* I'd say that i've been told i'm intelligent, witty, humorous etc, but the truth is, i'm probably arrogant enough to just say it outright (Though I have been told all those).

* Like most people, i've had my ups and downs over the years. In a pretty stable place these days and am just looking for the right person to share my life with.

* I've got too many interests to list, and now with the addition of the interest section you can get a fair idea yourself.

Now that you have a taste for what I am, i'll share with you what I want....

Sounds ominous.
As i stated earlier, I would not like to be defined as any one element of my life. I consider myself deep person and I can safely say I am looking for someone similar. If all your after is someone to handcuff and spank you, I suggest you break the law and piss off your cellmates. If your after an actual relationship, something that while it encompasses this lifestyle, is not defined by it then by all means, keep reading.
Conversation. We are social creatures, and if you can't communicate then you got problems. I hardly ever shut up, though i can listen intently for hours if what I hear is interesting. I can talk shit, I can talk feelings, I can talk theory of relativity. I'm not demanding that you be Einstein, but stimulating conversation is a must (no air heads).
Playful. I'm a serious enough person at times to make up for 3 people, so I enjoy someone who knows how to cut loose. It grounds me so to speak. Now this does not translate to stupid, it just means someone who can pull me away and lighten my mood when I get too absorbed in a project. Btw, I can come out with some messed up stuff, so i'll reciprocate that.
Loving. I am not interested in someone who just wants to be dominated 24/7 locked up and treated like a dog. I want tender loving moments. In fact I want a lot more of those than some other things. I want someone to snuggle up with at night, someone who the very sight of warms my heart and makes me want to be a better man. I want a fairy tale with a kink, rather than a twist. Maybe i'm living in a dreamland, but it's my reality and that is what i choose to believe.
Honest. I consider myself to be an honourable person, and in a mate I would have to demand the same. Sometimes the truth hurts, but the truth is still the truth and that is all i would ask. I recall a good movie that summed it up perfectly. "Honour is the gift a man gives to himself. No man can give it or take it away." I hold that very close to my heart and always endeavor to do what I consider is right. I would like to find the same.
Fidelity. I have no interest in being someone's bit on the side. I want a relationship and I want faithfulness. (On the bright side, I ask no more than I would be willing to give. That is I would not cheat.)

In terms of what i'm after in the BDSM world. I guess i'm looking for someone to complement me. While I want an obedient submissive slave who calls me master. I also yearn for someone whom i can wrap within my arms and protect. Someone who is everything to me that I am to them.
I warned you I talk a lot. I could prattle on a lot more I guess, but like most people say. If there is something you wish to know. Just ask. I'll make myself an open book. And just to spice it up. I'll even offer an interesting game to anyone who wants to chat about it.
If you have managed to read this far then perhaps you have found something of interest, or perhaps your really, really bored. I'll guarantee you though, i'm worth that email.