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My main objective for utilizing this site is to inform and recruit people to join the Staten Island Kink Munch which is held EVERY 3rd Thursday of EVERY month beginning at 7:30pm - 9:30pm at Z-One Diner/Restaurant/Lounge on Richmond Avenue (right next to the entrance to Willowbrook Park), Staten Island, NY.

Oh, one last thing to all you horndogs out there ... I am not here looking to get laid so if that's your objective don't bother sending me a message.

I have found my one true dominant who I love and adore with all my heart. This account is only open to advise everyone of the SIK munch!


ps -- please do not steal my photo! Thank you very much!

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11/9/2010 11:51:30 PM

NEXT STATENISLANDKINK MUNCH!!

 

date:

Thursday, November 18, 2010
time: 07:30 PM to 09:00 PM
where: Z-ONE Restaurant/Diner/Lounge (the old Boulder Creek Restaurant)
address: 1821 Richmond Ave., Staten Island, NY 10314  map

cost: There is no fee; you just pay for your own food.
dress code: Casual or business attire.

 

Description

Ask for "The Computer Group" or the "Munch Group"
A munch is simply a group of like minded people getting together for lunch or dinner at a diner or a restaurant. It is not a scene function. There is no play, it is just an opportunity for people to meet and talk. All are welcome. It doesn’t matter how you identify (new, experienced, Dom, sub, switch, gay, straight, etc….). You must be at least 18 years old. For those who are new or curious, this is a perfect way to get introduced to the lifestyle in a safe, friendly environment. Please keep in mind that this is a public restaurant and we do not want to bring attention to the establishment nor ourselves from other patrons.


7/5/2010 1:19:47 PM
JULY STATEN ISLAND KINK MUNCH!
COME JOIN ME!
date: Thursday, July 15, 2010
time: 07:30 PM to 09:00 PM
where: Z-ONE Restaurant/Diner/Lounge (the old Boulder Creek Restaurant)
address: 1821 Richmond Ave., Staten Island, NY 10314  map
cost: There is no fee; you just pay for your own food.
dress code: Casual or business attire.

Description

Ask for "The Computer Group" or the "Munch Group"

A munch is simply a group of like minded people getting together for lunch or dinner at a diner or a restaurant. It is not a scene function. There is no play, it is just an opportunity for people to meet and talk. All are welcome. It doesn’t matter how you identify (new, experienced, Dom, sub, switch, gay, straight, etc….). You must be at least 18 years old. For those who are new or curious, this is a perfect way to get introduced to the lifestyle in a safe, friendly environment. Please keep in mind that this is a public restaurant and we do not want to bring attention to the establishment nor ourselves from other patrons.


6/9/2010 6:32:39 AM
So my question of the day is:

Why are all these men from foreign countries checking me out? Wouldn't they want someone local? I know I do. 

Ok ... I know that technically that's 2 questions but hey it's too early in the mornng to give a flying rats ass.

6/5/2010 6:41:31 PM
JUNE STATEN ISLAND KINK MUNCH

DATE:
Thursday, June 17th, 2010
TIME: 07:30 PM to 09:00 PM
WHERE: Z-ONE Restaurant/Diner/Lounge (the old Boulder Creek Restaurant)
ADDRESS: 1821 Richmond Ave., Staten Island, NY 10314
COST: There is no fee; you just pay for your own food.
DRESS CODE: Casual or business attire.
A munch is simply a group of like minded people getting together for lunch or dinner at a diner or a restaurant. It is not a scene function. There is no play, it is just an opportunity for people to meet and talk. All are welcome. It doesn’t matter how you identify (new, experienced, Dom, sub, switch, gay, straight, etc….). You must be at least 18 years old. For those who are new or curious, this is a perfect way to get introduced to the lifestyle in a safe, friendly environment. Please keep in mind that this is a public restaurant and we do not want to bring attention to the establishment nor ourselves from other patrons. If you have any other questions or to RSVP, contact smartasssubbie or causeimthedaddy!

5/31/2010 12:11:27 PM
On the prowl again!

5/13/2010 4:56:49 PM

Title: Staten Island Kink Munch
 
Date: Thursday May 20, 2010
Time: 7:30 pm - 9:30 pm
Repeats: This event repeats every month on the third Thursday.

Location: Z-ONE Restaurant/Diner/Lounge

Notes: Please don't forget to RSVP so we can get a head count

Z-ONE
1821 Richmond Ave. (site of the old Boulder Creek)
Staten Island, NY 10314
Located on Richmond Ave. 3 blocks south of Victory Blvd.

Bus directions:

From BROOKLYN:
S53 from 86th and 4th in Brooklyn. Transfer to the S59 at the Port Richmond Terminal. Look for diner on Richmond Ave. 3 blocks after Victory Blvd. (Carnegie Ave.)

from Manhattan and the Staten Island Ferry: Take the S44 all the way to the diner. Look for diner on Richmond Ave. 3 blocks after Victory Blvd. (Carnegie Ave.)


4/13/2010 11:53:31 AM
smartasses need love too.

4/1/2010 10:36:50 AM
What can I say?  I've unexpectedly fallen in love.

2/10/2010 8:02:36 PM

SUB FRENZY: Colloquial A very strong, sometimes overwhelming, desire to find a dominant partner or to become immersed in BDSM-related activities, sometimes seen in people who identify strongly as submissive, particularly people who have either just newly discovered their submissive side or who have not partaken in BDSM-related activities for a long time. People in the grip of sub frenzy may sometimes make unwise or unsafe choices.

SUBSPACE: A specific state of mind that a submissive may enter, particularly after intense activities and/or (depending on the person) intense pain play, characterized by euphoria, bliss, a strong feeling of well-being, or even a state similar to intoxication. Thought to be related to the release of endorphins in the brain. The euphoria associated with subspace may last for hours or sometimes even days after the activity ceases.


2/1/2010 11:49:57 PM
It just dawned on me ... how desperate are we that we have to come to a site to find someone to play with?

1/30/2010 3:42:51 PM
Sometimes I feel so stupid and naive.  I tend to put my heart on the line and my hearts desire cuts that line so my heart falls and is crushed. 
From the moment I saw him he had my heart but didn't know it.  He owns my heart yet either doesn't seem to know this or is ignoring this.  Either way it hurts since all I want to do is be his and let the world know.
I may be a smartass, brat, pain in the royal ass at times but I'm also shy and withdrawn. I want to tell him how I feel but I am so damned afraid he'll turn me away and not even give me that one opportunity to give him my special gift of submission.  I want to bring my own special zest for life into his. 
I wish I knew what to do.  Do I tell him and hope he doesn't reject me? Or do I suffer in silence?

1/30/2010 1:27:34 PM

Submissive's Creed

Author Unknown

  1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
  2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom.
  3. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
  4. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Top, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.
  5. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat.
  6. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
  7. I will be responsive to my Top. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.
  8. I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because he is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.
  9. I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
  10. I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.
  11. I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with what he is requesting. I realize he has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.
  12. I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.
  13. Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.

1/26/2010 7:39:37 PM
Because he makes me feel safe.  I wish I knew what I could give him in return.

1/2/2010 9:11:33 AM
I am NOT a dominant! Why are subbies and slaves viewing me??

12/18/2009 10:49:12 PM
Why in the name of all that's ... well you get the picture ... are all these slaves and submissives checking me out? I mean really ... my name is smartassSUBBIE!!!!!

2/19/2009 1:51:48 PM
**MUNCH**

When:  Thursday, February 19, 2009

             7:30 PM - 9:30 PM
Where:  Unicorn Diner
             2944 Victory Blvd
             Staten Island, NY 10314


1/13/2009 1:20:02 PM
Don't forget there is a Munch this Thursday, January 15th starting at 7:30 pm at the Unicorn Diner, located at Victory Blvd near Richmond Avenue, Staten Island, NY!!!

11/12/2008 5:37:45 PM
Just wanted to remind everyone that there will be a Munch held on November 20th from 7:30 PM - 9:30 PM at the Unicorn Diner located on Victory Blvd near Richmond Avenue in Staten Island, NY.
Just message me for any other details and/or your RSVP!

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TwistedSwanger
 
 Age: 24
 SA, Bosnia