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Male Dominant, 35

Dominant Couple, 24

Male Submissive, 47, anaheim, California

class="code">There should be a ?Dominant?. Since he (assuming it is a man that is the dominant, not always true) has the power, he has responsibilities to the submissive. These include giving her pleasure, knowing and doing what makes her happy, leading and pushing her to be her best, helping her reach HER goals and dreams, etc . He does not try to shape her in his own preconceived image of what she should be, but instead helps her blossom into the complete and wonderful person that she is. He knows what is her best, what she wants, what is best for her because they have totally open and honest communications. The Dom should respect the Sub's advice and point of view, but the decision is his. This assumes the Dom makes decision not based on ego or emotions, but logically figures out what is the best decision. If the Dom does something that hurts the Sub, she should be able to tell him in an informative manner, not an attacking manner. The Dom will also tell the Sub how he feels about her actions in an non attacking manner. The key for the Dom to understand, is not to focus on what the sub wants, but to understand what she needs, and help her meet her needs. He should also try to understand the difference between what she says and what she means, even when she is being open and honest, for she will often express what she wants, but it is upto the dom to figure out and understand what she needs.

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