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About Valenia2003
Okay, I am going to try this again and say this right at the beginning so that, hopefully, people will understand.
I am married to my dominant and, therefore, not looking to stike up a relationship other than friendship with any dominant, male or female. We are possibly looking for a female submissive to join us, however.
That being said, let's get to the other stuff. I am a 29 year old female submissive that lives in small town Alberta. There is no BDSM community to speak of so we have turned to online. We have met a lot of good people, some from here, some from other places.
I have a 2 year old little girl (no she is not involved and anyone who thinks that is sick) and she is my first priority in my life. Everything else is a moot point. I set aside my own personal desires for her.
I am also an aspiring novelist. I love the fantasy adventure genre and have been working on a few novels for a few years now. I love to write but I hold no real hopes that I will ever be published lol.
On the BDSM side of it, I am a mental submissive. I enjoy things that challenge me mentally. I am not a physical person. I never have been and probably never will be. Because of other commitments, we rarely get to scene but we try to maintain the feel - even though most times that is hard when you work fulltime and have a toddler running around the house.
Other than that, I don't know what else to tell you. If you have any questions or are just looking for a friend to chat with, then feel free to send me a message. If you want more than that, then I am sorry but I cannot accomadate you.
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I don't understand why people cannot read profiles before they send me a message offering more than friendship. I state (more than once) that I am married to my dominant and that I am not looking for anything other than friendship with likeminded people. Oh well. It takes all kinds, I suppose.
E.B. is coming up soon. I really have to admire her guts. That woman does more things than I would dare imagine. She takes humiliation in stride. I could never do half the things she does. Of course, she says the same thing about me. I guess we all have our strengths and our weaknesses. |
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I am finding that BDSM is becoming more and more main stream. You see it every where now days. Whether that is a good thing remains to be seen. I would like BDSM to be accepted - but I don't want every Tom, Dick, and Harry involved. I have found that ever since it has been come slightly more accepted, there are so many people out there that just want a quick, kinky thrill and don't want to actually be involved. I suppose that is all well and good, but a lot of people can get hurt that way, both physically and mentally by people who a.) Don't know what they are doing and b.) Have no desire to keep the connection once their curiosity has been fullfilled. One has to be very careful and guarded now so as to not get hurt. I thank God that I don't have to worry about that anymore.
Speaking of relationships - Next month EB comes up for a visit. It will be the first time TG (my dominant and husband) and I have met her. She seems really sweet and it will be the first time since we have been back in Canada that we have met someone else in the lifestyle.
A lot of people cannot understand how I can be okay with having another woman in our house with whom we will have intimate contact. The way I see it is this:
There are many things that I am not able or willing to do for TG and, rather that have him resent me for not being able to fullfill those needs, I 'let' him pursue other avenues. We have an agreement, however, that he will not do this behind my back and I have to at least like the woman he is pursuing. If it makes everyone happy, then what is the harm?
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