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Male Dominant, 50, sanfrancisco, California
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About Usuffer2pleaseME
I am a Dominant Male seeking females of all ages and backgrounds who seek Spankings, Paddlings, Torment, Bondage and more.
My partner and Sub passed away three years ago (complications of breast cancer and other stuff) and I am just getting back into the life.
I have dear friends who I enjoy the company of and who have helped me as I recover from my loss. It was 9 years of everything from exploring the lifestyle together at TES, Scony Parties/weekends to dealing with Chemo and severe Illness. So the pain is still there but its time to move on... I miss Mary but I cannot grieve the rest of my life for her. What I had with Mary was very unique and special and probably a once in a lifetime relationship; it was beautiful and it is gone.
I am seeking someone very specialin her own way. Not a replacement but a partner and woman whom I can enjoy and love, comfort and enjoy the company of. If it develops into a long term lifetime relationship; that is fine too.
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I am a gentleman first and formost. Intelligent, funny, artistic, eccentric, into history, into art (a published artist myself) and of course I am creative in the bedroom as much as out of it. I am an artist and historian. I find beauty in all things and hope to find a woman filled with joy and beauty in her own way.
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I am a natural spanker and this is my main interest but I am skilled in all sorts of other aspects of BD/DS/SM scene and lifestyle choices and fun.
I can easily jump from being the firm daddy, the stern teacher, or the sadistic master; I do enjoy Roleplay. I am also versed in fetish scenes as well AB/DL/DLG/littles/pets as well as suction, violet wands, giving erotic and other massages, nipple/puss clips, wax, ropes/chains, etc. (I don't do Needles or cutting - sorry not my thing) and while I enjoy a woman in sexy shoes... I was an atheletic trainer and do not do feet... at all. ick.
I do not want a doormat. I want a smart independant and professional woman who will enjoy life with me, enjoy all aspsects of the vanilla world as well as our joint life together which is our own to make, explore and complete.
I do not want a woman who is self absorbed, uncaring, or undependable. I seek a woman of character, grace, creativity, passion, and filled with compassion for others.
I will cause pain or pleasure, torment you with a whisper of a touch as easily as I will torture you with any number of toys. I will teach you to obey using rewards and punishments... or punishments as rewards... LOL
I have a toy box filled with many wonderful toys: some of which you can see in these photos. I will send a photo of myself (face pic) in trade for yours. (If I wanted to see your who-who I would ask for it.. or take the pic myself) I do not want to see your pussy... I want to own it and I will take it when I desire.
As you can see ... I am a collector of Vintage Yale Fraternity Paddles (I have a few dozen) and I am giving them each their corporal purpose again. Yes, they are real and some are over 100 years old and still pack a sting: but this was the reason they were made. This is their reason for existance. Their History and story are the rest. While these are toys for my use.. they are also a part of American History and I treasure each one that I own and can tell you some of their history as well.
These are cherished and wonderful pieces which I have shared with others but which I hold in high regard for their artistry and craftsmanship. They are artworks first and play things second. Some great men have owned these and I have cataloged who they were, what they went on to do and how they helped change the world.
If you want to feel - heat in your seat like never before. Let me introduce you to my little friends... we will all have a grand time together and you will never forget being paddled with these vintage paddles. I can guarantee it. Plus they get to have some fun too after so many years in basements and garages and workshops or dens.
I am a spanker... they were made for spanking. Its a great combination.
and the experience has been orgasmic for several people.
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A special twinkle shows up (in my eyes) when I am in a sadistic mood and then the fun may reaally begin... <SMILE> Otherwise I am petty nice most of the time and I am just as happy cuddling as I am using a crop, tawse, whip, or any number of other things.
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Naughty girls are welcomed... Bad girls beware... Students, faculty and (adlut) children of all ages... Come and chat... I have a special treat for you... and if not a treat a lesson you will not soon forget.
(by the way... I have been told that my hands alone can sting as much as the paddles.. so I really need nothing more then everything mother nature has already provided me - but of course the difference between men and boys is the price of their toys)
be well
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