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I'll put the important bits up here, so it doesnt take quite as much work to read the whole profile. Too much to ask, it seems. We arent looking. We may never be looking. Now, if you cant have read these first few lines and you STILL message us to see if we are you will be ignored after being pointed back here to actually read. More profile follows:

Keep in mind you are contacting a MARRIED COUPLE. You are not just contacting the Dominant Female, I have my own account for that. Anything on this account is viewable and applicable to BOTH of us. NOT just ME. Before you ask... no he isnt cuckolded and no I dont want to consider doing so to "cement my position as dominant." I dont need to have sex with other people to be confident in my place with him. Strangely enough, the person who asks is almost always the one who would make the "perfect bull" for our relationship. *sigh*

Address your mail to Ms.DiurnalVampire and Fox, and we will know you have read the profile. If you refer to Fox as Master or Sir in any part of your initial message, it will get a stock response and be ignored. If you are dominant and you feel that, for whatever reason, you need to address Fox with a lowercase letter and refer to him as boy, the boy or what have you please save your pixels for someone else. He deserves the capital as much as you do, being a proper noun and all.

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I am DiurnalVampire, Fox is my slave. We each have our own profiles on here as well, we have been regulars for quite a while.


We are NOT (and this is not up for debate) seeking any sort of servants right now. We might consider a houseboy at some point, but that is still only a possibility. Any houseboy put under consideration will have to learn to answer to Jeeves or Nigel, one of them will be your new slave name. Any sissies interested in serving will have to endure forced masculinization. There will be NO French Maid uniforms tolerated. Frilly aprons might be negotiable later on in service.

We will NEVER be looking for playmates, dominants or anyone else of that nature. We are monogamous sexually and in regards to playtime. We do not train, online or otherwise, though we will consider mentoring if someone knows the difference.

If you are going to contact us, refer to us as Master and Mistress.. and in any way put Fox's name before mine, you will not even warrant a reply. I will know you have not read this. What we ARE seeking is later in the profile.

***New photos up. Feel free to comment to us, or offer ideas. ***

The main reason for this will be or making and keeping friends locally and not so locally, as well as meeting people interested in modeling for us (hence the actively seeking everyone...All for the modeling not for adding to our relationship). My photography is going along well, but more models (TFP is a wonderful thing) are always welcome. As are friends and like-minded people.

DV and her Fox

I am under no obligation to you to be nice, just because you tell me I am attractive. You are messaging a couple and if you cant at the very least acknowledge both parties then we do not have an obligation to gush thanks for your praise. Thats like pulling a chair up to a table where a couple are sitting at a cafe an placing yourself between them, with your back turned to one so you can try and flatter the other. I have my own profile, if you want to talk JUST to me, send something there. If you message this one, message us both.

Quick hint: Being disrespectful, being given the chance to make it better, then following that with "I meant no disrespect" doesnt make it all better. It just means you got called on it. Just say you are sorry and let it go, the more you say the worse you look at that point.

If someone wishes to talk with us, you can do so here. My yahoo is not something I give out to just anyone, especially if we have never chatted on here before. No one needs that kind of access to me when I am online if you cant have a conversation with me via CM mail first. If you arent interested enough in what you wanted to talk about to do it that way, you definitely did not need my yahoo. 
This is a comment for all those people with the "warnings" to various institutions. If those institutions were going to use your information without your consent or knowledge then posting a warning on your profile for them not to ISNT really much of a deterrent. They werent going to tell you, credit you or inform you in any way anyhow, so how exactly do you know if they acknowledged your warning or not? 
Don't assume any message you get from this profile is written by the Dominant Female. It is a joint couples account, and we both have access. We can both answer, so unless you are positive of who you are speaking with dont make assumptions. They make you look bad.


The directions for addressing us are in the profile. So are what we are and ARENT looking for. So, when you message us and tell us you read our profile but havent a clue what we are looking for or how we prefer to be addressed, you already out yourself as not having read it.  I cant make it any clearer, and yet so many screw up anyway
Ladies and Gentlemen, I hate to tell you but I am under no obligation to tell you the details of my relationship just because you tell me to do so. I am not fake because I wont tell you our intimate details, Fox is not fake because he will not tell you about the training he may or may not have gotten with me. Unless you are PART of our romance, you dont need to know every detail and there are only 2 participants in this one. There is some that we share and some we dont, if you are going to throw a bitch fit if what you want is in what we wont share than please take your whiny ass elsewhere. 
OK, everyone who had our snail mail address, shoot me an email so I can get you the new one. 
Back from Vegas and moving apartments for the next week. Much bigger place, much lower rent, whats not to love?  We will have a second bedroom now which we plan on turning into a photo studio once we get settled...

Now if I coud just kick this damn cold, wed be perfect.
Off to Vegas for our Honeymoon. We might pop on here and there, assuming we have a connection and arent busy doing other things. Fox likes to sleep in, I am an early riser so I may have some time to putt around. See you in a week or so!
How is it submitting when you are only willing to do what you like, regardless of what I want, and only when you are in the mood to do it. Am I supposed to be there to make suggestions and let you dominate yourself so you can feel almost like you are actually submitting?
We have just 21 days left until we have our wedding.  Everything is done, we are completely ready. I have to get the food, and I need to organize the play list and im finished. It feels so good to be on top of things, no pun intended. After all, how else can I convince everyone that I am completely and totally relaxed about everything if I am scrambling for last minute details?
This site is engineered for people to find one another. Thats why almost everyone is here, to search. So, why does everyone seem to get so bent out of shape when a couple actually did find one another on here? Isnt that what YOU are hoping to do as well? Sour grapes aside, take it as a positive note that some did find what they were looking for, and that you an too, rather than trying to step into what they have. 
I swear, if we get one more offer for a sub/slave that will do anything to be ours, I am going to start tasking people with buying us things for the wedding. I cant make it any clearer on our profile so if they still want to beg service, that can be how. I get the feeling we have a lot less takers now...
HOW do I turn off my IDIOT MAGNET? They seem to ALL be out!
This is Fox.

Still recovering from my wisdom teeth being taken out.  Not what I would call a painful ordeal...merely an annoying one.  Mostly because of the fact it's had a pretty substantial affect on my mood for the past few days and will likely do so for a while.  I'm sluggish, tired, hungry, unfocused, and hungry.

My Owner has been a Goddess throughout.  Not a term I just throw out, but she's been so wonderfully caring, nurturing, and patient...  It's made it all so easy for me.  As soon as I'm back to myself, I'll properly thank her.

I've tried to do it quite a few times over the past few days, but my attempts at hugs have been painfully tragic. :-p
"We should take Brother G's marital counseling so that you can learn to properly submit to me, as my wife." Fox said, jokingly. "And, you know if Master doesnt work for you, you can just use Lord." "Um, how does Fuzzball work for you?" I reply.  "It'll do, maam, itll do."
Its days like today I really wish our interest in a no strings housekeeper wasnt so unrealistic. *sigh*
January 9 2010. Finally, a date has been settled. Now the fun of planning begins. 
If you have not even said hello, much less held a conversation with us... do not expect us to accept a friend invite. We have no interest in making you look more popular and unless you put in the effort to BE a friend of ours, you dont need to call yourself one.

Please understand... just because you have chosen a title for yourself does not mean that is how we will refer to you. Fox doesnt even call me Mistress, why would he be expected to refer to someone else that way?
I call no one Mistress or Master unless why have proven to be personally that they earned those titles. There are 2 people in my life I have referred to as Master and they both held 6th degree black belts in karate at the time. There has never been a dominant male who I have referred to that way and I do not see that changing.

Fox has no more obligation to refer to you by a title than I do. You gave it to yourself, so aside from those under your control no one has to use it.

We will not use derogatory terms for submissives just because they have chosen them for themselves either. Just because you refer to yourself as slut, cunt, bitch or whore in an email to me does not mean this is how I will reference you. Not my style.

If you dont like it, that really is too bad. I do not demand you refer to me as Grand Vampire and if you did, Id laugh. You have a given name, and a screen name that substitutes for it. face to face I wouldnt refer to you as Master or Mistress or what have you so dont expect it here either.

DV
Happy new year everyone - heres to the end of one wonderful and eventful year and the beginning of another. May 2009 be as wonderful to us as 2008 was.

DV and her Fox
I dont understand why there are so many potentially attractive people on here with such amazingly HIDEOUS pictures. If you are good looking and know it, why on earth do you think your best representation would be a closeup of your arm or your nipple?
Take a few minutes to think about it and get a buddy to take a good picture of you. It CANNOT be that hard. Or, find someone like us who does this as a hobby, get a CD of photos and have some variety. Nipples and arms are really not that attractive... sorry to tell you
Please dont ask me silly questions and then get insulted when I dont give you super serious answers. 
Fox is by far the best cookie slave I have ever owned. **cookie NOT being euphemism for anything**
Contrary to popular belief, this is not my Owner's second profile.  This is -our- profile.  So, don't be surprised at all if your letters addressed simply to her get responded to by me.  I read all of our mail and I am allowed to respond when and as I see fit.

 If you don't like it...

  Tough, you'll just have to deal with it.
If you contact us, and then are disappointed that we are not offering what you seek... maybe you should have read a little closer. We are definitely not misrepresenting our interests... it is all very clearly spelled out so if you read the profile and found it fascinating you already know what it is we seek or DONT seek. 
I wonder if people understand what a cuckold really is. You cannot message us offering to be my cuckold when you know I am in a relationship with Fox. If you are not the one IN the relationship with me then you cannot be the one being cuckolded.
We get a lot of junk mail...a lot.  However, those of you who have nice things to say are very much appreciated.  Especially those of you who remember that we're a Domme/slave couple and not a Dom/Domme couple.

Being referred to as "Master" is not exactly my cup o' tea...

In fact, it's quite insulting.



  DV's Fox
The quickest way to prove to me you have not even glanced at the profile is to address your initial email to Master and Mistress. Firstly, Fox is not a Master, he is my slave. Secondly, you put him first before me. Even if you do nothing more than address your mail to Master and Mistress, you are not going to get back a polite response. Keep that in mind... if you bother to read you'll know better and if you dont you deserve whats coming.
The most stressful part of wedding planning is not the actual wedding... it is figuring out the guest list, who to sit with whom and where to register so that everyone is happy. I dont need stuff, but at least with a registry itll be stuff I'll like rather than radnom stuff we definately dont need. Less of the evils, I guess.
Just out of curiousity... if someone states they are not interested in sex, they are a service slave and would be happy giving theemselves to someone completely with no sexual service ever expected or desired... why do they state their penis length and size?
Lots of these lately.
If you message me with demands, what you want me or us to do to you... you will be rejected. We are not looking for anything in specific now, and telling me that you will only do X if you are allowed to do Y as well will result in a very polite goodbye.
Just because I am the dominant one in the relationship does not mean I make decisions without conferring with Fox. WE are a couple and do things as one... we are not an Owner and doormat, where he will accept anything I say just becasue I say it. Id never have kept him if that was how it worked. If you dont like the idea that my slave has a say in anyone we meet or interact with then you can mosey on your sweet way... this is my house and my rules.
There is nothing quite like a session that takes 15 minutes, a shower and ice cream to recover from. Ah, what a night.