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Transgender Submissive, 50, Hampton, Virginia
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Male Dominant, 45, san mateo, California
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About TOPKATT
Update - Please read my other profile BiMenOnly4Me.. I now have one kinky playmate but still seek another ;)
I have been on this site and others over the years, yet still cannot seem to find the man who is willing to dedicate themselves to a mutually beneficial relationship. I am presently stuck in a rut and need to be rescued !! I am a complicated character, having experienced the scene from all angles I cannot seem to leave it out of my life now, yet I also seek to enjoy a vanilla life with someone special. The question remains am I a Dominant or a submissive.. perhaps I am both, but a switch is not the title I call myself. I can be a Dominant sub and a submissive Domme, but both sides are a part of me, I do not 'switch' roles.. I enjoy life, kink and people for what they bring to me and me to them.
I am extremely caring, understanding, affectionate, honest, dedicated and monogomous and seek a lasting relationship in which I am able to find the warmth of a home and love of a partner, share the joy of my animals, and be free to see the beauty in the surrounding countryside. I have two children who live elsewhere and do not seek to have any more.
I have been traumatised in the past - in and out of scene and admit to being in therapy for this.. and very cautious with whom I speak. This does not make me a vunerable target now - far from it. It is difficult for me to trust others, I repel liars and am empath so I can tell when something is wrong, or if you are not being honest with me!
I do not seek neither a labelled sub nor Dominant, but someone who needs no heading to enjoy the presence of whom they are with, love animals, the country ... and can help me get back to fitness following a depressive illness in which the dreaded binge eating took over.
I am attractive, persistant, demanding of affection yet also enjoy my time alone and with my friends, which I expect to be respected.
I am fussy with looks - and your personality must be of a type which makes me laugh, groan, smile and be intrigued. If you are on here lying about your age, status, looks or want a quickie, or a slave to kneel before you, then look elsewhere - I have met them all, done it all and know what I do not want now !
To start I seek email friends, those who I can gel with over time, and I apologise if I do not answer you, this will be because I was not impressed with your one liner intro, or the pic was not to my liking - any cock or tit pics will be instantly dismissed, I like my man with a bit of pride and do not expect to be part of a harem, and as much as I like girls I do not pander to the 'forced bi' seekers anymore.
I am the typical kinky vanilla with a life of my own, a history which stops me moving forward too fast, and a therapist who would kill me if she knew I was trolling here again :)
So many of us on here are lonely, damaged or being pretentious about our needs or reasons for existance.. Me - Im just here hoping that someone will answer my call, and hold out a hand to help me on my next journey .. are you that one ???
My ideal man is 42-59. White/ Caucasian or Native American, Honourable, Honest, professional and financially secure - animals preferred to children, country preferred to city, love preferred to liars, companionship more important than sex.. tho it helps !!
I love sensual touch as opposed to pain - tho it does have its place, I expect to be an equal not a walkover, admired not dismissed, respected not rejected.
I will respond with a picture to those who send me one .. if I like you !!! If I do not respond then I wish you well in your search and thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
BTW - Dont be allergic to animals .. I own two huskys, lots of cats, am interested in holistic therapies and have psychic gifts. You will be prepared to listen, able to understand my fears, communicate when I allow, shut me up when I talk too much ;) and realise this may just be a walk on the wild side for me.. I am what I am, cant live with someone, cant live without them, if you like a challenge then Im definitely the one.
Do you fancy trying to tame this wildkatt - if you can catch me, tame me and hear me purrrrrrrr in front of your fire !!!!!
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Busy moving house - sorry not responding lately will be back soon x |
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Hi everyone - thanks for all your messages I am getting thru them.. at present time am just looking for friends only as am busy caring for my dear friend who has the big C .(SWMslave) May have to keep my other needs on tap a bit longer .. will respond on here as soon as I can to those who have been communicating with me.. hugs xx |
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