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togiveyouservi Male Submissive, 46, new york	ToGive Male Submissive, 40, Blaine, Minnesota	togivepain Male Dominant, 50, wexford

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	About ToGiveDivine I don't exactly fit into any of the 4 categories that CM provides, so I'm going to suggest that I'm more switch-like since quite a few people feel that submissive is more along the lines of being a slave / doormat / etc. I'm just a nice guy that sees the lifestyle as being less on fantasy than being realistic. I'm not an inferior being based on my gender, I don't believe in another person's supremacy based on their gender either. I don't fall to the floor to kiss your feet because you happen to be female and if you seriously feel I should then I'm not the right type for you. I'll fall to the floor and kiss your feet because we have such a connection as I want to do so; not because I have to. (Would you really prefer someone who has to as opposed to wanting to?) I can cook, clean, do laundry, moderate handyman, yard work, technically inclined, reasonably well read, articulate, intelligent, humorous, sweet, gentle and yet still a man. I want to be seen as a man who'll be your bitch rather than a bitch who happens to be male. I don't take myself too seriously unless the situation warrants it (and really people, how often does the situation really warrant it?) I think there should be a healthy dose of vanilla in the relationship because life is real and licking your butt doesn't pay the bills, get people through rough times, or solves real problems. Kissing your feet, licking your butt, watching you make love to another man, whatever else floats your boat are just aspects of life - it's not all there is to life. I'm not interested in Dominating anyone, but sometimes it becomes necessary to be the Knight in Shining Armor, instead of always the footstool, to get through a rough patch. Most of the correspondence I get seems to indicate that a majority of the FemDommes want a male slave for 100% servitude, humilation, and a general reminding them that they are sub-human scum - I'm not that guy. Will I allow myself to be humiliated, subservient, and allow a woman to take control over me - yes, I can allow that. (meaning, we don't start day one that way - some things have to be earned ... and yes, that works both ways) I want to find someone that makes me happy so much that I want to do whatever she wants so she can be even happier than me. Any Age, Race, Color, Creed, Religion, Height, Weight, etc. If I did have a preference, then a 6'6" or taller Asian woman who weighed less than 73 lbs, was between the ages of 77 and 86 and cut her NATURAL red hair into a mohawk. Bonus if she has halitosis and can braid her armpit hair

Had a life altering event - almost lost my life that is.

Nothing like a near-death experience to change you're whole outlook on life.

I'm not sure where life is going to take me at this point.

Feel free to email; I'm back to my strict "don't email Dommes without permission" rule.

For a friend ...

Guns n Roses - Don't Cry

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Talk to me softly
There's something in your eyes
Don't hang your head in sorrow
And please dont cry
I know how you feel inside I've
I've been there before
Somethin's changin' inside you
And don't you know

Don't you cry tonight
I still love you baby
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight

Give me a whisper
And give me a sigh
Give me a kiss before you
tell me goodbye
Don't you take it so hard now
And please don't take it so bad
I'll still be thinkin' of you
And the times we had...baby

And don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight

And please remember that I never lied
And please remember
how I felt inside now honey
You gotta make it your own way
But you'll be alright now sugar
You'll feel better tomorrow
Come the morning light now baby

And don't you cry tonight
An don't you cry tonight
An don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry tonight
Baby maybe someday
Don't you cry
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry
Tonight

Taking a Hiatus - travelling alot and too much flame mail.

Guess if you have an opinion - it'd better be the same as those who feel only their opinion counts.

So much for free speech and tolerance.

Something I thought makes alot of sense:

Lynyrd Skynyrd - Simple Man
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Mama told me when I was young
Come sit beside me, my only son
And listen closely to what I say.
And if you do this
It will help you some sunny day.

Take your time... dont live too fast,
Troubles will come and they will pass.
Go find a woman and youll find love,
And dont forget son,
There is someone up above.

(chorus)
And be a simple kind of man.
Be something you love and understand.
Be a simple kind of man.
Wont you do this for me son,
If you can?

Forget your lust for the rich mans gold
All that you need is in your soul,
And you can do this if you try.
All that I want for you my son,
Is to be satisfied.

(chorus)

Boy, dont you worry... youll find yourself.
Follow you heart and nothing else.
And you can do this if you try.
All I want for you my son,
Is to be satisfied.

(chorus)

Yes, I am very new to this, but I'm interested in learning - I would definitely be interested in the Submissive side of BDSM.

No Animals, No Children, No Extreme Pain, No Damage - willing to discuss everything else.

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