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Female Submissive, 43, Pensacola, Florida
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About VaL721
Let's see, let's see... I'm young, but not naive. I've spent the majority of my life taking care of myself and my family. This has left me with a fierce desire to be in control of any situation I'm in. I know I can take care of myself and others, so why let someone else do it? Then there is the other side. The side that revels in being commanded and not having to make decisions. The side that enjoys knowing what is expected and wanted of me, not from me. There is a difference there, it is subtle, but if you think about it you'll understand. Also understand this: If you seek to collar me, you must earn my respect. If not, then you are less than me and not worthy of being my pet. As a Dom I demand strict obedience to my commands, and as a sub I demand no less from myself. I am a true Switch. Someone who feels equally comfortable beneath and behind the whip. I have seen much and done more, so if you think to play games with me, you are only deluding yourself. If you are intimidated by this then read no further, I am not for you. Only those with a true strength of character, and an honest knowledge of themselves need contact me.
*Once more in case you didn't understand*
If you do not know what it is that you really want, or need, than I suggest you spend time to learn these things. Without this knowledge you are useless to someone else and dangerous to yourself.
Now for the specifics about myself.
I have done Top/bottom work and have been trained very well in both aspects. I think pain is effective as a teaching tool, but not as effective as the rewards system.
I am a real sensualist. I simply love the Feel and Taste of everything. Rope over leather, chains through shackles, sweat on foreheads, skin against skin. If you are looking only for sex than stop reading right now. For me sex is just a light desert. Everything until than: the plays, the intrigue, the beautiful moment when lips touch for the first time, aaahhhh... That is the main course.
Everything until the act is so beautiful... The anticipation, the caresses, the smoky looks, the heavy breathing and gentle exploring of another's body is something I could not live without. And after getting that close to someone somehow sex can't compete and no matter how good it is (and it can be very, very good) it will never be enough to fully satisfy my sensual nature.
I love to cook, work with my hands (take that however you wish), and learn as much as I can about myself and those around me.
I'm well versed in literature, the arts, science and philosophy. I enjoy intelligent debate, but not arguments. If you make a statement, I expect you to be able to argue your point and have true conviction in what you say. Honesty, with me and perhaps more importantly with yourself, is the one thing that I will never allow to fall by the way. I demand it 100%, all the time. Lying will not be tolerated!
I live for the times when I can take someone whose company I enjoy out for dinner, movies, dancing, or shows.
I am not afraid of intimacy or commitment and I love to experiment and try new things. People whom I connect with tend to be intelligent, witty, and adventurous. It is not uncommon for me to take a someone out for skydiving, bungee jumping, or mountain climbing. If you spend time with me, and mention something that makes you nervous, or something that perhaps you are curious about but afraid to try... Well, life is very short. Much too short to sit around wondering about something instead of experiencing it. Life is about the journey, not the destination.
If this does a little to whet your appetite, and you feel that you are able to take me head on then send me a message and we'll chat.
All things for Love
~Val~ |
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When did everyone in the BDSM lifestyle become an amateur poet? Seriously, reading some of these profiles is harder than getting through a sixteen-year-old's angsty goth poetry. People, I'm all for eloquence and a clever turn of phrase, but this is getting out of hand!
*DOOM, GLOOM, BOOM,
Alone I sit in my Room,
Waiting for another,
I cry and I shudder,
Tears as white as the moon.*
See? It's too easy! I just gave you a friggin' goth limmerick! If you have poetry in your soul, that's one thing. But don't fake it. Don't try so hard to be something you're not... Trust me, it will only make things much worse. And the learning process is very painful. If you want to impress people with your profile then be honest. Believe it or not, honesty, especially in a place like this, is very impressive. So cut out the morbid I-wish-I-was-dead-so-the-pain-would-stop routine. It was old before you were born.
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*FOR THE SUBS*
What happened to the decent Dom? The one who took pride in his/her work? The one who humiliated and abused because it was called for, not to satisfy a selfish urge? Where did they all go? Now all I see are these people who revel in the fact that they are so insecure in themselves that they have to hurt others to prove their worth! Where is the art? Where is the loving bond between Top and bottom that is at the very heart of this community? You inadequate little pricks! If it weren't useless, I'd pity you. Instead, I pity those new to the lifestyle who don't know any better. Those who are snapped up by these frighteningly ignorant and uncontrolled poseurs. There is so much more that you could have, and instead you will be smothered by half-trained lunatics who watch too many hentai animes and have spent too little time underneath a whip. I just hope you all find someone worthy of you before it's too late.
And for those "Doms" to whom this message applies, PLEASE get some help! Go to some classes! Learn from real pros! Curb your impulses and ask yourself if what you're doing is in the best interests of your slave. These are people, not animals, and unless otherwise requested, they should be treated as humans.
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Everyone wants something. Whether it is to love or be loved, to play or be played with. But mostly we want to be content. Everyone wants to be able to wake up with a smile, go through their day with a grin, relax with a chuckle, and sleep peacefully through the night. How hideous is life when these simplest of things, things even children can do without difficulty, are denied us. Some may argue that the first thing a baby will do is cry, but if that doesn't teach us the importance of laughter and good grace than I fear that we willingly doom ourselves to a life filled with mediocrity and well-intentioned grief. Is happiness so alien that we balk when it is offered us? Do we purposely seek pain because it is more familiar and comforting than the pleasures life promises? perhaps... The pet can claim freedom from thought by obeying commands, the master can claim freedom from conscience with willing slaves, but where is the freedom from pain? When is it alright to truly and without reservation accept joy as itself without the fear of loss lurking about? Who knows? Why are you asking me? Now stop crying and kiss the whip!
All things for Love,
~Val~ |
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