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About UnstuckInTime
YOUR TIME IS EXTREMELY VALUABLE.
i promise to do my best not to waste a single second of it.
i believe, with all my heart, that i may be what You are seeking. And i'd like the chance to earn that place at Your feet.
i'm seeking a relationship and i'm seeking permanence. i see this as a lifelong journey i'm embarking upon and i don't want to promise forever over and over again until it means nothing. i want to be Yours, forever. Period. End of story. Can W/we make that happen?
i'm new. i know a LOT about this life. i know a LOT about what Your expectations may be. i know a LOT about what's expected and demanded of a sub/slave in this life. i am not naive. i know exactly what i'm getting myself into and i'm charging ahead full steam. i know, deep down in my bones, that this is the life i was meant to live.
So, if You are tired of playing games with all the fakes, flakes and wannabes, perhaps You'll give a noobie a chance instead. i understand the risk. You could put a lot of time and energy into me only to see me disappear or chicken out. You could invest Your feelings in me and i could realize that i was wrong and i'm not meant for this life at all.
i can't convince You that i'm sure that won't happen. What can i say to prove to You that i know this is exactly what i'm meant to do with my life? Nothing. So, i'll just ask You this--have You had success on this site with the serial kink daters? Have You had success with the subs who change allegiance like You or i change underwear? Have You had success with any kind of person on this site? If the answer is no, then maybe You'll think about trying me.
i do require some patience. i do require some teaching. i do require some understanding. But i am laser focused on what i want to be and what i want to be is Yours. i'm not living in some imaginary world. i'm not coming into this with crazy expectations. What i crave most is Your indomitable will, Your absolute control, Your insatiable desire and Your everlasting ownership.
i'd love to hear what You want. What You expect. What You need. What You demand. i'd love to hear about where You see me fitting into Your life and plans for the future. i'd like to know how i can serve, please, worship and obey You for the rest of my life.
Let's try honesty. Let's try truth. Let's try. i'm still discovering myself. But i know that this is where i belong and i know it's what i'm meant to do and be. Can You help me?
Can You take what You want? Can You leave me unable to live without You? i'm begging You, please, come and take me.
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i am single. i have never been married but was in a 13 year relationship. i have no kids and no dependents.
i have no debt. i am responsible with my money. i have a healthy savings, retirement accounts, etc.
i am able, willing and happy to relocate. i am able, willing and happy to visit as often as it takes to make a LDR work.
i rent.
i work in content marketing. It's a job i do for a firm right now, but one i can do as a freelancer someday, which means i have the ability to work from home and be successful at it.
i love to read. Please ask me if You'd like to know what i'm reading right now. i'm always in the middle of a book.
i love sports. Avid Cubs, Blackhawks, Bears fan. i love basketball too much to ever watch the NBA. It's more fake than wrestling.
i'm willing to exchange pics but i'm not comfortable just leaving them up here. Once You own me, that'll be Your choice to make, until then, i have to be a little shy. Sorry.
i hope You like what You've read and i hope You won't hesitate to change what You don't like. ;) |
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Some thoughts from the outside looking in:
I've been walking 3 miles every night and one of my favorite things about taking walks are the thoughts that flow through my head as I'm out there getting in my exercise. I see a lot of couples walking, some of them hand in hand, taking it slow. I can't help but wonder if any of them are D/s couples. I wonder if their holding hands that are discreetly cuffed together. I wonder if under those shorts is a chastity device that She keeps him in? I wonder if there is a remote fob in Her hand that gives him a little jolt if his pace slows down?
Or, maybe they are a D/s couple but it's just a completely vanilla time for them. Sure, she's in charge. She's the Boss. But they are just having a normal conversation without any D/s context at all. Maybe no one would ever guess that She rules over him with absolute authority and then, Her shoelace comes undone and he lovingly genuflaspects beneath Her and ties it for Her. She doesn't even need to ask/tell him to do it. His service to Her is organic and he's always--ALWAYS--looking for even the smallest service he can provide or gesture he can make to show Her that he knows his place and delights in every single thing She allows him to do for Her.
When I think about this lifestyle, which I understand that I don't just want but need, it's not the the super kinky fetish scenes I imagine. It's going for a walk together. Its about always holding Her hand. It's about tying Her shoes for Her. Maybe it's not a walk at all. Maybe it's playing a board game or sitting down and having coffee making up stories about the people that pass by on the sidewalk out front. Maybe it's picking out the couples we think are like us--undercover Miss and slave--and why we suspect it, making each other laugh with our reasons for suspecting them. Maybe it's watching O/our favorite TV show (ie. Your favorite TV show) with my curled up at Your feet. Discussing it during the commercials. Your hand in my hair. Petting me. Owning me.
Is this life out there? Is it real? Please, please, please...find me. |
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