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| Only 21-27yr old (non fem/trans) males considered for play
Also I'd really like to start attending the fetish events here in Hamilton -- if anyone could help me out with that...that'd be great.
first off: I AM FLEXIBLE AND ACCOMODATING TO MY PARTNER
I am a switch....for the most part. Outside of the bedroom I lean more towards a dom, food is made for me, I am cleaned up afterward, my feet are kissed, I receive massages...nothing too strenuous on the other I suspect...no complaints thus far anyways. In the bedroom is were I switch. I whip and am whipped though I whip the other significantly harder than I desire to be whipped in return. Further more the other whips me on my command (though spontaneity is enjoyed). I've done wax play to both myself and others and same with my dabbling to knife play (which has become more of an interest than an occurance it seems). Gagging I prefer to do to the other (esp. the gag I have...bit hard on the jaw I find) but I do enjoy the odd gagging myself. Rope and other bondage is good either way in my opinion. Get bored of always doing the tying and being the resourceful half. Commanding me to do something in the bedroom is hot and manually using my body is hot too to me...as I do the same very much to the other. 'Toys' are fun, have tried using them on another, but it is rather infrequent that I get in that mood...call me selfish if you will...lol.
Anyways, for a better feel of me, read on!
I enjoy being tied to ceilings, doors, door frames, beds, pretty much anything that I could be tied to while being teased.
I am also very resourceful with ropes, leases, belts, bandanas (and whatever other types of cloth, etc) in the pursuit of restraining my partner.
I also enjoy (both to me and doing to another):
-whiping
-hot/cold treatment (wax and ice)
-blindfolding, gagging
-cutting (hairline, very tiny and have the medical precautions: iodine, butterfly band-aids, peroxide, polysporin, etc)
-feathers, paddles, nipple clamps
-sharpened small wooden sticks to scratch/glide over the skin
To me I enjoy:
-having a dance put on for me
-having my toes licked and feet kissed
-receiving full body massages
-being cooked for
-having the backs of my hands kissed
-lite nibbling
-etc
I also enjoy bitting hard and have (but not normally) drawn blood, left scars....nothing major though (and not to worry I will gather permission 1st)
vampires, blood, pain sluts, that excites/intrigues me...if you're one it'd be cool to talk (i'm not much of a pain slut myself...a little blood fine, but ya...more sadist really)
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couple of things:
1. I don't feminize men...tried it, and did nothing for me...if that is your interest that's cool, but please respect that it is not mine (like I said, I have tried it so I do know ok)
2. If you are over 30 then please don't try to hook up with me...not interested...really
3. I'm not a cyber-kinda girl...no online D+S for me.
4.. Starting out by asking me lewd things is not a good way of going about things...hello is a good start to any conversation...followed by some of your interests that correspond to some of mine from my profile.
thx
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well I'm no longer a virgin but I am now single (lost that to the guy I was just with for the last year...he just moved out and ended it this last week)...liked not having sex (did for 23yrs) bcs when I did with him....well it was just good before because people seem to try harder to please you when the realize that foreplay is EVERYTHING and it's not just a vessel to lead up to something else.
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well things have been on hold in this area for so long with trying to secure a mortgage, good paying job, house hunting, etc. etc. that i'm starting to down. i miss tying people up and pouring wax on them (and myself) and cutting and everything but it just seems like i'm so worned down and depressed lately (well longer than just lately really) that i haven't done much of anything. sometimes i wonder if my partner has really ever seen the fun side of me and that's depressing too. i worry that he'll leave before he ever realizes what he's leaving...anyone else suffer from this? |
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Life is a strange thing when you're young and in the life. Can't ever figure out if you're satisfied with vanilla or not, lovers aren't always so understanding to your different views and you are always trying to be 'special' to someone while still holding onto yourself. I guess that is what love and youth is all about. Still wishing I could maintain my preferences and my views with understanding and care...but attraction is a funny thing. Here's to living, hopefully learning and just trying to co-exist with others in this unaccepting world.
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all goes silent as she cries herself to sleep
this is not what she came for
this is not the life she had planned for
slowly, wearily she closes her eyes
this is her life, this is how it is to be, there is no other way |
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Just attended my first steeletto event on the weekend (thanks to everyone who contacted me) and it was wonderful. Also a kinky craft fair: what a cool idea. Well this has been a time of change for me and i find myself trying new things and although sometimes i can't decide whether i'm moving forward are backward i know that i am definately growing. After attending the party I know have an urge to sew designs in someone's back with the dissolving medical thread...so that's kinda neat. I didn't see anyone doing that at the play party but did seem some pretty cool needle play. Can't wait to attend more play parties. Sure was a good time and people are so helpful and full of cool ideas that i will have to try out for myself! Perhaps i will need to update my profile over the next couple of months while i experience and explore some new horizons (the needle and thread play for sure anyways) |
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her body surges upwards with every new bite -- writhing with excitement, next she's aware of the cool warmth streaming down her thigh--the cut is deep, the blood so crimson red -- she sighs and moans all at once... this must be what heaven feels like. |
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well, apart from not getting to any fetish events in what seems to be an iceage -- did they just stop existing or what?...i'd have to say that things in the area are looking up for me...finally i have found a compatible switch you enjoys biting, blood, whipping and all the finer things in life (lol) and am quite content -- still hoping someone will help us delve deeper into the lifestyle as far as events go (were monogamous so sorry no thirds allowed)...sure enjoy this site though so I will remain on -- thx for all the good conversations for those of you who contacted and conversed with me...
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Living in Hamilton, may have actually found someone (need to see how they like my world) and want to introduce them to the scene. As such, I'd like to attend March 25th at Steelettos -- if anyone can help us be granted access to this event it would be much appreciated. I can ensure whoever the kind samaritan may be that we would be on best behaviour -- just watch most likely, no trouble caused here.
Thanx in advance,
-venus |
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Is it not amusing how purple is a mesh of the spectrum of colours, just as each of us are inside? I am a spectrum and my various 'colours' require nourishment, but they are starving in the black abyss of "normality" the society so enjoys shoving in our faces. Each day of this existance has turned into a rollercoaster for me, hitting me the hardest where I live. It appears to me that a day cannot go past without both being on top and being crushed underneath the weight of the rollercoaster. And what's worse, the higher the peak, the harder the successive crash is...is that what karma is? Do we as individuals in our own rite get punished for things when they actually go our way? Does everything have to have a dull haze removing the brightness from existance? Is this what living is? We are all, I believe it is true, a product of our own decisions...time to rethink my own. I'll never rethink this area, so this is the one area i am safe, where i can seek my refuge. |
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do you ever wonder if no one will understand, will feel the pain that you so enjoy, the one that with it's absence everything feels so...unfulfilling. once again i find myself tossing and turning in bed, dissatisfied and void of the excitement that i thirst for so...once again i must tell myself that i can not have it...once again i wonder if i ever will. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Lubbock,
Texas |
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