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Just cant write my own words properly on the profile anymore.
This Site edits what I write, and it all ends up in incorrect spelling, wording, and repeating things. Plain unbelievable.

Just read (if you want) and figure out... (Good luck for both of us...)

...

I deleted my profile text a long time ago, I didnt feel like looking for anything anymore, but I still enjoy reading around.

As you might see, my Journal entries are, somehow, a compilation of ideas, experiences, or even just mere thoughts about different matters.


Long Story short

Educated, kinky, open minded but also realistic, seeks same.


This is just me, my point of View, and what I seek.



And yes, here is the Long Story, long

Outdoors I am pretty much Vanilla, a somewhat old fashioned and structured regular guy, maybe not an ordinary one, but someone you wont particularly notice when passing by.

al manners and conventional exterior looks, wrapping a not-that-standard interior mindset.

I would say I have a clean, rather conservative, sometimes classy, smart or casual appearance, I am as comfortable wearing a Tuxedo as with a T-shirt.



Intellectually curious, very curious, educated, do speak a couple languages, and am interested in many things, culture, technology, reading a good book, cooking (not that I am that good at it, but I am getting better, have a lot of fun doing it, and it ends up being even eatable!), movies, politics, music, and almost whatever happens around... and I love to debate. I used to travel often and am used to being in multicultural and international environments.

I am imaginative and creative by nature and like inventing new ways for all sorts of things as they come along, just cant help it, it flows...

I enjoy going out until late (or even early!) as much as I like staying home, there is always a proper time for everything.


I am a sensitive person, but I am also opinionated, even sometimes a bit bratty, and am used to making my own decisions in life, but at other times I am just a big Kid, everything is part of me,


You will not see in me a completely transparent person until we get to know each other well, and we develop a full trust, I am slightly shy but open and social, also rather traditional and very discreet, I repeat, highly private and like to keep my sexual life, likes andor preferences, strictly in my intimate and personal sphere, especially when it comes to Ds or BDSM.

If you are going to need my picture right off, sorry, it wont happen until I do know you a bit (and know I can trust you).

I do not make decisions without thinking, I am probably somewhere close to being the opposite of an exhibitionist and definitely not the kind you will find in BDSM Munches or sexual parties of any kind, but like many other things, If that is something that would make You happy, I could give it a try with, and for the right one, and I would, but thats not me being me.


If You are

- Rational and down to earth, but able of complete craziness,

- Able to read between the lines and extract conclusions from the actions and what you see on your own, and not only from the words you hear.

- Talkative and receptive.

- A warm person, the encouraging nurturing kind,

- Have great sense of humor and an easy smile on your face. ( I just melt on smiles)

- A Team player (our Team), monogamous, not the flirty butterfly kind, and know the meaning of the words commitment and loyalty.

- Able of taking the lead on your own initiative, but open and not too stubborn to listen to others.

If that sounds like you, we will probably be a good personal match.


Indoors, when the sparks flash, there is no right or wrong, its all about kink (call it perversion if you like) and the only rule is having fun, and the kinkier, the better!


Sentimental- and Intellectual wise I need to admire whom I am with, I need to be in awe of my partner.
Sexually, I like to please, serve and being submissive to a dominating woman that knows what she wants and is not afraid of speaking up or just going for it, dirty talking included.


I am very open-minded and willing to try new things at least once, either for Her, or for the sake of it...

To me, this is more about Ds (Domination submission) than about SM (Sado-Maso), its more into sensuality and about the Power given andor taken than about physical pain, accordingly, I am not looking for hardcore sadists either.

I consider myself to be a honest guy, I do try to be a better person everyday and put much value on honesty, principles, intelligence, trust, reliability and common sense. I dont like games, mind games, or lies, only the truth ends up always winning the game, everything else is merely temporary. And, most times, stupid too.

I believe a much Higher degree of mutual trust, communication and understanding is needed for a Ds relationship to work, that is also why (and also the reason for it) the level of intimacy and closeness goes way beyond that of a normal relationship.

I like stable (from the word stability, constant, and reliable) people and am usually not good friends with stupidity, flippancy or superficiality, no better is it with fair-weather friendships, fickle, unsteady erratic people that lack perseverance... and I am dead serious about this.


Ideally, I am seeking a Long Term Relationship, I would really like to find my partner in crime for everything in life, but I am open to chances along the way, I have learned that you will never know when, where or how you will actually meet who or what you are actually looking for.

After some time looking for the special One, I am not expecting to find her right next door any more, I would not mind relocating for the right one, if there is a real and realistic (not always the same thing...) commitment and she really is The One.


I am more interested in your vanilla concerns than in your kinky ones, but I am, by far, more interested in playing a role in each others life than just in yourour kinks, fantasy, or bedroom ...

I look into the person and dont care much about the age -within reasonable terms- or race, it is absolutely not an issue for me (but racism is).

If we dont click Vanilla-wise, I seriously doubt we will be going any further.


You will see some of my interests, likes and dislikes on the left column of this profile, anyway, I tried to leave here a glimpse of me and have most somehow reflected...



If you feel that what you are reading rings any bell, has some meaning, or something to do with you... drop me a line, pretty pleeaaase!! Whats the point, if you dont?


If there is anything else you want to know, please do not doubt for a second to ask me, as far as I know, nobody has yet invented a better way to get answers... and, after all, thats what this is all about... and why I wrote this here...

3/30/2018 8:07:27 AM
I liked reading it:
medium.com/@PlanetMidori/the-lies-tops-dominants-tell-to-themselves-11-48547db7b6ba


4/13/2015 5:40:59 PM
I miss Camelot.
2/14/2015 5:24:11 PM
Personal reminder note:
Pretty please, do not let me ever forget the lesson I learned tonight.
"That foreigner traveling on a Bus."
2/2/2015 12:47:03 PM
This might be helpful: http://kinkipedia.wikidot.com/start

2/1/2015 2:59:52 PM
Really, if all you can claim is based on "the given fact that you are a Domme", it might be wise to, accordingly, delete that line that says that you are looking for someone Intelligent...

Oh! ... and maybe also edit the one where you mention that YOU are... ?



8/6/2014 2:46:49 AM
There is something about Maria Ewing that makes her special, different, and unique, particularly here:
http://youtu.be/Q-e0fHUoKD8



3/7/2014 2:54:54 PM

http://youtu.be/uT3SBzmDxGk

1/25/2014 5:38:52 AM

 

You only get one shot at trust. If you violate it, it's gone.

1/10/2014 3:04:07 PM

To me, this is all between two, ideally, I would prefer someone who is Vanilla outdoors, and not actively involved in the "BDSM scene".

12/4/2013 4:56:42 PM

If you don't need to look at my profile or read it before making such a personal offer, I am absolutely not interested in such a person.

11/24/2013 5:07:10 PM

http://youtu.be/sf6LD2B_kDQ

11/24/2013 4:54:07 PM

Why do overly uneducated, inarticulate and/or almost illiterate people say they "demand" education on their partner, and only look for those "very educated" ones?  Can they just not see it won't ever work?

It is not merely a matter of the Titles of the Books you've read, Ya' know?

I guess it only confirms that words always come from the perspective they were written in, and are mostly and "relatively" related to that particular context.

9/19/2013 4:53:35 PM

Random thoughts about... Leaders?: A hand of steel in a silk glove.... might that be just what I need ?.

I'm sure that if you know how to use and handle the Silk,  I will follow the drive of your Steel ...

9/15/2013 3:04:10 AM

 

Stress, and emotions, and thoughts... and feelings... and sunk ships .... and new Flags...

 

8/28/2013 4:32:56 PM

There are Nine Million Bicycles in Beijing:

http://youtu.be/rrPUJsZQSkw

8/23/2013 7:15:32 PM

Hope.... is a Ray of Light not extinguished... yet...

Hope...  is a Window not closed... yet...

8/17/2013 1:51:14 AM

An interesting research about affective well-being: living a Virtual Life vs. Real Life Friendships:

http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0069841

7/28/2013 8:12:11 PM

A word does not fit any context:

submissiveness in BDSM and submissiveness in Femdom relationships are not the same. submissiveness, one word, one meaning, but BDSM is very different from a Femdom scenario and environment, in so many ways.

Just a thought...

7/23/2013 1:24:31 AM

"In Praise of Nepotism", an interesting article about family networks, politics, and business:

 http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/07/in-praise-of-nepotism/302753/

7/16/2013 8:13:03 PM

Just one of those silly sleepless nights that catch you by surprise...

6/11/2013 7:00:39 PM

Subtleness is good, but, sometimes, it might be.. just too subtle...

2/1/2013 6:40:49 PM

After all, it's not about being more or less Vanilla, we all strive to find the same thing we don't seem to reach.

Stupid and obvious Lessons in Love. Don't let your Spirit Burn...

1/26/2013 4:38:33 PM

Funniest thing to read ever: http://www.damnyouautocorrect.com/

1/17/2013 5:10:34 AM

Big changes around the corner and very busy these days, please forgive me if I don't reply or write right away.

1/2/2013 10:08:07 PM

Clarification:

1.- If the Word "Financial" is on your profile, and not related to your career or Job in real life, skip this profile. I am not interested, at all.

2.-Queening to me means all about Licking, Slurping, Lapping, Worshipping, Cleaning.. YOU name it, it all makes sense to me, but I feel it is very different from Smothering, Asphyxiation, Suffocation or any other Life-edge or Life-threatening game.

12/9/2012 4:12:11 PM

Being demanding and/or self-demanding, is definitely a different concept, maybe even an antonym from the definition of being self-centered, yet none implies being whimsical or erratic.

12/6/2012 6:11:59 AM

Please forgive me if I don't respond right away to (your) rudeness.

11/28/2012 8:22:56 AM

I love androgynous and tomboy-ish looks and personalities, I like female athletes and swimmers' broad shoulders, yet I do melt with femininity too. How much of a contradiction can this possibly be ?

Shouting it out any louder wouldn't apparently make it any more obvious:

 The (almost) impossible TETRIS Puzzle of Conditio sine qua nons:

One fully functional Brain, Intelligence, literate, Mature, sense of Humor, social graces, Good Manners, Education, easy going, relaxed, affectionate, caring, loyal, creative, fun to be with, reliable, responsible, realistic, trustworthy, strong, literate, mutual attraction, not a model but in reasonably decent shape, private, discreet, and a touch of Class...  and avoid the self-indulgent, the extreme, the fun-seekers and the (plenty of) casual players.

Absolutely NOT interested in Public play or Pro-Dommes and NO Financial anything.


11/27/2012 5:21:34 PM

I find the lack of a minimum of Class and Taste disturbing.

Too much paraphernalia, too little common sense.

Too many Minds are on Vacation but their mouths are working overtime.

11/19/2012 6:43:01 PM

World has evolved and changed the way we used to want to rule things and keep a certain order in our Society.

Governments, they we have had them until now has stopped being the answer for organization and solving people's problems, in fact they are the cause for the opposite these days.

WE, the People, are paying now for their Problems and supporting what was meant to be the other way around. And even so quietly.

Just check around and you will find out what is happening and WHY.

We need somebody to invent a whole new System from scratch!

10/22/2012 1:59:23 AM

I have no need to wear my kink nor parade a banner of it around.

10/21/2012 5:03:27 PM

That Bridge you never dare to cross might be the Life you will never live.

Feel free to act accordingly...

10/20/2012 3:39:32 PM

“It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart.”

10/11/2012 8:24:07 PM

Interesting to see we are actually increasing our needs for these sort of Wake-Up calls:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M6wJl37N9C0

10/11/2012 8:10:23 PM

Even if I would prefer to think that they all start with the best of intentions, most politicians end up caring about a Job, the one they have or are still aspiring to get, more than about the Mission they are supposed to accomplish or defend. If you think about it, it is more or less a short term Job, their career will not last for long, but they all try to play Pharaohs during their active lives in politics, they all try to do something that people would remember them for. In playing this game, people's interests, actual needs, budgets, and sustainable futures do play an almost inexistent factor for them.

Intelligent, informed, or even educated people know this, I am just curious about what we end up voting for... knowing what we are doing. (Do we really?)

A pity that most politicians today are unable to detach duties from their own jobs to re-join the society they came from or they should be representing. Most probably another reason for which the society does feel misrepresented more and more over time, and ends up in a situation where it totally detaches from them too.

Time to restart from scratch, don't you think?

9/28/2012 7:13:52 PM

D/s is for me is like the Soy sauce of relationships and/ or Sex.

I kinda' knew always it was there and I felt some sort of an attraction towards it, but couldn't tell myself, didn't understand how or why to like it before, I guess I just needed to learn it throughout Life.

I am now glad I did.

9/8/2012 5:53:15 PM

Where lies the Rosetta Stone for Today, for everyday's life?

Where is the non-Box for the things that do not fit into the other boxes?

9/7/2012 6:48:37 PM
Deal breaker: If you can't keep secrets or private matters strictly to yourself, do not even consider this profile at all, please do disregard me. Thank you.
9/6/2012 11:02:59 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x4CNqgknfz8&feature=player_embedded

8/31/2012 12:21:31 PM

Make your own ideas about this song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d84Sjj-_w7Q&feature=player_embedded#!

8/23/2012 8:30:00 AM

“Owners of dogs will have noticed that, if you provide them with food and water and shelter and affection, they will think you are god. Whereas owners of cats are compelled to realise that, if you provide them with food and water and shelter and affection, they draw the conclusion that they are gods.”

Christopher Hitchens on The Difference Between Dogs And Cats

8/15/2012 3:57:08 PM

Tired, very tired, and not a good time for anything.

7/14/2012 1:53:46 PM

A lot of travel for work and really busy lately.

7/5/2012 5:54:10 AM

"BDSM is the Chess of sex"

A beautiful line I just read on an incredibly well-written profile.

7/4/2012 5:50:22 PM

I am human, in consequence, if I have to choose WITHOUT any further knowledge, I cannot avoid being more attracted to a particular physique and appearance, but believe me, I have learned my little bit.

I am way more attracted to particular minds AND a specific balanced mindset.

You will not find a Word on my profile that says otherwise because that IS the truth behind my personal search, but...

7/4/2012 5:36:39 PM

I am not from here, but I like it.

7/1/2012 5:03:48 AM

Please do not use spell check, feel free to write the way you usually do, I want to know Who I talk to, and What and How you really are.

7/1/2012 3:47:52 AM

Giving oral is a fine art.

5/14/2012 2:47:50 AM

There is no right or wrong but there is Good and Bad.

4/15/2012 5:59:23 PM

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” Oscar Wilde.

1/6/2012 5:48:51 AM
class="lyrics"> i'd rather have nothing than a whole lot of something i don't need
12/8/2011 10:45:12 AM

I wish I could be one of the male characters depicted on Namio Harukawa´s drawings! The mere idea of it feels so mouthwatering to me, mind the double meaning of that in this particular case. ;)

11/10/2011 4:17:57 PM

11.11.11 !

10/20/2011 6:23:45 PM

What a wonderful and enjoyable day!

10/12/2011 3:25:08 AM

For those seeking non-working Brain cells in this profile, read my lips: "This is not the dumb Droid you're looking for..." Wrong Address here, choose between "Hit the Road" and "Return to Sender", and sing along your way to elsewhere... Sub does not equal dumb, not here, NOT AT ALL.

10/9/2011 1:38:41 PM

Finally, a quiet day.... a blank me-day.

Yes, there was some rain today but still, it was such a nice walk outside, time for discovering new music, time for reading, time for myself... long time I didn´t allow myself to have this personal private luxury... I guess I should do this more often.

What a great, long and quiet day! It just feels a bit lonely sometimes.

9/26/2011 9:37:19 AM

Let them write the way they want and do realize who you are talking to!

Yes, I do agree that grammar and spelling counts, and in my opinion there is value on education, good manners and knowledge, which brings me to the question: Why on Earth would you want to be blinded by a computer software and prevent yourself from actually knowing and seeing what the truth is?

I will never understand people that encourage others so much to use spell-check programs before sending an email.

I can understand it is annoying to read a poorly written/ badly spelled text, but if you ask someone to use spell-check, you will never be able to tell or perceive what kind of person hides behind those computer- corrected words.

I just don't get it. What can you expect and what will you find when you actually talk or meet the people that have been using those spell-check programs as requested?

What will obviously happen when they are in front of you without any program helping them communicate? In the end, it will your fault, not theirs.

 

 

9/13/2011 8:39:35 PM

Sleepless night...

6/27/2011 5:10:20 PM

Hectic merry-go-round....  Again... ! I know what I mean.

5/15/2011 5:00:58 PM

Thousand places, same thought strikes again ...

5/11/2011 3:59:35 AM

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3/18/2011 7:56:29 PM

 

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

 One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift.

Today before you say an unkind word...

- Think of someone who can't speak.Before you complain about the taste of your food...

- Think of someone who has nothing to eat. Before you complain about your husband or wife...

- Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life...

- Think of someone who went too early to heaven. Before whining about the distance you drive

- Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job...

- Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job...

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down...

- Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.


An absolutely great Journal entry I found tonight. (Published with permission, with many thanks to the author, I did not write it)

1/23/2011 8:16:17 PM

For some unknown reason, just cant sleep tonight..

1/23/2011 7:38:08 PM

I think there could be an arithmetical formula that demonstrates how directly proportional it is:

-the amount of time that TRUE and HONEST people have spent here looking for what they are really longing for, to the good faith people seem to have lost in people.

As of today, I still refuse to join in that Club and/or add myself to confirm that mathematical statement, but sometimes, sometimes..., it really takes some strength to deny what seems to be obvious.

Damn! I am only looking for honesty!

Is that so out of range nowadays?

1/19/2011 5:07:00 AM

Ideas, Words, Facts, (and beauty too)

When it comes to explaining what you read, what you see beyond the lines, what you feel and what you think about it, you can be sure that all people will not understand or share the same experience as you do actually have.

Meanings, like Ideas, like beauty, are not in the word itself, but in how each person, each reader, each viewer, makes his/her own thoughts and feelings about it when they read, see it, or think about it.

What you've grown up seeing and thinking, and what you're used to seeing and thinking does actually and certainly affect what you think of something, even if it is something new to you.

Your background, studies, job, life, are active contributing factors to your ideas.

In the end, everyone's idea of each single word has a different definition.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder in the same way the Meaning of a text is in the mind of the reader, each individual reader.

The Meaning in words exists merely in the mind which reads them.

How Dangerous in many ways, misconceiving and misleading can that possibly be?

Connecting minds is necessary to make it all fruitful but for sure it takes determination, desire and will to effectively CONNECT.


How easy is it to lose so much for misconceptions.

Misinterpretations cause unexpected, unanticipated and undesired results, sometimes a lot of harm for those involved, and undeserved pain.

Thats why clear and open communication is so much more important than just any random amount of words. Just give the other always an option, see if You might be the one actually being wrong.


If words do actually mislead you, how far can a silence take you?.

I have always been against interpreting others silences by myself, its the very basic of not only giving others a chance, but yourself too.

Just TALK, EXPLAIN and SHOW, you can never be wrong...

1/11/2011 3:41:59 PM

1.11.11

 

Shouldn't it be a great day today?

1/2/2011 4:13:33 PM

What was once before you - an exciting, mysterious future - is now behind you. Lived; understood; disappointing. You realize you are not special. You have struggled into existence, and are now slipping silently out of it. This is everyones experience. Every single one. The specifics hardly matter. Everyone's everyone...

As the people who adore you stop adoring you; as they die; as they move on; as you shed them; as you shed your beauty; your youth; as the world forgets you; as you recognize your transience; as you begin to lose your characteristics one by one; as you learn there is no-one watching you, and there never was, you think only about driving - not coming from any place; not arriving any place. Just driving, counting off time. Now you are here, at 7:43. Now you are here, at 7:44. Now you are...
Gone.
Quote: Synecdoche, New York (2008)


?I did read this Quote on someone's profile and liked it much, it might sound like a bit depressing but I think its very thought provoking.

11/12/2010 3:36:19 AM

Everything in life is within walking distance, if you have time.

10/27/2010 5:44:21 PM

Sometimes saying nothing at all is just as powerful as screaming...

10/18/2010 6:02:40 PM

"So many people ask for honesty, but so few offer it up..."

A very true statement I just read on a profile, and I have been wondering about exactly that idea in the last weeks...

So many people ask for what they don't give...

10/18/2010 4:13:46 PM

Dreams dont dissapear, people abandon them.

10/18/2010 3:32:17 PM

Being courteous, respectful and showing even if just a bit of good manners is a minima for anything in life with me on it, it has nothing to do with the Role you like to define yourself as, I define that kind of behavior as just plain rude.

10/13/2010 5:16:46 PM
"When you're going through hell, keep going."
- Winston Churchill.
8/25/2010 2:40:33 AM
http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/index.php
4/18/2010 5:52:07 AM
You grow, when you dare to face the winter, even if you are losing your leaves...


... time to move on and let go of some things in life...


.... and for the deciduous and perishable ones, the sooner the better.

4/18/2010 5:43:40 AM
Infinitely more important than sharing one's material wealth is sharing the wealth of ourselves - our time and energy, our passion and commitment, and, above all, our love.
William Edward Simon
4/18/2010 5:26:57 AM
Passion is the quickest to develop, and the quickest to fade.
Intimacy develops more slowly, and commitment more gradually still.

Robert Sternberg
4/18/2010 5:19:37 AM
Academic chairs are many, but wise and noble teachers are few; lecture-rooms are numerous and large, but the number of young people who genuinely thirst after truth and justice is small.”
Albert Einstein
4/18/2010 5:11:15 AM
Nobody can hurt me without my permission.  -Mahatma Gandhi
4/18/2010 5:08:13 AM
Be polite to all, but intimate with few.” Thomas Jefferson, 3rd US President.
 
4/13/2010 5:11:55 PM
The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.
(Mother Teresa
)
4/13/2010 3:53:24 PM
"Hideous game of love, where it is necessary that one of the players loses the governement of himself!" (Charles Baudelaire)
4/11/2010 10:30:35 PM
One Year already on CM!

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4/7/2010 3:45:58 PM
If you are the shifting planetary kind,  changeable, capricious, if you like wandering, if you love straying from the topic or veering off conversations is something that turns you on, no offense meant, just I am not your cup of Tea, not at all.
Maybe this was not clear enough on my profile, well..., now it is.
4/3/2010 9:58:49 AM
The professor was making a point about the pervasiveness of marketing. He asked his students, "Which company has the slogan, ''come fly the friendly skies''?"

"United."

"Correct. Can you tell me which company has the slogan, "Don''t leave home without it?"

"American Express."

"Right. Now tell me who uses the slogan, ''Just do it''?"

"My Girlfriend!"
2/10/2010 4:36:01 AM
Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else.
2/10/2010 4:29:16 AM
Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people.
2/10/2010 4:28:49 AM
The best armor is to keep out of range.
2/10/2010 4:28:21 AM
Fall seven times, stand up eight.
2/10/2010 4:15:46 AM
A full cup must be carried steadily.
2/10/2010 4:14:39 AM
Ask advice only of your equals.
Complain to one who can help you.
2/10/2010 4:13:32 AM
When you drink the water, remember the spring.
2/10/2010 4:11:21 AM
When you have given nothing, you are rightfully entitled to ask for nothing.
2/10/2010 3:53:57 AM
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Nothing worhty is free from any sort of commitement.

1/26/2010 6:37:35 AM
Don' t sleep down thinking about your present when you have a tougher commitment with your future!
 

If you want something tomorrow, start working on it today, it will be late by the time you start missing it.

1/21/2010 12:33:14 PM
"You're a fool to trust someone you're not being completely honest with. "

I Read it on a profile today
, great quote!

I agree,life, after all, is indeed a Boomerang, what you do, will come back to you one way or another...
1/20/2010 8:09:54 PM
I am not perfect, but I am proud and happy that I don't claim nor pretend to be so either.
1/14/2010 5:51:42 AM
If you want something bad enough, you'll find a way. If you don't, you'll find an excuse.
Do never take anybody for granted.
12/28/2009 9:03:09 PM
"Submitting is the highest form of love that a person can give to another" This is a quote from a profile I have seen, I find this to be a great expression of inner feelings.
12/23/2009 12:33:59 AM
Intelligence actually matters, if my brain isn't stimulated, I doubt my libido will be either. 
12/4/2009 11:05:18 PM
If an extensive and detailed email or reply tells you about interest and willingness in good faith, so does it for others too.

If you don't like one liners, neither does anybody else.
12/4/2009 10:57:54 PM
Lesson learned today:

Inconsistency  has nothing to do with domination nor accepting it has to do with  submission.

If somebody pleads for something and does not act accordingly, start wondering whats wrong in the picture...
11/29/2009 1:18:06 PM
Dishonesty makes everything in a relationship collapse, and ultimately detroys the base for building, its the coup de grâce for Hope.
11/29/2009 1:04:37 PM
Femdom and being somewhat kinky and naughty, is definitely an important part of being me, but in no way would I let it become just the only one...  life is too great and rich on interesting choices and options to restrict yourself to just one single-sided view of it.
11/29/2009 1:02:29 PM
Sharing feelings and thoughts with others, having a good conversation with interesting people is one of the uncommon pleasures of life but, definitely, one of the greatest and most fullfilling.
11/29/2009 1:00:47 PM
Sincerity makes a land fertile and productive. Lying makes it all useless and sterile.
11/29/2009 12:56:25 PM
I´d like to meet someone with whom to share good and bad times, laughs and cries, thoughts, things that matter and those that really don't, laugh and discover Heaven and Hell together...
11/21/2009 7:35:48 PM
"Minds are like parachutes, they only function when open" Thomas Dewar.

"If everything seems under control, you're just not going fast enough." Mario Andretti.

"If one synchronised swimmer drowns, do all the rest have to drown too?" Steven Wright.

10/23/2009 5:53:13 AM


"A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step."
10/23/2009 5:52:25 AM

"He who conquers others is strong; He who conquers himself is mighty."

10/12/2009 9:14:31 AM

It's better to regret something you have done, than having to regret something you haven't

10/4/2009 5:55:35 PM

"Love is not just about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship."
10/3/2009 7:46:17 AM
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."  Abraham Lincoln
10/3/2009 7:44:46 AM
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming . ."Wow! What a ride!"
9/28/2009 2:15:23 PM
Being straight forward does actually matter to everyone involved.
9/10/2009 7:17:36 AM
I'd like to thank those that have sent me these nice messages, you know who you are...

I appreciate it much.
9/8/2009 2:57:42 AM
Please, don´t send messages without even looking at the profile you are sending it to!
PoisynLylac
 
 Age: 28
 Burleson, Texas