toguidemysub

Hello everyone,

I'm here looking for a submissive female around my age who is interested in exploring fantasies, fetishes and taboos. And really in some way or another isn't that why we are all here? So, I suppose being more specific would be helpful. I'm looking for someone who particularly enjoys obedience training and humiliation play. These are two aspects of submission I like employ as a framework for the D/s relationship. I would then use that framework to instate a reword/punishment system that would be tailored to my subs tastes and limits. It would be in this part of the relationship that we could get into actives such as bondage, orgasm control, spanking/whipping, toys and all those other wonderful eliminates. (I know that this is a fairly typical D/s M/s relationship model but I just wanted to be clear about what I'm looking for.) I like this system because it offers both partners a clear set of rules to play by. I would like to find someone for a physical relationship, though I would start online as a way to get to know each other, so being local would be nice but I will consider esubs if they amuse me.

I would also like to take this time to share a bit of my philosophy that I bring to being a Dom. I will treat everyone I talk to as an equal deserving of respect until submission is given, at that point the gloves come off and all sorts of wonderful degradation will commence. I view submission as a precious gift that is given out of respect, and knowledge that the submissive will be cherished. But even in the throws of degradation and torment I will be aware that what I'm doing is barking the person down to help them build someone they like more. I'm also looking for someone who has a personality, for after all what the point of taking my sub out to dinner for some public humiliation if we can't also have an engaging conversation. Its hard to enjoy dominating someone if I don't respect them intellectually.

About me. I'm 25, 6'4" and 250 lbs. And yes, I know that a lot of subs out there are looking for the daddy/dirty professor type, and with time I will get there, but not for quite sometime I hope. I have some experience with previous partners but never a formal sub. There are many things I would like to try so a prospective sub will need to be willing to explore with me.

I'm also interested just talking to people about there experiences, so if any of this sounds like something you are interested in drop me a line.