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To Me, Dominant is such a misused word in the Lifestyle that it has become a pejorative.
In My experience, the stereotypical hairpulling sadistic bully or punisher often puts off T/those who would sincerely enjoy the balanced, caring and truly loving D/s relationship.
That said, I have found in My time, as a “D” the most rational approach to building a successful relationship is to have full and open communication between U/us at the beginning. W/we must never live in a vacuum of not being directly express our needs, wants and desires. I have had many experiences in My time in the Lifestyle and really prefer a protocol based relationship. It allows for change from the initial wants/desires parameters and spells out for B/both the level of emotional intensity required for the “moment.”
The qualities I will bring to O/our relationship are honesty, loyalty, lots of humor, a loving nature, commitment, financial and emotional stability (I’m very laid back), adventurous times (sexually and not), fairly well read and of course - My true respect and passion for you as a Woman. Having been born in the south and “schooled” by my grandmother – I am sincerely respectful of Women (yes - I will open the car door for you and bring flowers). I will always be open to your needs – I realize they will change as W/we grow together - as will My needs also. you will be my friend, companion, confidant and Lover. I’m not looking for slave or slut. you will never be used as a doormat – too disrespectful of you as Woman. Sexually, I have hard limits in BDSM, which I do not cross. Remember – I’m not the hairupulling Neanderthal. O/ours is to expand joint goals and passion – both in and out of the bedroom.
What I seek is a Woman of honesty, stability, commitment (of course), a fun loving attitude and a willingness to be open to experiment with your limits. Sensual and successful in your own right – you desire and are willing to be open to My instruction and advice to make U/us a success. you are never afraid to express your opinion – because sometimes as the “D”, I may not always be right.
you will also be a “Zaftig” kind of Woman (PC term BBW). I am truly only attracted to sensual, curvaceous Women of quality.
Well I do hope this little diatribe may have interested you. It is sincere – as I ultimately want a monogamous, 24/7 live in D/s relationship based on honesty, integrity, love, ultimate sensuality, communication, and freedom to express whom W/we are T/together.
Friends and companions first. W/we’ll both know it’s right when W/we know it…..
Please no marrieds, committeds or those wanting open relationships.
I’m a one Woman only kinda D.
Thanks for your time, and best of luck to you for your search for the “One you can’t live without.”
TJ
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Nice idea blocking me peeps. (one in particular)... yah I'm for real. |
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Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness.
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Puratinism is the haunting fear that someone, somewhere, might be happy ...
HL Mencken
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| Age: 31 |
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