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TODom
Male Dominant, 54, Toronto
Male Dominant, 48
Dominant Couple, 44, Ontario
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About ToDominate

I have been in the lifestyle a long time and have been here before I'm looking for a sub or slave who in time after chatting for a period would give the gift of her submission to me.

Slave/Submissive Service Flow Chart

Journal Entry | 2 Love It |4 months ago

Priority #1

Does my Master/Dominant need or want anything?
Yes - Do it.
No - Go to priority #2
The needs of the Master/Dominant take precedent above all else. Your purpose isn't to make his life easier. It's to submit to his will and obey his commands. All of which may be part of a broader vision and a step along the path he is leading you. It is NOT your job to keep asking if anything is needed. It's his job to communicate his needs to you or what he wants of you.

Priority #2

Are there any commands or tasks set for the evening?
Yes - If there is no priority #1, do it.
No - Go to priority #3
You don't have to do everything. You need to do what was requested of you. It may be nice to anticipate needs, but those anticipations may not fit within his plan for the evening. If you find something you want to do for him, ask if he would like it done. Then you are following his will instead of your own. Just remember to request to be excused to accomplish those commands/tasks.

Priority #3

Are there any protocols set for my readiness for use when not on task?
Yes - If there is no priority #1 or #2, do it.
No - Go to priority #4
The ideal slave is the one that is always ready to be of use to the Master/Dominant. Attentive to receive his will and prepared to give her mind, energy, effort, and body. This also means that she spends the time taking care of her mind and body in order to be more effective in service. Healthy, competent, capable, financially stable, and rested.

Priority #4

Am I free to pursue my own desires if all other priorities are fulfilled?
Yes - If there are no priority #1-3, have fun.
No - See priority #3
Sometimes these desires are to wander around and play, while other times it may be to remain at the side of the Master/Dominant. At this point you are free to follow whatever makes you most fulfilled/content.

NOTE

Some of these priorities, requests, tasks, or commands may require developing a new skill, growing out of your comfort zone, challenging your preconceptions, or focusing on your own health, finances, or well being when not in direct service.

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