I'm Chuck, a new member, here because I seek personal growth through an intense live-in TPE relationship with a firm but loving and nurturing female authoritarian.

I seek opportunity to emotionally and physically surrender myself, bring pleasure by serving with devotion and obedience and destroy all adverse aspects of my masculinity.

I am a soft male and life-long service-oriented hetro submissive with deep psychological needs to serve and please women. I also have deep needs to be accepted, with respect rather than disdain for my submissive status.

I am a retired civil/structural engineer, a lifelong reader and learner, intelligent, articulate and non-judgmental. I value personal honesty and integrity, inherent fairness and full and completely honest communication.

I am clean and well-groomed, D&D free and do not drink. I am a light smoker, outside only. I'm also a great conversationalist and emotionally very open and honest. I am also playful and fun to be with.

I am single, unattached and will relocate almost anywhere in the Southwest.

I embrace the concept of innate female superiority in all aspects of life and view women as natural and better leaders. I fully appreciate the many benefits of matriarchal societies, where male submission is accepted as the natural way.

I have developed to the point of taking pride in my submissive nature and status. I think I am now able to surrender totally and serve in the proper spirit.

I can be compatible with just about any woman because I am willing to do everything required to make us compatible, so long as it's positive rather than negative, builds rather than demeans. My hard limits are few and simple.

I need an intelligent, good-natured authoritarinan who is firm in a fair manner. Someone nurturing and appreciative of my status who will also be my best friend.

Physical attributes are unimportant, although I am receptive to women who outweigh me. Above all, her heart must be in the right place.

I strive to be "non-macho" in all aspects of my life and be seen as a soft man or a "sweet and good boy".

But I possess the quiet inner strength and courage to enter into a submissive relationship that macho men lack. I am not a wimp, zero or robot. I am not into enduring pain and find bondage boring.

I am seeking personal growth, not destruction. I refuse to engage in activities that demean rather than build personal strengths and self-esteems. Of either my Domme or myself.

But I have unique views about shame and humiliation and think service to women is anything but shameful. For example: I don't view taking instructions, obedience or doing housework in an apron as shameful or demeaning. Becoming a house-husband would be fulfilling.

I freely admit I need training, regularly reinforced with firm discipline. Lovingly administered spankings fulfill deep psychological needs for me and are essential. Same for my enforced chastity.

I have a feminine side and intentionally emulate the thinking and some of the soft ways of women. My latent femininity is available to be molded and nourished or subdued as my Domme thinks best.

I am a giver and place the sexual pleasures of my partner above my own. I am compliant, make no demands or objections and obey without question. As a sub with pride, I enjoy a wide range of sexual activities that would fatally mortify vanilla macho males.

Thanks for reading this cryptic outline.

If you might be interested in what I have to offer, do please write. I'll answer all questions in detail and will send pics.

Chuck