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TroyCouple

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Male Dominant, 29, Cork
Male Switch, 39, Ravenna, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 42, Albany, Kentucky
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About TroyCouple

Given our current schedules, we do not desire anyone full-time right now, but that will change in the future.

We can offer friendship, companionship, home cooked meals and just a relaxing place. We can also offer a variety of BDSM and Ds activities. What we ask in return is some help with housework and yardwork and possibly running some errands. Were not asking you to give up your life for us and serve us faithfully forever, etc. Yet.


Ultimately were looking for a younger, but mature female to serve us (though primarily me) long-term as a live-in. Please note, were not necessarily looking for the proverbial unicorn even if it sounds like it. My wife enjoys service, but most likely would have no sexual interest in you. I on the other hand would. And were not asking you to be strictly with us.


We would entertain the idea of a couple, though most likely he would be in service to my wife and she to me.

I am into control, gags, hoods, strict bondage, corsets and heels. She is more into slapping and pain. And of course domestic service.

You?

We will soon be empty nesters, but discretion still desired.

No smokers at all please. Were not partiers. Were conservative looking at first pass, but actually quite liberal.

I am poly, my wife pretty much mono.

Include nano if you are interested in short term service.

Include smile if more long term service.

A new tumblr I just came across:

 

http://polysecrets.tumblr.com/

Ok, what's the point of sending an email, "please look at our profile" and when we go to look at it, "profile does not exist".  I mean seriously.  I could see someone sending an abusive email and trying to hide themselves, as cowardly as that is.  But this was a "please see my profile" (which let's admit, is NOT overly imaginative).   Something to ponder.

Hmm, had a blast at TES. 

 

She looked WONDERFUL!

 

 

We are headed to TESFest.

 

Are you?

BTW, if you're a certified WSI, we may have a summer "job" for you this summer. 

The scammers and fakers for the most part are fairly obvious.  If your picture looks like it's a from a porn shot, you're probably a fake.  If your master just died, you're probably a fake.  If your picture looks like a porn shot and your master just died, you are a fake.

Oh and "I've just completed training at a super-secret slave training facility".  Umm, right.

If you're real, be natural, you'll find the right owners.
Things go well.  Been chatting with a former redhead.  Unfortunately she's a bit far away.

And things are finally heating up on the east coast.  Getting hot here.
Hmm, been awhile since I've posted.  Obviously not much has changed. 
"And so it goes"
Weird, I don't get it.? Get into a deal deep and meaningful discussion with someone, someone who seems quite real compared to most fakers here.? And bam.? She's gone.? And she seemed like an excellent fit.? Really too bad.
Life is going well.? Other than lack of sleep.?
Wow, it's been awhile since I've written.? I really need to keep this up to date.? Been a busy time.? Life goes well for us.? Started putting the garden in up north and spring is in full force. ??
Actually home in NY for a week.? Nice change of pace.

Made a change to our profile.  We'll see if it helps screen out the ones we're not interested in.

It's so easy to attract people that are clearly and obviously not a good fit.  We're still having trouble finding anyone who comes close to a decent fit.

 

We try to reply to all comers, but some just aren't worth our time.? Please note, if you don't get a response to messages you send out to many people, the one common factor my be YOU.? Try to be a bit more creative, check your spelling and grammar and don't cut and paste.?? ??? ?
I must say, I continue to be disappointed with the quality of applications we get from the male of the species.? I'll give you a hint.? Don't come across as pathetic.? We don't want pathetic.
So many projects on the house.  Got the new roof on, new insulation, new gutters.  House is looking really nice.
I think the next plans are for the barn with office space, or converting the front porch to an office.  That'll officially free up a room for a guest bedroom/slave's quarters.  All my hard work is paying off!
But I still don't know how to find people.  It's not easy.

Hadn't realized I had slacked so much on this site.


Work goes well, though looking more and more like I'll be here even longer than I planned.  So in some ways, bringing a slave into our household is harder since I wouldn't be around as much, but on the other hand having one is that much more important.
Often my wife has evenings where she really needs to be in two or more places at once and having someone else to handle many such household tasks would be VERY helpful.

Even some weekends when I'm home, it could be useful to have someone around to help out.

A new thought dawned on me.  Why are there so many slaves, "I'm owned so you can't talk to me"?

Why are you here?
It's interesting, we've been on there for over a year now and continue to see the same names still here.  Makes me wonder why it's so hard to make a connection.  You'd think more of the submissives and slaves would have found a match.


I guess it works so both ways, it's not easy.  We haven't had much luck either, so not sure if I should give up in despair since so many are having poor luck, or continue with hope since there's obviously so many wonderful people out there.

Right now OUR biggest issues are time and space.  I'm still working out of town which limits time and space is still at a premium at home.  But that may change in the next year or so.   Thanks for reading.
So, tonight saw something that gave me hope.  It was a "triple" with their "wedding" album.  Nice to know that it's possible for three people to find each other and make it work.

Note, we're NOT looking to "marry" a third or anything quite that deep, but are looking for someone to add to the family, for as long as it works for all of us.

If you're simply looking for free sex, or free room and board, thanks but pass us on.  If you're looking to grow as a person and perhaps help us grow, talk to us.

Thanks.
Oh, one thing we should note is that you should be financially and emotionally stable. 

Financially doesn't meant you need to be independently wealthy but does mean that you're not looking for us to bail you out of your situation.

And emotionally stable should be clear.  If you're not clear on the concept, you're probably not stable.

Note that age is not necessarily related to stability.  We've met some 18 year olds that had the act together and 36 year olds that won't have it together for another 36 years.

So what about you?
Hmm, good news.  Promotion at work!

Still trying to figure out how/when to introduce a slave into our household.  I won't be "home" until next year most likely, but want to start working on it now.  I don't think it will be a quick process.

Ideally your slavery would start with a few visits, first with me where I'm working, and then eventually to the house to meet the rest of the family.

Enough for now....
Wow, forgot that I had been posting here.

Hmm.  Trying to see if anything new to post.

Been busy, the new year is upon us.  We're always looking for good help around the house.  But it looks like my being awy from home will last a bit longer than planned. (Hey, I've got a good job and with the economy change, don't really want to start looking right now :-)

So, drop us a line.
Wow, we have users subscribed to our journal.? Oh no, the pressure now to write something witty and interesting.

Alas I think we may disappoint our readers.? Oh well.?

Have a happy holiday everyone.??

Wow have we been busy. 

As winter approaches and the holiday season is upon us, so much to do.  Presents to buy and to give. 

Ah, such is life.

 

Received some decent advice from a former slave a few weeks ago.  It's a bit discouraging, but realistically never knew it would be easy to find what we're looking for.

But we haven't given up hope.  We know what we want isn't easy to find, but if we find it, will be worth it to us and to the person we find.

One thing I'm missing right now being away from home is the leaves changing.  It's so beautiful where we are, a nice oak tree right next to the driveway. 

A note to those who think we're a fake or I'm just a HNG, trst me, I'm not.  If you're real and have questions or doubts let us know.  If you're serious and want to speak to either of us in person to prove it, please let us know.



Thanks

Ah, the last week was quite enjoyable.  Back at my apartment in DC, but this time with a twist.


Had a little painslut sharing my room for the week.  I must say the week left her with quite a nice set of black and blues!


And I realized today as I was getting my own breakfast how nice it was to be able to get up, check my email, watch the news and have my breakfast brought to me.  I certainly could get used to that again.


And then today I wake up to a nice email from a young lady who may be a decent match for us.


Overall, a good week!
   
Busy week here.  Had to be back in NY for some issues.


Made work tough, but doable.  But SO much to do around here and so little time to do it.  Definitely need to get outselves a little house slave soon. :-)


I'd love to say we're swamped with applicants, but the truth is, almost all the people who write to us (and 98% are guys) can't write a decent email and aren't worth our time.


A hint to guys out there.  You're a dime a dozen.  We can afford to be VERY picky.


Anyway, back to work.  
Hmm, it's been awhile since I've entered anything into this journal.

Glad to see that Collarme now allows "couple profiles" to include data on both partners.  Still not perfect, but a start.

Anyway, while I'm in DC, my wife is still looking for a worker around the house.  But read the other journal entries to see what emails will pass muster.  If you can't read, don't bother.
But as we're starting to plan for when I'm back in NY full-time, we're back to looking for a live-in house slave. Note what the profile says, primarily this is for a domestic/nanny position.  Sexual contact may come with time, but is not guaranteed. 


And we'll be honest, we're new at having a full-time slave.  So if you're looking for a couple with years of experience doing this, that's not us.  If you're willing to learn with us (or if you're experienced and would like to help us to learn) then let us know.

Also, brains are a must.  We're not looking for an automaton.  We may give the orders, and ultimately expect obedience, we do appreciate someone who can think for themselves.


Thanks.
Well, things have changed a bit and so we've updated our profile.  Yes, we are now expanding our search to include men. 


However, please note, as our other journal entry says, almost all the emails we get from guys immediately disqualifies them.  We do NOT want single line emails.  Put some thought into it.  Prove to us you have a brain. 


And you will be asked for a photo.  If it's NOT G-rated, you will be blocked.  Save yourself the time.  If we want an R-rated or x-rated we will ask.  But it's doubtful.


And of course we're still open to the right female sub/slave.  If you are female, my wife is more likely to also expect you to work out with her.  She is looking for a fitness buddy to get back into shape.  So in addition cleaning, being beaten, etc, you may also be expected to work-out.


That's it for today.  Let's see if anyone is up to the task.
I suppose it's time to start a journal.


Couple of notes:
We are almost exclusively looking for a woman.  I suppose if the just the right man came along and impressed my wife, we'd consider you, but so far that hasn't even come close to happening. 


And I'll tell you partly why.  It's not so much your photos, it's your emails.  It's true, one sentence emails really do NOT impress the person you're trying to reach.   Now, this doesn't mean be explicit. But it does mean tell us about yourselves. 


And keep in mind we're not restricted to just looking for a live-in slave.  We're looking for friends also.  Or even part time subs.  We're open to what may come our way.  But we're not so open we'll take anything that just walks up to us and offers their submission either.  Impress us.


Thanks.  
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