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When you go the trouble and time to try and connect with someone who may just be the one you've been looking for. And you may be hers vice versa, take a minute or two to respond. It doesn't take long even to say not my style. We all need the close intimate intensity of D-s so be kind and just try to get to know someone. You never know what might happen if you read and respond to that message or respond to that profile
Looking to experience the intensity that I think only comes from the trust of D/s.
Experienced and with the necessary tools to control, both mental and physical.
Above all Safe sane and consensual. -- ######################## begin ideal person ######################## -->
My Ideal Person:
Having a woman who is equal open her mind to you and reveal her inner desires, to trust you with her control, to see her thrill as the collar is buckled, to see in her eyes this is where she needs to be. To see her dress to please, to crave and to know you can give her what she craves. To one minute have vanilla passion, the next, with a word or a motion she knows I am in control. she is my slut, my lover, my whore, my equal. Intelligent, bright and open and eager. Cuffed, collared, on a leash, she is free to be herself.
-- ######################## end ideal person ######################## -->-- ######################## begin topics profile ######################## -->
The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?:
B&D (BD) - Bondage and Discipline, D&S (d/s) - Domination and submission, A little of each., All of it and more! |
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'like a sore spot on the roof of your mouth, that would heal if you could only stop tonguing it' |
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The Dichotomy
Before the internet, it was hard to find those who shared the D/s need. Now these sites exist,,,yay,,,or in fact not. Because sometimes you get the scent and shape and image of the desire you have framed all your adult life,,,but oddly seems more remote than when you sought in the dark. Distance, time, circumstance,,,all conspire...tantalising in the Greek sense. |
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Trust: the foundations of all we do are based on this. Ultimate trust, an ultimate bond between 2 people. To show every facet of yourself to another to let them open up to you. To know its not the ropes and cuffs and leather that keep you still but your own desire to be there. The Dom is only as good as the bond that is there, the bond created, the bond that both want.The intimacy, the knowing the other, comes from wanting to further the closeness. It's why vanilla could never understand the erotic charge of pursed lips pressed to leather boots. not humilation, not degradation...but i do this for you,,,because i know it moves you, and moving you moves me. |
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Some people forget that behind these profiles there is a person with feelings. To paraphrase an average film,,,be careful where you walk because youre treading on my dreams.
So very apt still. I hope people remember that to some this isn't a kinky diversion but an expression of a need that is searching for an outlet. It's a person you let down or mess around not an anonymous account. |
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surely it shouldnt be this difficult to find someone who gets you? |
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Some people forget that behind these profiles there is a person with feelings. To paraphrase an average film,,,be careful where you walk because youre treading on my dreams.
Safe sane consensual,,,perhaps i should add decent, honest and respectful as a human being.
if i coujld turn my back on this side of me sometimes i would,,,but its like saying you no longer fancy women,,,,because you say it,,,doesnt make it true.
ah well |
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Curse?
To have been shown the intimacy of D/s then to forever strive to regain them,,,maybe it's better to never have seen what you're missing,,,
sometimes
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"Come to the edge" he said. "I'm afraid"she replied. "Come to the edge" he said. "I'll fall" she replied. "Come to the edge", he said. So she came. And he pushed her. ... And she flew. .
saw this quote...says so much |
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there's always a light somewhere when you look... |
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You look and look and sometimes you find a spark, and it all seems to be right, but then it drifts and you ache and you have only memories of that intimate of all intimacies, a closeness the outsiders will never know. and you move away,,,,but it draws you back...the search continues...with hope and memory of how good it can be. |
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So....had my account deleted twice in quick succession - what's that all about? |
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