TobysDiva

Hi all,

To make it easy on you in trying to say my name... just call me "Dee" for short :).


You're joking, right...
It was a warm Sunday afternoon in the fall of 2003, when I met a guy named Toby, his girlfriend, and room mate for a late lunch a few hours before I had to go to choir practice at church. Just a few screams and giggles later and I was hooked. This was the beginning of my introduction to BDSM, S&M, Bondage, Fetish and all else in between. (Needless to say, I was late to choir practice- he he). Since that day, I've tagged along with Toby and the Black Garden crew to various shows in the Charlotte area and surrounding (i.e. Purgatory-SingleCell Productions-Purgatory Road shows.)

I will admit, this whole new world freaked me out a bit in the beginning, but not enough to kill my curiosity. Prior to this, all vanilla meant to me was a delicious ice cream treat! I had absolutely NO idea this world even existed or that I was even interested!



A little more about me...
- If you couldn't already tell, I'm somewhat of a dork. I try to keep a positive outlook on life and a smile on my face (even if/when it hurts). I like movies, jr. bacon cheeseburgers, pepsi products, and sweet tea-no lemon.

- I think red, blue, and purple rope look really sexy on my skin and make me feel all tingly inside :-). If you haven't already noticed from the photos, I think rope bondage/suspension is really hot!! So I have informally dubbed the sexy rope work in the photos as "TOBARI"! - hehe, you know you like that<-.

- I do like exploring/discovering my different "cravings" and extending some of my limits.

- I've discovered that I enjoy levels of pain through floggings, spankings, and electro play is growing on me. Oh, and I have a sexy shoe fetish.

- I have indulged in some very limited situations (a past ex or 2) in which to Domme however, I naturally tend towards submissive.



Why am I here...
Other than to become independently wealthy and to conquer the world...I would like to make more friends because I don't think that you can have too many of those. So this is my main reason for being here.



Alright, I think this nutshell is small enough so feel free to leave a note AND a generous non-tax deductible donation towards my fund to become independently wealthy (just kidding on the latter...or not -smile-).