find them, but not cross them.

I see trust as the most important and beautiful thing in a bdsm-relationship. It gives me a feeling of great pride when a girl trusts me so much that she is willing to give up control completely. If I am given that trust and control, i will never break it, and take care of her. Making sure she will always be secure with me, be protected by me, and that she can be her complete self, letting go of all restrictions. I will accept her for who she is and for what she wants, and I will make sure she will live up to her full potential.

My interests are very broad. I love a little submissive girl sitting on my lap, feeling secure with me, being my little girl, as much as I love a submissive masochistic girl, sitting neatly on her knees before me, head straight, hands behind her back, letting me hurt her and take advantage of her the way I like to...

Since october 2008 I am the very proud owner of a beautiful, sweet and submissive belgian girl, with whom I am very much in love. She is really everything to me, combining all I mentioned above, and more... she has really surprised me with whom she is, and the bond of trust and control I have with her goes beyond anything I ever thought possible, or hoped for :)

V