Trustryst

The perfect Dom is a Robot yet to be built. As a Dom i find subs predicament a difficult one.

They want what they want, nothing more nothing less. They become surprised when their values do not align with the Dom. After all a true Dom lives life on his/her own terms meaning they often do not conform to many of our society rules and  (subs) reject that. The end result is an endless search. They return to this site day after day in search of a Dom that conforms to their vision and expectations. A true dilema.

My words for today

This site can be a bit of an enigma. People who want to make contact yet turn off their "chat" option. It would seem to me that chat lets people communicate quickly and safely. Not a connect?  then say so, quick and easy no games.

So many subs looking for Doms. So few real Doms. There can be many reasons for that.

Alpha males are natural Doms, which is how they live their lives after all.  Well that reduces the numbers doesn't it. The natural Alpha has to be self actualized, and KNOW what he is about...that further reduces the numbers. Add in the mentally balanced, understanding and not purely selfish elements and you are left with an even smaller number.   Now lets talk to common interests in the everyday relationship portion of the equation.  This is all too complicated don't you think? 

To expect a site to be able to accomplish all of that is asking a lot in my opinion.

A good number of those on this site THINK they know what they are looking for and many others are in search of......

Don't despair kiss the frogs and find the Prince.  Its a lottery after all. But by all means trust your instincts, be realistic and exercise caution.