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Know yourself first.
Please read all of my profile before contacting me.
Please, know yourself well. Key terms we need to agree on are, Safe, Sane and Consensual. Informed Consent, is another key terms I subscribe to. Am aware of 'Safe Words'. Please be like minded. I am not, nor have been 'In The Scene', having said that I do have Friends that are known within The Scene.
Am discreet and expect same. One night affairs do not suit my personality, nor my integrity. Trust and Communication are key.
This is my first profile on collarspace, yet I am not a vanilla girl. Nor am I an 'experienced -' know it all' . I do have limited experience with B.D.S.M play. One thing I've discovered about myself is that I do not 'play out a role within sessions'. I identify as 'submissive' and would love to explore this identity with one hetrosexual male Leader, one that understands the profound emotional and psychological depth of a sincere D/s dynamic.
I appreciate the small things in life, not a shallow person. Non-materialistic and down to earth. Self respect, Honesty, trust and willingness to communicate ?
If you only wish to flirt, please simply say so. I welcome messages from others here, regardless of your 'label'. I am approachable, friendly, somewhat shy with a quirky somewhat eccentric streak.
My primary need is for safety, to feel safe, to know I am safe. Please be honest, trustworthy and genuine. I am not concerned with looks, age nor body shape. Just please, have a positive outlook, be settled and know what you want, and be certain of your natural leadership skills.
What do I have to offer?
I can't promise you a rose garden - happy to build you one though. Am honest, trustworthy and discreet. I am 'ready' for a committed D/s relationship with an awareness of the need to balance vanilla whilst retaining my focus on the relationship. However, I am a Human Being first and foremost, as are you. I am prepared and willing to put in the hard work that is needed.
My own personality traits include being somewhat spirited [at times] a happy, contented girl yet enjoys a witty banter! Time is precious. If you are married, please be honest about this from the first message.
I hope to find what I need rather than what I want.
If you feel a genuine interest ... key word being 'genuine'. I look forward to your message.
Photographs, especially facial ones I will not upload, nor will I send one via email. I value my privacy - New Zealand is an extremely small Country, even more so within B.D.S.M. If there is a connection, mutual interests, then I am willing to confirm identity via cam/skype . Please be willing to reciprocate.
Oh, and please have a sense of humour. Be realistic and just be yourself. I am not here to judge you!
Please note, I am not prepared to relocate, and certainly not without knowing you for at least a year! However, I am willing to communicate with dominant men who are able or wishing to relocate here.
Apologies if my profile is a tad clinical!
Thank you for reading.
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The Planet 'Venus' is tonight able to be viewed with a mere pair of binoculars..!
If You are going to view, please protect your eyes and only view after Sunset.
Venus crossing the Moon, in this position, only once every Nineteen years!
Once in every Nineteen years! How old will you be for the next one? Don't forget to show your junior family members.
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Given that the first seven years of a child's life is crucial in terms of Human Development...how many here can recall thier personality, actions and such. How many of your goals became reality as an adult?
What or whom influenced you most in becoming who you are as an adult?
Do you have regrets? If you could change your youth, what would you change and why?
Do you catch yourself thinking often of yesterdays and tomorrows?
How many people have smiled because of you each day?
... Know that clouds do not stop the Sun from shining ..
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If you wish to meet me, you will need to have patience. I am in no rush. After all, if we can't get along here, we will have little to talk about in person.
Which goes both ways, of course.
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Please be aware, I am unable to relocate due to the remainder of a five year plan - down to three years, lol. woot woot! |
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