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Male Dominant, 43, Vermilion, Ohio, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 35
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Male Switch, 28, edmonton
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About Valhalla69
Single Dom,looking for someone who can stimulate me mentally,someone who can help me explore and together push our boundries.
Someone who will help me as i help them and grow together to be the best we can.
I dont care about age or looks or build or any of that superficial stuff.
If i can find that one person who is meant to be,i will be a happy man.
And as i dont know who she is until i find her,it might be you?
If you fancy a chat feel free to send me a message,i reply to all messages,i think its rude not to.
Have fun and be happy.
~Do not confuse kindness with weakness~
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2006 and i am still alive,so i am doing something right 
I am curious to find out what the new year has in store for me or what i have in store for it.
I havent made any new years revolutions,it saves time lol.
I am a poor orphan,thats to get the sympathy vote from fit birds lol.
I think i will sign off for now,so have a good day wherever you are reading this and feel free to email me if you have any comments.
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Evening A/all,my pet peev for today are people who dont reply to messages.
I understand some people may get a lot of messages so may not be able to reply to them but it seems that most people dont reply.
Even a no thankyou would do but to not reply is just ill mannered in my opinion and i hate rude people.
Thats my little rant done for tonight,so have a good evening and be happy
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One of the good things about this lifestyle is the fact that you are always learning.
For example today i learned that its not what you do,its how you do it, why you do it and who with.
I have also learnt that women want to see a Dom who acts like a Dom at all times and not just when he wants to.
In summary i think the lesson for today is if you are gonna talk the talk you better be able to walk the walk.
I am glad i am learning slowly,this way i will end up being the man/Dom/Master i want to be and not some pale comparason by rushing into it.
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I have just had the best night of my life.
I went to a BDSM party at a friends house,with a dungeon,and something happened that i cant explain.
I met a lovely couple and watched as he proceeded to insert about 20 needles into her back just under the skin.
As i watched i could see the bond between them and as she was not allowed to talk i could just feel it.
I ended up watching them all night,for about 5 hours in total,it was amazing,expecially as they were the most extreme yet the couple who seemed to be closest.
I dont know if there is a God or fate or whatever but i believe that Princess(the lady of the couple) was sent there to point me onto the right path.
Lately i have been thinking about what i can do TO subs,yet i should have been thinking what can i do FOR my sub.
They made me realise that its not about labels,it made me realise that its about trust and that bond they had,its not about how hard or how much you can spank or whip someone.
I cant explain what happened tonight but when i hugged princess i felt loved,from a total stranger.
I was so relaxed with them that i even allowed her partner to insert a needle into the left side of my chest and i did one in the right,and normally i hate needles.
Tonight made me realise i was getting it all wrong,its not about what you can do to a person,its about what you can experience together with them,with love and trust.
I hope this makes sense,its so hard to explain what happened but it was life changing and its now 3 45 am and i have been home 15 minutes and felt the need to write this straight away.
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I used to worry that some of the things i thought would freak people out or they would think badly of me,but after reading some of the things Doms do to their subs i dont feel so bad.
I realised you can be a complete bastard to a sub who wants it but in the correct way,it doesnt make you a bad person.
I have a very weird perverted mind when it comes to things i can do with a sub female but i worried about putting all this in my profile as i didnt want to scare people off or freak people out.
Hopefully a single female sub out there will read this and message me because she fits the bill,so maybe this was a good idea,i will let you know in time. |
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Having spoke to a few of my sub friends i am now debating weather to experience what they experience/i give out.
I do not like pain but if i want to really understand this lifestyle maybe i should experience the pain.
I am not sure what the outcome will be but i am going to keep an open mind and try it at least,thats the fair thing to do.
wish me luck lol |
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I dont know if its just me, but sometimes when i am bored i browse peoples profiles and some of them are empty.
They dont say profile pending, they are just empty,maybe someone can explain what use this is to have an empty profile.
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I went to my first BDSM party last night and it was great.
The mixture of people of all shapes and sizes from all walks of life.
From women being spanked,people being teased with electricity and even a guy who was tied up and had 50 clothes pegs pegged to various parts of his body,including his genitalia.
It was deffinatly an eye opener and i cant wait to go to the next one. |
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I have noticed some recently about the D/s lifestyle, and its something that pleases me and i realy approve of.
Being a big guy,in height and stature,i tend to stick out a lot and i often dont feel comfortable in groups of people,but i have noticed in this lifestyle,people dont care.
I dont mean that in a bad way,i mean people look past the outside,to see whats on the inside,its so refreshing to meet people who can look past the exterior and see the real me.
Just wanted to share that with you,if your reading this.
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It seems i am in a catch 22 position.
As i am a new Dom,it seems new subs want an experienced Dom and experienced subs dont want a new Dom.
any ideas? |
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