I hear so many doms/domes on this site and others go on about how disrespectful it is if someone even talks to their sub without their permission, but many of these same doms are referring to subs as belonging to them while in reality their subs are actually the spouses or ltr significant others of other men and women outside the lifestyle.
My question is if someone is not in the lifestyle does that automatically make their rights null and void to potential doms. I mean it would seem to me that marriage or a similar arrangement is the ultimate ownership so isn't it disrespectful to claim someone else's significant other as your own and ignore their rights to that person, but then get angry when someone else takes an interest after you have "staked" your claim so to speak.
Before I hear all the justification about how since they are looking for masters, domes, etc that makes them fair game I have this to say, them doing their partner wrong and you participating in them doing their partner wrong, just makes you both wrong and nobody right. So if you are approached by someone who is in a relationship that is not open, please take the high road and refuse them. In doing so you will refute one of the many stereotypes about people min the lifestyle which is that we have no concept of faithfulness, loyalty or committed relationships and you will also prove that at least you do recognize someone else's property/ |