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trippalayo

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Call me Tripp.
I am a person, not a fetish delivery system. Preference for the ladies.
Do not attempt to flatter me by simply pointing out that I belong to some larger category of people that turn your crank. That really doesn't fly with me.
Do not assume you have the right to call me by pet names, or demand that I call you by whatever title you have dreamed up for yourself. I do not know you, conduct yourself accordingly. Break these rules and I will remorselessly shred you, just for shits and giggles.

I'm a nerd, a geek, a radical leftist, an artist, an Atheist and a Buddhist. I am pansexual. I generally have no strong gender preferences for play partners and casual sex, but anything more serious is females only. That being said, I have a high bar for letting anyone into my life in any capacity. If I want your phone number, I'll ask for it. Trust.

I am extremely sapiosexual. I require mental stimulation, and the surest way to turn me off of you altogether is to leave me thinking you're less than intelligent. Intense intellectual discussions will turn me on.
First and foremost, I seek kindred spirits. I love to connect with and learn about people vastly different from me, but I do especially vibe on switchy energy. If you'd like to be friends with me, send a message with your request detailing what you think we have in common. I do prefer locals.
Secondly, I'm looking to learn new skills, and discover new kinks. I'm prioritizing exploring topping for certain kinks, and would like to find mentors. I'm learning a lot about rope, I'm curious about needles, and fascinated with violet wands.
Lastly, I'm seeking new play partners and romantic interests. Geographical convenience is mandatory, age, height and weight are generally irrelevant. As discussed above, preference for women and gender non-binaries.
I enjoy both sadomasochism and power exchange, though I generally have only realized the latter in the context of a committed LTR, after much discussion, as part of a long journey. I LOVE SWITCHING, and while I am curious about Master/slave and Owner/pet dynamics, I could not make such a relationship central in my life.
I'm polyamorous, so although I have a romantic partner at the moment, that does not preclude either of us pursuing other Relationships (capital R).
I am a radical inclusionary feminist. What that means is that the people I respect, respect me. Everyone has a right to their own identity and their own body. You have to show you understand that if you want to explore dominance, submission, sadism and or masochism with me.