I am not looking for more than conversation right now. Looking for platonic friends only.

I'm curious, a seeker, is this my path to travel? Taking my first faltering steps has been interesting. Update, yup its my path, just need to find the right trail buddy and guide. Scary sub alert, I have wants, needs and expectations. I have limits, hard and soft. I decide these, they are MINE. I own them, you don't get to decide or influence them without my absolute and complete, thoroughly discussed and considered consent. This is after we have become friends and after we have both decided to explore the wonderful world of kinky fuckery together. I believe that people are the heart, soul and mind and bodies are just wrapping, some are eye candy some are a plate of beans. I don't need a picture to talk to you, so why do you need one to talk to me. Ok put in black and white terms, Photographs are a hard limit. I'm all woman and there is quite a bit of me! Major ddddd d word going on so if I keep to it there will be quite a bit less of me in the future. I am a sub, not a switch or a Domme, I don't play online unless I know you, or we have developed a conversation sufficiently to be considering meeting in real time. It tells me you are a dreamer or a fantasist and I prefer living in the real world not a fantasy world. I am an excellent internet researcher, don't kid yourself we all give clues in general conversation and I if I find you interesting enough to consider meeting for even just a coffee, I am likely to use all the resources available to ensure you are not the axe wielding nut job, this is before I even agree to meet. I respect limits and boundaries and expect mine to be respected. If I discover you have been economical with the truth, I will not turn up on your door stop for a Glenn Close Fatal Attraction type screaming showdown. I will however judge you completely untrustworthy and whilst an online penpal friendship may be acceptable, I will NEVER consider you suitable as a partner/Dom. After we have been talking about our interests, hobbies, favourite car polish and embarrassing quirks and foibles, for at least a few months maybe years, I'll let you know what mine are. Guidelines however which will save you time if you're on the prowl Sensual sadism YAY, particularly of the OTK variety.
Committed Impact Sadists Boo
Monogamists YAY
Polyamorists boo slight shift in perception here so not fixed in stone, depends on the circumstances,
Fetlife TOU Violationists Booooo
Watersports aficionados Booo
Lifestylers Booo
Bedroom Playtime YAY
Committment YAY
Married, NSA seekers - friendship only
Older than me YAY
Younger than me, Hmmm could be problem, really depends on how old your brains are.
Sub and Kinkster seekers YAY
Slave Seekers BOO - just can't get my head round the slave thing, that kind of committment to no limits and no safewords needs marriage and a lifetime IMHO. Approach me with respect and an appreciation that I am a human being and we could have some interesting conversations. You never know, if the sun, stars and moon align we could be having fun together at some point.