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I'm queer and kinky...nothing to see here really! BDSM isn't all there is to my life, although I'd rather not be without it; I want to explore & enjoy as much as I can with people I care about. My friends are mostly kinky and everyone in my life knows that I am & that's just the way I like it. I'm currently dipping my toes in the delightful waters of Oklahoma's kink scene, so do come & say hello if you see me somewhere; I'll be the quiet one in the corner! Feel free to message me here if you think we might get along too. I'm fairly shy until you get to know me, but hard to miss; unusual clothes & 1950's cat eye glasses being amongst my fetishes. I'm femme but not precious about it & am just as likely to be up a ladder with a nail gun as sewing frou frou dresses. I largely spend my time designing & making interesting & beautiful things (& trying to be one myself; it's a work in progress). I'm looking for a woman (read WOMAN not man) for a friendship and eventually a relationship. I am not sub to anyone and only wish to persue a relationship with a sub. The fetishes on my list are far from a complete 'what I'm into'. I think they give a fairly good sketch of who I am though & that's more useful than knowing whether I like it up the ass or not. I'm also only sporadically online, so please don't be offended if I don't respond to contact right away.