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Male Dominant, 48
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Dominant Couple, 44, Ontario
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Male Switch, 40, simi, California
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About TODom
Let's talk about you. In the beginning as well as the end it is about you.
Please, ask yourself - Do I want to give him everything? Will I submit to him, obey him, make him the priority? Am I ready to be owned, used, controlled.. loved, cherished, valued? Can I behave as a lady and be treated as such, when he chooses, yet submit and subsume my will to his?
It's a journey, a challenge, a joy! It takes energy, generosity, blindness. There's a moment, in the very beginning, when you have to close your eyes and step off the cliff. Know that my strong arms will be there to catch you.
Born in Toronto, I'm a confident passionate, affectionate, romantic, successful man, a hippy kid almost grown, the eternal optimist... beautiful inside and out I believe.... an experienced patient playful somewhat sadistic, controlling, imaginative, cruel at times, respectful, loving Dom. I am an accomplished trainer, teacher, and mentor - yet mortal enough to know that I can still learn from others. I'm a nurturing, demanding man, a delicious dichotomy. I value honesty integrity and hard work. Dominance & control are not lifestyle choices, they are in my DNA!
I read voraciously. I enjoy theatre, film, magic and fireworks. I love good music and good food - the blues and sushi are at the top of those lists. My sense of humour has definite British and borscht belt roots - Monty Python, Shelley Berman, Peter Sellers, Jackie Mason. I have deep roots in the production side of theatre and live performance, and make my living there today.
The submissive of my dreams is eager, smart, strong, confident, articulate, happy, loving, loyal and playful.. one who knows the path that she wishes to take, who has given this careful thought and consideration, and believes herself ready to fully explore the darker paths of her mind, heart and soul with a man that inspires trust.
You will challenge me, inform me, teach me and learn from me. You are comfortable in your own skin, a delicious sensual being, a powerhouse in your own right, with a hunger to surrender behind closed doors to a strong and loving man.
You have a strong desire/drive/need to serve and please, to be molded and shaped, to bend your knees, to crawl, to be used for his pleasure, to find joy in submitting, to become the submissive equivalent of Pavlov's dog.... of course, not to be treated like a dog - except when it pleases me - but to develop the depths of your submission, so that a word, a gesture, my voice, will make your pussy wet and your heart pound... like Pavlov taught his charges to salivate, your mind and your body will salivate for me.
It is thrilling to delve deep into the mind of another - reaching inside and playing the chords of fear, delight, humiliation and arousal like one plucks the strings of a Stradivarius, to make you feel desire, devotion, shame and humiliation all at once, to happily beg and crawl, to hunger for me, for my touch, for my body..... this is the true joy of D/s.
As a Dom, as a person, I wish to always be proud of my pet, to encourage and nurture you to succeed, in kink and in life.... in your career, your accomplishments, and your development as a person.
Like the vampire legends, I will invite you to cross my threshold and never look back.
With respect and optimism, an open mind and an open heart......M |
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Words by Leonard Cohen that mirror the passion I seek........
If you want a lover
I'll do anything you ask me to.
And if you want
another kind of love
Ill wear a mask for you.
If you want a partner
Take my hand
Or if you want to strike me down in anger
Here I stand.
I'm your man
If you want a boxer
I will step into the ring for you.
And if you want a doctor
Ill examine every inch of you.
If you want a driver
Climb inside
Or if you want to take me for a ride
You know you can.
I'm your man
Ah, the moons too bright
The chains too tight
The beast wont go to sleep.
Ive been running through these promises to you
That I made and I could not keep.
Ah,but a man never got a woman back
Not by begging on his knees.
Or I'd crawl to you baby
And I'd fall at your feet
And I'd howl at your beauty
Like a dog in heat
And I'd claw at your heart
And I'd tear at your sheet
I'd say please, please.
I'm your man
And if you've got to sleep
A moment on the road
I will steer for you.
And if you want to work the street alone
I'll disappear for you.
If you want a father for your child
Or only want to walk with me a while
Across the sand.
I'm your man
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