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I'm a Dominant guy, part politics/public policy nerd, part IT geek looking for a submissive jock or prep type for a long term relationship.
About me:
I'm 34 yrs, white guy, 5'11", 260 stocky/chub build and working on losing/getting in better shape, mod hairy, brown hair, brown eyes, 5" cock. Safe, sane, clean, discreet, and DDF - you must be also.
I am Dominant in the bedroom but am a bottom - I like the sub guy to please me in every way, including topping me. Get into controlling a guy emotionally, mentally, and physically. Some Dom/sub activities I enjoy are restraints (rope, handcuffs), spanking/discipline, having the sub do household chores, collar/leash, locking a sub in a chastity device, foot play, sub sucking me off on-demand, sub giving me a massage, and a bunch more. I'm open to exploring more with the right guy - hard limits are no perm damage, no blood, no scat. Everything is safe and sane only.
I'm not 'out' and not into the gay/bar scene.
I've had this desire since high school, it won't change. I've always been a nerd/geek and like many was picked on by the jocks and cool guys (sounds so cliche, but true), but was also attracted to them - both in personality and physically. I used to think that I wanted to submit to them, but as time has gone on, I have realized that it was the other way around, that I wanted to dominate and control the type of guy that used to taunt me and that I'm attracted to. I remember that sometimes there were jocks that used to tell the others to leave me alone, I thought of them as nice guys/ protectors but as my sexuality has developed I've always wondered if they wanted to please me. Also have a deep attraction to the 'bad boy' jock/prep types that used to pick on me. Finding one that finally breaks down and admits they want to submit would be fantastic. Attracted to both 'smart jocks' and 'dumb jocks'. Hopefully that doesn't freak you out, but just thought I should share how deep rooted this is.
About the guy I'm looking for:
These are not all hard requirements, but wanted to give an idea of the guy I am looking for.
- All American Jock/Prep type
- Submissive but top (rare, I know)
- 25-38 age range (again, not a hard requirement)
- White guy
- Drug and Disease Free, Clean/good hygiene, safe, and discreet (ok, this one is a hard requirement)
- Willing to submit and be molded into the perfect BF :)
- Has a job / in school / doing something meaningful with your life
I am not looking to become a "sugar daddy," just thought that needed to be said in case some reads this ad the wrong way. I expect you to have a job / have your life together.
I've given a good amount of information about what I'm looking for. If you respond, please have some substance to the response. A one-liner saying 'sup' or 'pic' will just be deleted. Yes, I expect to exchange pics to make sure there is attraction, but I want to know about who I am talking to also.
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