The heart and the head have taken a few batterings recently so I have reassesed what I am seeking.  Those of you who fit the not so closed criteria feel free to email, but please for the love of God, have a picture of you!  That makes me grumpy when it's a fake pic or an animal or inanimate object :S  Pics of your kit don't excite me either, mainly because my kit is most likely bigger ;o)