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ukfella

Transgender Switch, 36, ESSEX
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About ukfella

I have more than one profile on CM aimed at different interest groups so while browsing profiles, I may pop up under different name - just to let you know it is me and not fake.


IMPORTANT - READ ALL THE PROFILE FULLY

Hello, thanks for checking out my profile.
Friendly, fun loving, single, sincere, sensual, professional career, modern & youngmined dominant fella from N. West UK sincerely seeking genuine, enthusiastic, needy, younger sub/slave female (who prefers older experienced doms or does not regard ages as a relevant factor) for erotic BDSM or master /slave relationship RT in LTR or to share erotic online fun. Hoping there may be a few people on here who aren't complete timewasters and idiot fakes.


I appreciate all aspects of genuine submissive female sexuality and delightfully kinky interests (either experienced or novice), which I love to explore, exploit, cater to and share, especially subs with a delightfully dirty mind who enjoy erotic punishment, role play, humiliation, sexual use / abuse, discipline, control and being treated as a sex object within a special intimate BDSM relationship. I am far from being a misogynist but I do appreciate female mental, physical and sexual masochism and servitude at all levels.
Also enjoy sharing erotic online fun, chat, webcam, pics, erotic email etc. with those who enjoy same.
Although having had considerable and varied sub/dom experience in the past, I am now divorced from a vanilla marriage which lacked that element. I guess there will always be something missing in totally "conventional "relationships and I need to get back where I belong and with someone I can relate to.

I'm a sucker for eye candy and adore femininity, sexy provocative dress / appearance so I appreciate a girl who enjoys looking good and turning heads.

Although I enjoy the excitement of "no strings" fun, I would also welcome a genuine sub/slave who was seeking an exciting long term relationship as I am looking for a brighter tomorrow and hoping I am not doomed to a completely vanilla life on the superficial social scene. I like to enjoy a relationship on all levels - emotional, sexual , mental and physical.
I love to explore you and share intimate erotic things and I also women with genuine needs for excitement and arousal from the things we share (which is an important part of my own enjoyment).
I am very open, sincere and reliable and seek a horny / needy sub with similar outlook. Although I like control and dominance, I always treat people with respect, discretion and integrity and fully agree with the concept that even the most compliant submissive slut is not a doormat (unless she wishes to be treated so), and taking advantage of sub sexuality is a privelage based on an essential truse and mutual understanding and enjoyment.

Where required, also loves to guide / train/ teach / develop novice sub sexuality and interests and help them explore. Enjoys daddy dom and school dynamic / scenarios to.


Can offer relocation to me for the right relationship but no assistance upfront should it be required - this would be by reimbursement


Anyone with "willing to relocate" in their profile must be serious about this as an option.





If I have checked your profile and not contacted you it will be because I did not think you would be interested, but if so please get in touch.

Obviously this concentrates mainly on the sexual /BDSM elements, but I also appreciate the general and more "vanilla" aspects to be shared in a good relationship to.

I only seek people with a similar level of interest and enthusiasm as myself, so idiot fakes, timewasters, scammers and similar scum don't waste your time.
Informative replies essential - those who can only manage to cobble together a few words with no real information or "one liners" don't inspire any confidence of genuine interest.


  • No chat or "contact me on yahoo" type requests until after informative email exchanges.

  • Verified photos required before I can believe anything is real on here because of all the idiot fakes



Please contact me if interested and tell me all about you. Hoping to hear from you - let's explore !! - nothing to loose.
Alan


I was unsure about additing some explicit photos to profile - some like that - others not and can be put off by that - let me know !!

"It is the nature of the female to submit; accordingly, it is natural that, when she is forced to acknowledge, accept, express and reveal this nature, that she should be almost deliriously joyful, and thankful, to her master; she has been taught her womanhood."

 

 

Prefer email exchange / verified photos to get to know who you are and what you wish to share before accepting "blind" chat requests or "add me on Y" type messages.

Too many idiot weirdo fakes on here so need to be confident that people are genuine

I am getting rather pissed off with time wasters who raise false hopes by replying on impulse and then never follow anything through. It doesn't take much to think about your level of enthusism before replying to someone. I am sure most people would prefer not to get a reply at all rather than be pissed around like that

Why so many contradictory profiles???? - Why, when people introduce themselves as "totally willing slave", "wants to be used and abused in any way", "wanting total control" etc. etc., do they then go on to start listing all kinds of conditions, do's and dont's, will and will not's and the like?

  Obviously everyone has choice of preferences etc. but they can be conveyed in a sensible and unconfusing manner.

Cant really see the pint of CM listing hundreds of profiles for people who have obviously left the site - like last online 2007 and the like.

Considering the slim chance of genuine contact with someone in my area (which is obviously the ideal) I am quite open to the prospect of less local contacts so don't let location be a barrier to making contact.

Thanks to those who have contacted me and shown interest, but unfortunately they have been the kind who never take things anywhere or follow up on anything (timewasters).  I am sure that those who share my enthusiasm and need for genuine sub/dom sexuality in a friendship/relationship will understand how frustrating this is. Thanks also to those who do have the decency to reply to messages in a proper manner - even if negatively. I still hope that someone compatible may contact me as I have lots to share with the right sub female and I don't give up hope.

 

One of the sad ironies of this and similar contact medium is that women so often complain of being swamped with replies /offers where men are lucky to even get an acknowledgement - who says there is sexual equality !!! Smile 

Since joining the site, I have also been confused by people who advertise themselves on profiles but  then their profiles state they are happily owned or not looking etc. etc. - there must be a point - but I can't see it.

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