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Life often holds many challenges. It will push you in ways you did not expect or foresee.

It can be an element of life that gives you much or one which takes much away.

Either way, we are but finite things, so revel in it. Live it and do what you may when you may or be left with only regret.

WOW. An amazing night was had, doing a private rope demo for couple who wanted to explore it and had not tried it. I couldn't quiet tell who was more enamoured with the ropes, him or her.

It was rather fun to play tutor for the evening. I hope they have many hours of fun together. Felt rather warm and fuzzy to see their delight. I must be going soft..

I was chatting with a friend who is many years older than my self. She has the most wicked sense of humour and the dirtiest mind in the world. So if you think age means you have to be respectable. Don't be. Life is for the fun of living. So enjoy it!

As the song says " you're a long time dead"..

I wonder if we do put too much say, in the "age" at times.
True attraction stems from the heart and mind, why do we focus upon a number?

Its always nice to chat with friends.
The interesting things about bdsm, is that for everyone, the experience is slightly different, as its really does revolve around the mind and everyone is different.
Its rare you find a person with an established interest in bdsm, who also does not have a great imagination too.

Merry Christmas or Winter Festivities to all!

Bring me your body, your mind and your soul! And see what I can make of your submission. Do you dare? Do you have the courage to step through that door. To take that first step along the journey. Be warned though. Once you do.. it might just change your life for ever!

One that fire is truly lit, it may never burn out!

Step into my world.. I dare you!

Tread carefully mind..

Once you do, you may never want to go back!

What is it with the sudden rise in people wanting bareback sex with their BDSM?
Seriously, do people in this modern world not have a care for their health or safety of their partners/subs/Dom etc?

Well, back and searching once more.

Is there a fetish for wrapping someone up in tinsel??

There are a lot of people on here who need to get a life!

Seriously. The "no limits" brigade. I have a set of lovely bolt croppers. So you have no limits eh? Well, well..  may be I have a fetish for chopping off your fingers 1cm at a time. What.. you have a limit now.. hmm. Just get a life and stop pestering people.

Sheesh, I could seriously lynch some of the muppets on here.

I can see now why so many people find it so hard to meet anyone through CM or any of the other sites, as the idiot percentage has rocketed of late.

Seems people are forgetting, that after all.. be they Dom/Domme/Sub/Slave etc, every one is a person. So treat them like one.

And before I get some idiot bloke pretending to be a woman, writing to me asking me to chop of their fingers one by one. There are some deep lakes in the UK. Find one and jump in, preferably with concrete shoes on, and out of sight or sound of any well meaning person who might endanger the rescue services, by alerting them to their plight. And no I don't seriously want to chop off anyones fingers.

I might have long strong arms and big hands. But I am afraid they won't stretch all the way to Singapore or Florida sorry. 

One of the largest errotic organs we posses is the brain. The mind is a wonderful thing. Everyones mind is slightly different and we all think slightly differently, it is this that really makes the world dominance, submission and control work.

At the end of the day, it is our brains that percieve what is happening. It is such a shame that some folks forget that or have not yet discovered it.

What a weekend. Walking around in the mud, and getting very tired feet and sore ankles. But the music was great!

I think a lot of people seem to assume that if you have an interest in breast play, then you only have an interest in large breasts. I have to say that, size actually for me does not matter. Its all about the person and having a special time together.
The fun is in getting to know someone, knowing how they will react and using their own body’s reactions. That can take a little time to learn, but boy is it worth it.

I just wonder at times why some people on the internet and not just here, feel the reason to be quite so rude to complete strangers they have never met. Its such a shame, as I am sure it puts people off using the internet and amougst that, sites like this.
Which ultimately stops people fullfilling their dreams I guess. Such a shame.

Reatreated indoors to avoid sunburn. But what a fabulous weekend we have had.

Oh I hope we have a great summer.

Thank god we have avoided the snow here. Feel sorry for those in scotland. Looks like they are getting it in style again. But they are tough up north. lol.

Finally gotten around to updating a few things.  I am amazed at how quick this year is flying by. Scary it is already March. Hardly feels like a moment ago, it was Christmas.
I fired off a text to a long un heard from friend yesterday, as I discovered a Christmas card from them that managed to go unopened and hidden till today.

They replied and now have an invite to visit this summer down in Kent. I think a trip on the motorbike will be required. Just pent three hours on the phone catching up..  its so easy to loose touch with friends. So if you haven’t spoken to any of yours in a while. Why not drop them a line.

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CSI Miami.. mmmm I wish we had their weather. Apart from the hurricanes that is. :)

Ok, who does not enjoy playing computer games?
Be honest now..

Well, as my last profile text did not seem to getting anyones attention. I have re-written it and tried to convey a few more thoughts.

I hope people are keeping well in this cold snap. It is horrid out and I pitty any one who has to work out doors at this time of the year or is not fortunate enough to have a good health.

I am sure even those with the liking for more "outdoor" fun, are thinking twice today.

Updating my profile shortly.

Re-written my profile again. 


I am tall. I am most likley taller than you. I am strong. I am most likley stronger than you.

I want to be happy. I want you to be happy.

I love to work with the mind, as where that leads, the body follows. I can be cruel. I can be kind. I can be many things, but you won't know unless you get to know me.

There are some people in the world, who's mere presence can make one smile. Now that, is what I call a gift!

Had a few people asking about the body painting. No I am not a proffesional. I would love to be, but I am merely a keen amature.

It is a hell of a lot of fun and I think everyone should have a go, at least once!

Thought I would update my journal a bit.

To answer some questions regarding body art.

I personally use, traditional paint brushes as well as an airbrush, cut foam shapes and either airbrush stencils or home made ones. I mostly work with water based paints as they wash off easier than most others. I have also worked with powdered makeup for one lady with sensitive skin. Safety first remember. What ever you use, make sure it is not toxic, and ensure you protect the eyes amongst other areas.

Which brings me on the practical sides. If you plan to have a go your self, test some paint on your skin first. Some people can react or can become sensitive to paint pigments/mediums etc over time. Also your skin has to breath, so heavy grease style makeup?s are not good for large area coverage, or top to toe. In fact they tend to me very pricey so not readily used these days, and never mind the trouble of getting it off. Though I suppose they could be used a form of punishment, as some literally require scrubbing off, he says with a grin.

If you use consider using inks, be very careful. Most are designed to be permanent and can seep through a base layer of paint, so looking like smurf, might not be everyone?s cup of tea for a fortnight or more. Though there are some lovely water based artist inks out there, which are can give some cracking shading and high lighting effects if you know how to use them.

Time, is another thing to consider. It is easy to simple effects, shapes, small area coverage in a few minutes, but if you start to get into complicated patterns, stencil overlays, shading, highlighting, blending and more, then well. Your subject had best be patient and you can spend hours.

Why bother? Probably a question some of you are asking, and perfectly just one. Simple for me, I enjoy doing the painting. I enjoy seeing the effect and it generates differing reactions from my subjects. Some find it very erotic, some very hard to bare, especially if they are one of those people who hates having ink or paint on their hands.

The other thing I like, is every canvas/subject is different. No two people are identical, (ok not had the pleasure of working with twins yet..lol) and so the same design and can be used again and again without being boring.

Cleaning up, well that?s easy with the right use of paints etc. Cold water hose pipe in the garden? yes I am kidding. A warm shower and some shower gel usually does the trick.

Oh, words of warning. If you decide to give it a go, make sure you protect the furniture, carpet etc. You will drip paint somewhere whilst painting. And your subject will most likely brush against something or touch something and if the paint is not dry, it will come off.

By the way, if you?re a lady who hates being tickled. Then an airbrush is your greatest nemesis. Believe me!

There are lots and lots of games and activities you can enjoy with a painted sub. Target areas can be highlighted. Outfits can be painted, and saves on buying news ones.

Always wanted to see what your other half would look like as a cute Dalmatian puppy, but don?t wish to shell out the hundreds for the puppy masks etc.?..
Well I think you get the idea.

Well looks like the cold snap goes on a bit longer. More snow on its way apparently.

Some time all this snow is going to have melt. Then watch the floods start again.

So, anyone for a swim? :)

Not spending as much time on here as I used too. So if you send me a message it might be a few days before I reply.

How to spot the scammers -

1. An email address in their profile.
2. "I am a no-limits".
3. "Don't be afraid of telling what to do".
4. Their photos are too good.
5. They show a photo with US products and furniture claiming to be in the UK.
6. They only have one photo.
7. They tend to be "slaves" at 18 but well trained.
8. The advert is written using male mannerisms.
9. They ask you to tell them what you want to do.
10. The scammers have no real life friends or there only friends are their supposed partners.

Why are people so judgemental? If you are happy with your self and you are not perfect, why seek perfection in the person you are looking for?
I wonder how many people have met others through this site. And I truly mean that. How many people has this site worked for, and I don't mean to include Pro's and their clients.
 

The dreaded nights are closing in..

If you don't dare to explore. You will never find!

Was having a discussion last night with a friend, over the virtues of corsetry and we turned to the one question, ?what is it about corsets that men find so attractive??

I have asked me self this a few times and I have to admit, it rather has me baffled. I do like the appearance of a lady in a corset, but here is also something else. I just cannot quite put  my finger on it right now. 

So what is your view?

"Does it take bravery to submit to someone?"

(Spotted thus up on a site, and got me wondering, I for one believe it does, what do you think? )

The sun was out and roads were clear. A cracking day spent alone.

I hope I will find someone soon to share them with.

Can you say, you have truly lived?  I wonder. Interesting question.

Alas, seem that CM is being overrun by scammer of late.. ok had the odd one or two in the past, but this week i am upto six..

But be warned, they are going all high tech now..lol..
For example- "I think you are sexy, I want you, please text ****to and select "yes" when we reply.. so we can spend hours chatting.. " Yes, right, hmm so I can subscribe to your £20 per text premium mobile alert scam.. hmm no thanks!..

But then of course, some of them are so intelligent, well ok that could be the wrong word, but I am reassured to see the old favorite, of " I love you, I want you, I am loyal and honest and just want your bank details, address and date of birth so i can of course, drain your account and use your details in an illegal residency application form.. "

If one constantly seeks perfection, one has to be aware, that they strive for something that may be un-obtainable and yet more mean they pass by what was obtainable in their searching.

You live for dreams, not on them.

The Pen Task

The following is a very simple exercise for a woman on her own.
It?s a concentration exercise and sensation exercise.

Though I came up with it, as an obedience test, it actually works as a relaxation exercise as well. Originally I gave it as a solo task, to be done whilst I was absent. However it is quite fun to be there and watch when used in an obedience exercise.

Requirements

The lady will require a private space, a Bic Byro of any colour, though I prefer blue.

Oh you might need a shower afterward.

Sensation

I will give the relaxation and sensation version here.

Basically you need to find a quite spot, a bedroom, hotel room etc, somewhere where you can dim the light, close the curtains, maybe put on some quiet background music and be comfortable.

Be seated, upright and fairly comfortably. Close your eyes and remove any upper clothing till you are bare chested making sure you keep those eyes closed.
Try and clear your mind and concentrate on your breathing and the feeling of being exposed.

Take hold of the Byro Pen, in your preferred hand, but hold it by the far end, pinched between your fore-finger and thumb, so you can waggle it easily up and down. Take a few slow deep breaths and relax your shoulders and tilt your head back slowly. Whilst still keeping those eyes shut.

Now using your preferred hand, guide the pen and place the nib against the base of your neck so you can feel a light pressure. Place your other hand down by your sir or even behind your back, which ever you find more comfortable.

Focus on the pressure point on your neck. Now smoothly drag the pen downward in a straight a line as you can manage over one of your breasts. Drawing a near vertical dissection line, directly over the aureole and nipple all the way down to the base of the breast and then back up to the base of your neck. Remember not to grip the pen to tightly and keep a firm pressure on the nib.

Now lift the pen away and place mid way down your breast and to the side and this time draw a horizontal line directly across the breast, again, crossing the aureole and nipple and then back to where you started from.

Take a moment to get a couple of smooth shallow deep breaths in. (You will know why when you do it).

Now once more place the nib against the base of your neck and repeat the downward and upward line, making sure to cross the aureole and nipple. Then again repeat the horizontal lines.

All the time keeping your eyes closed and your shoulders relaxed.

Once you have completed that twice on the first breast, repeat it for the second in the same fashion. Remembering to move steadily with the pen and not to rush. If you do this with your dominant partner, they can direct the chosen speed of movement with desired effects..

Once you have completed the cross lines on both breasts. Now we move to the second part.

With the same hold on the pen, and same slow steady speed and pressure, starting from the base of the neck, move the pen down vertically over the first breast and till you reach the edge of your aureole. Now draw trace a line around the edge of it and back to where you started. Repeat this four times, till you have four nice circles surrounding the aureole. Then lift the pen away and place the nib against the nipple. Using the tip of your fore-finger on the very end of the pen, push the nipple inward with a light pressure and hold it for a count of 5 seconds.

Now take some more deep steady breaths and repeat for the other breast.

And then sit back and relax and just absorb the feelings that you have just experienced. Think on how it felt and what you enjoyed the most from it.

And Dom or Domme, should be able to see that be a few ?alteration? the exercise can be repeated, each time, increasing the number of lines, or duration of depression of the nipple, to increase the strength and duration of the sensations and or pain.

And all you need is a lady and pen. Simplicity it?s self.

Well, I have always had an interest in suction cupping. Its history and the theories behind it.
It also leaves rather nice patterns.

In an attempt to help a fellow CM patron, have been doing a bit of research into suction devices and finding out all sorts of interesting things.

Now to apply some science and have a tinker with a few things. Got an interesting shopping list for the weekend, that is for sure.

Not sure why, but this little project has rather caught my imagination.

If you have never tried suction cupping, give it a go.. you might enjoy it.

Do you let your fears control your life?

Are you able to step out of the comfort zone and be your self.

To put away the mask, to stand before someone as the person you really are?

Oh yes, another scammer..Some people never learn do they.. lovely photograph on sexyjanice4u profile, but then I suspect, the she  is really a "he" and just another rather dumb scammer.

"Hi there, I'm Janice simply pretty, bubbly & happy, always love to go hang out with my friends....you can reach me out jbrithon at yaw hoo dat com." (Yes thats jbrithon@yahoo.com incase you cannot read..)

The Pen Task

The following is a very simple exercise for a woman on her own.
It?s a concentration exercise and sensation exercise.

Though I came up with it, as an obedience test, it actually works as a relaxation exercise as well. Originally I gave it as a solo task, to be done whilst I was absent. However it is quite fun to be there and watch when used in an obedience exercise.

Requirements

The lady will require a private space, a Bic Byro of any colour, though I prefer blue.

Oh you might need a shower afterward.

Sensation

I will give the relaxation and sensation version here.

Basically you need to find a quite spot, a bedroom, hotel room etc, somewhere where you can dim the light, close the curtains, maybe put on some quiet background music and be comfortable.

Be seated, upright and fairly comfortably. Close your eyes and remove any upper clothing till you are bare chested making sure you keep those eyes closed.
Try and clear your mind and concentrate on your breathing and the feeling of being exposed.

Take hold of the Byro Pen, in your preferred hand, but hold it by the far end, pinched between your fore-finger and thumb, so you can waggle it easily up and down. Take a few slow deep breaths and relax your shoulders and tilt your head back slowly. Whilst still keeping those eyes shut.

Now using your preferred hand, guide the pen and place the nib against the base of your neck so you can feel a light pressure. Place your other hand down by your sir or even behind your back, which ever you find more comfortable.

Focus on the pressure point on your neck. Now smoothly drag the pen downward in a straight a line as you can manage over one of your breasts. Drawing a near vertical dissection line, directly over the aureole and nipple all the way down to the base of the breast and then back up to the base of your neck. Remember not to grip the pen to tightly and keep a firm pressure on the nib.

Now lift the pen away and place mid way down your breast and to the side and this time draw a horizontal line directly across the breast, again, crossing the aureole and nipple and then back to where you started from.

Take a moment to get a couple of smooth shallow deep breaths in. (You will know why when you do it).

Now once more place the nib against the base of your neck and repeat the downward and upward line, making sure to cross the aureole and nipple. Then again repeat the horizontal lines.

All the time keeping your eyes closed and your shoulders relaxed.

Once you have completed that twice on the first breast, repeat it for the second in the same fashion. Remembering to move steadily with the pen and not to rush. If you do this with your dominant partner, they can direct the chosen speed of movement with desired effects..

Once you have completed the cross lines on both breasts. Now we move to the second part.

With the same hold on the pen, and same slow steady speed and pressure, starting from the base of the neck, move the pen down vertically over the first breast and till you reach the edge of your aureole. Now draw trace a line around the edge of it and back to where you started. Repeat this four times, till you have four nice circles surrounding the aureole. Then lift the pen away and place the nib against the nipple. Using the tip of your fore-finger on the very end of the pen, push the nipple inward with a light pressure and hold it for a count of 5 seconds.

Now take some more deep steady breaths and repeat for the other breast.

And then sit back and relax and just absorb the feelings that you have just experienced. Think on how it felt and what you enjoyed the most from it.

And Dom or Domme, should be able to see that be a few ?alteration? the exercise can be repeated, each time, increasing the number of lines, or duration of depression of the nipple, to increase the strength and duration of the sensations and or pain.

And all you need is a lady and pen. Simplicity it?s self.

Two entries in one night. I was turned down by a lovely lady, she said she wanted someone better looking. Ouch. At least she was honest. lol. I wished her well on her search. I still think we put far too much weight into looks, but hey, I am the ugly one..lol.

?I like it really really hard, I mean no holding back?..

At that point, I stopped reading the email. And knew them for another fantasist. I am over 6' tall and have hands the size of dinner plates with arms to match and I don't really fancy a prison sentence thanks. I know with a crop or tawse, I can leave an array of pretty marks, but I can also do damage, its the knowledge of when to stop and having the self control to stop that counts... If your "a total 100% pain slut", I wish you well, I will stick too more measured fun thanks.