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Male Submissive, 21, Katowice
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About tunesforyou
I’m a lesbian in a committed relationship. I'm here looking for friends, guidance and intelligent conversation. I am sincere in my interest in this lifestyle, but know very little about it, although I am learning. I also have a great sense of humor, so you may find me to be pretty good company outside of D/s chat as well!
I am very much in love with my partner. She drives a big truck over the road and is out for four or five weeks at a time. We have a wonderfully gentle love life. However, I have found myself drawn to the D/s lifestyle for years. She knows I have these feelings and that I chat with others. We do incorporate blindfolds and light bondage into our love life, but not much beyond that. Well, we do have our toys, but don’t all lesbians have toy bags?
When I say I am sub, I guess I define that as being willing to give myself completely to the one I most trust with my heart. She truly helps to define me, while allowing me my autonomy and talent and individuality. I don’t think I help to define her, as much as I help her to shape how she defines herself. We are two, and we are one. When we are one, I like her to lead the way. But, she will allow me to draw her off on a divergent path if it is really important to me. While we don’t define ourselves as D/s, I guess in some ways our life together flows that way naturally.
Sexually, I am definitely sub. Bondage, clamps, spreaders, crops and such turn me on. Scat, urine, blood and extreme pain do not. I often imagine being taken, not against my will, but without my ability to resist…..I hope that makes sense. Men do occasionally find their way into my fantasies. But then, don’t we all have fantasies that are great turn-ons in our heads, but destined to be train wrecks in reality? The soft, yet sometimes firm and demanding touch of a woman is, and always will be my singular desire.
I am intelligent, educated and creative. I play the guitar and write music, thus my user name. I have a life I am proud of. I am not Barbie, nor do I want to be. My hair is wonderfully gray and, while I still have a waistline, I proudly carry some extra pounds. I wear makeup about twice a year to prove I can still turn a head or two. But, I am not a girlie girl, and I don’t do the frills that go with that. No butch here either by any stretch. I am a beautiful woman who loves all the come-hither moments that that provides.
I do like somebody else to be in control, to show me the way. However, I am not a doormat or someone who is interested in any sort of abuse. If that is your thing, we probably have little to chat about. If I ever meet you, it will be for a friendly cup of coffee, nothing more. I am quite loyal to my partner and have no desire to cheat on her. I am just looking for friends who can help me find my way into and around this lifestyle. Perhaps I would enjoy hearing from you!
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What an interesting site. Some so true and real and honest....the Dom/mes who want to chat and get to know me with no expectations, let alone demands. And then there are the "Dom/mes" who demand upper and lower case respect, insist that I approach on bended keyboard and command that I strip and cam after two words. Since when did the definition of submissive become "stupid, naive, needy, desperate doormat?"
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