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Female Submissive, 28, Des Moines, Iowa
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Male Switch, 40, Reston, Virginia
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Dominant Couple, 30, South Shore, Massachusetts
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About TwistedChange
Just for the record, I'd like to state that I am not looking for anything except friendship.
Former sub now retired from active involvement in the scene. Here only to observe the lifestyle I once knew and to possibly offer advice or help to those who may need it.
I was messaged to ask me to define the advice I'd give (smart sub!) and I suppose the advice I would be most comfortable offering would be, if you have to turn over and over in your mind something negative your Master has said to you, about you or something he wants to you do. You are turning it over for a reason. Has he crossed the line? Has he deliberately poked a sore spot within you that no sane Dom would do? Is he being unreasonable? Just because he's your Dom, or just because he calls himself such, does that mean he isn't capable of being unreasonable?
A Dom who states what he should never be questioned is a Dom who should take a long hard look at his methods and his motives.
I am not entirely sure that I was happy in the lifestyle and have some memories of some experiences which (in retrospect) were sad little power trips exercised by sad little men. However, I am at peace with that now. I feel that subs should realise that their Master isn't always right and isn't always the man he should be. He is only human after all.
As a sub you are expected to grow, surely the same process should be applied to the Dom. A Dom does not arrive on the scene fully formed. He, like his sub should grow and learn too. If he isn't prepared to do that, what use is he to a sub?
Remember, sisters, you are not alone out there. Never cry alone or worry that you have nowhere to turn. There is always somewhere and your sisters are there for you. Gender and inclinations don't matter - if you identify as a sub, you are a sister and you have a voice which deserves to be heard.
In friendship
Twisted x |
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