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	About TopBond Looking for friends, and play partners. Your kink wont shock me. ) Results from bdsmtest.org 100 Exhibitionist 100 Dominant 100 Degrader 100 Voyeur 100 Rigger 100 Sadist 100 Primal (Hunter) 98 MasterMistress 96 Non-monogamist 91 Owner 87 Experimentalist 76 DaddyMommy 63 Ageplayer 51 Brat tamer

Had a fantasy last night that was fairly hot for me.

A dominant woman and I used and abused a lovely slave for hours. This ended with the ladies in a 69 position and the slave licking my offering from the dominant woman I just finished inside of.

Sadly, most of the dominant women I know are lesbians, or not open to a situation like this. Still, it was a very nice fantasy!

Well, I've been unemployed since June-ish and despite everything that's been going on with that, I decided to start up my own BDSM webcomic.

http://www.mmmph.net

I hope you'll all join me for some banter and more than a few laughs!

-R

Well, it's been a few years since I posted on here it seems.

CM seems to still be filled with 13 year olds pretending to be "Teh Seriousest dominate" and cock-teasing women who just want to see how fast their inbox can get flooded by ignorant (and likely drunk) assholes.

Offended? If you throw a brick into a pig-sty, the one that squeals is the one you hit. So since I didn't point out anyone specifically, if you're offended then I am probably talking to you.

After being away for so long, I noticed that I had an embarrassing amount of private messages stacked up in my inbox.

My deepest and most sincere apologies to everyone for that. I've responded to everyone who has written to me, belated though it is.

I continue to get letters from straight men thinking I'm a submissive woman. Can someone please verify that my profile is, indeed, set up correctly? I can't find anything that would indicate that I was anything but dominant, male and (importantly) straight.

For those of you out there that might have questions about BDSM, please feel free to keep messaging me. You could also find me on , but that info comes via PM ;)

Also, in case you somehow missed it in my profile, I'm about to get married (yay!) and happily so. Also, we're not poly so that precludes any extra-curricular play.

However, that doesn't mean I don't enjoy good intellectual conversation!

Love, luck and lollipops,
Me

So as I'm sitting here on vacation in the outer banks of North Carolina it's given me a lot of time to think.

The first thought I had was "wow, it sucks to be between the ages of 25 and 40 and into BDSM out here" and the second thought I had was "where in the hell is everyone?"

I was so moved by this that I decided to throw up a journal entry. To my glee I had 16 messages waiting for me! Then reality sunk in.

14 of those 16 were from men looking for a submissive WOMAN. Now, I hate to seem a bit rude but don't I have a bit too much facial hair to be a woman? I'm also DOMINANT, lacking breats and... oh yeah a fucking vagina!

Is this what submissives/slaves have to deal with on a daiy basis? I mean if drunk frat boys looking for a laugh mistakenly message me thinking that I'm a female sub, what do the real submissive females get on a daily basis?

I also have to take a side road in my thought process for a moment. I can't stand a dumb sub. I would HOPE that you subs out there wouldn't accept an ignorant Dom. When I hear from a sub and the message is: "Hay! I think ure rrrrrrlly qte! we shood hook up so that u can tye me up and then fuk me like the drrrrty grrl I am!" I'm so turned off that I actually contemplate tying them up in a hotel room and leaving them.

I never have and never would do that but it's a fantasy that helps me laugh away the problem.

Reading the messages from these... let's call them "misguided" Doms, I have to say: "WTF"

When a message starts out with "bitsh, strip and start fingring urself and post the picture online" without so much as an introductory preamble I start to understand why so very many of my messages have gone un-answered.

Look, I get that we're all not attracted to one another, no big deal right? but seriously, a message of "thanks for your interest but I don't think I'm interested in you as a play partner" would be helpful. Then again, With the proponderance of messages that crashed my computer when I used spell-check, I can also understand not wanting to encourage a Dom you're not interested in.

That leads me to my next topic: BDSM support groups.

Too few groups out there are selective with their membership. I'm not saying to make it all about "the beautiful people", Rather I'm talking about keeping the frat-boys out, the lurkers and the super-reepy folks out. Essentially it's a way to meet and share discussion without feeling obligations to any specific Dom, and facillitates friendships with other like-minded folks.

Sorry for the random wandering but I'm bored out of my mind!

Feel free to message me if you're bored or even better, if you're near Corolla or Duck and a sub, let me know!

Just a heads up.

I am not submissive, I am not a woman and I am not gay.

There's nothing wrong with being any of those things (in any combination) I just don't happen to be.

Also, Please don't message me and tell me that I must not be a real dom because my message to you was requesting conversation and not ordering you about.

Now, is there anyone real left out there?

Happy Hump day.

This is the day when I go to the club and see all of my club friends, hang out, and get wild!... sadly I awoke this morning with a sore throat and didn't make it into work today.

Looks like there will be no party for Ryan tonight :(

Anyone else in Virginia think that the majority of the drivers here should have their liscence revoked?

I sometimes wonder if they know what the phrases "Merge" and "Yield" mean.

Oh and blinkers are just a polite way of telling the person behind you what side of your car to cut off. I'm starting to get into the habit of putting on my left blinker when I want to come over to the right. It's funny to watch the folks on my left speed up to cut me off, only to see me go to the right.

I actually had one person flip me off which just proved to me that they knew exactly what they were doing.

yay for sunny Virginia.

Happy belated mother's day to the hardworking moms out there be you sub or domme.

Does anyone else find it rude to have someone cancel plans on you? I know it happens once in a while but when someone cancels plans with me two or three times I usually give up on calling them. Honestly I feel like the world is going to hell in a handbasket with regards to respect.

You may say things like that's why you're drawn to the scene but it's here as well.

Just the other night at Bound (a fetish club in DC where the DJ's deserve to be hanged from the neck until dead) I witnessed a dom tie up his sub wife on a St. Andrews. he began flogging her with his own flogger (it's a BYOT party with some equip provided as long as it's used properly and cleaned before and after use) Then out of no-where, "random guy" I'll call him, walks up with his own, much heavier might I add, flogger and begins also giving lashes. The Dom turns to him and tells him off, so I step closer to make sure nothing really bad goes down.

so "Random guy" turns to him and says "she's just a fat ugly whore anyway"

if you're thinking about various non plesant and non sexual tortures to inflict on him you're almost to the level of anger that I was at.

BTW, she was beautiful and not at all fat and I told her so when I saw the two of them a little while later.

I went up to him and politely asked him to leave because he was making everyone else very uncomfortable, he pushed me and the bouncers jumped in.

Now I should point out here that I made no aggressive move, I never raised my arms and I dodged his drunk punch pretty easily.

That's why the bouncers threw him out and I got to stay.

Point is, this crap needs to stop and these pricks really need to be told that it's not just rude, but it won't be tolerated anymore.. ESPECIALLY in the scene.

Love many, Trust few, Harm none.
-R-

Hey, let me start out by saying, I'm now caught up with all of my email, sorry for the delay but I've been working 60+ hours a week for the last little while.

I'm sick today (well, sick of work anyway) so I stayed home to respond to everyone.

P.S. Please stop sending me pictures entitled "natural ZZZZ boobies" I know there are a few ladied with huge blimps but they aren't natural and the ones that are are obviously hanging on masochists or rich women who can hire short men to walk under each one and help her walk around...

oh, and they're not ZZZZ's either since those pictures are all of the same 3 women.

I've also received an incredible amount of (obviously doctored) photos of penises that stretch to the 20" mark purportedly.

I will say how incredibly amusing it is to me that on the rulers shown in the picture that the hash marks are all equidistant... meaning it's metric.... meaning you're talking about Centimeters you freaking moron.

I was born at night but not last night, furthermore, any woman who falls for that "trick" deserves what she gets... Incidentally if you ARE one of those women and happen to be on birth control, a few lesbian friends and I would very much like to invite you to a party... you don't really need to bring anything, just some soap...

>:)

Anyhoo, I'm pretty accessible, those of you who have asked for it have alternate means of contacting me in your inboxes feel free to use them.

Don't you hate it when you come to the glaring realization that you are different from the "mainstream" and that there are others just like you, only they're married, lesbian, hate men, or otherwise not accessible?

It's a lot like going to a BDSM chat room.

You KNOW there is a real woman in there somewhere, soft skin, a sensual touch, someone who shares a mutual attraction to one another on an emotional level... and yet... all you find is:

RandomD0MRULZ4EVA grabba s00perslu1z 86HHH boobs and hengs her from ceiling with the fishing hooks. painful is it beautiful though as well.

all I have to say is WTF?!?

I mean, honestly we all make the occasional typo (lord knows I'm guilty from time to time) but at least use things like "nouns" and "verbs" and if you really want to show off that 4th grade intellect, perhaps an adjective or two that isn't so infantile.

While I'm on the topic, can people start being real too please? I actually heard someone claim to have natural ZZZZ "boobies"

First, Bras don't come that big
Second, I can't believe that a kind and merciful god would ever make a woman sprout the equivalent of 2 MORE women from her chest.
Third, if you have anything larger than a "C" cup, you no longer have the abillity to call them boobies outside of a scene, you call them boobs, breasts, knockers or some other size-appropriate name.

Guys, don't think I've forgotten about you either.

Let me just set the record straight about something here. NO-ONE WANTs A 24" PENIS!!! unless your profession is nude walnut cracking, or you plan to use it to propel a water craft in Venice it's useless.

It also falls into the realm of "ZZZZ boobies" you want to claim 12"? I'll let you slide since you obviously have a great imagination and it's your fantasy after all. Let's throw out some statistics here.

The man whose non-erect penis is smallish will usually achieve about a 100 per cent increase in length during sexual excitement.

The man whose non-erect penis is on the largish size will probably manage about a 75 per cent increase.

This means the great majority of penises measure between 15cm and 18cm (6-7 inches) when erect, with the average figure being about 16.5cm (6.5 inches).
(source: netdoctor the first hit when you google "average american penis size")

So if the National Average is 6.5 you're telling everyone here that you're in that 2% of men who greatly exceed that?

Why is it then that there are so many of you "hog toting monsters" online and not out at clubs? Seems to me that if I had a trouser anaconda that big I'd go to a club with some 70's shorts on and sit down facing the dance floor, eventually I'd get picked up and wouldn't even have to try!

Ok people, let's cut the crap and be real, is there anyone left?

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