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Ticonderoga - Male Switch, Huntington Beach California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About Ticonderoga


Important update:� INVOLVED with Modestdoddess a compasionate, intelligent and intuitive switch.� Ergo not currently looking for anything more than the exchange of ideas.



Quick note on the pics; I have included the best and the worst of me, very much on purpose.� Average them out and you have the real me.


Okay; a second note:� I am ONLY looking for the REAL thing.� If you are just looking for someone to pay your rent etc. good luck with that (see journal bottoming from the top)� but I'm not the one.� If something is real than that will happen anyway.� Get it?






A thought that comes to mind:� It is my personal belief that a domme should be a domme as in Dominant.� This should mean aggressive.� It seems many dommes are sort of wall flowers, waiting at the side of the room to be approached.� I understand the flip side of this observation, they expect the sub to crawl to them.� It just seems to me that perhaps the domme should reach out and take what they want.� After all, they will be giving the orders.� Also this is inline with my submissive nature, I am very unlikely to initiate contact.� Just my 2 cents.


This in addition:� If you are under 33ish, I doubt you can have the experience I am looking for in a domme/mistress.� I'll consider exceptional cases, just know the odds are slimmer.

Okay, that's the sub side.� On the Dom side of switch I am finding that I really enjoy it.� However I'm not very much into inflicting pain... more of a psychological dom.� Thanks to my little girl Modestgoddess, we are exploring this aspect of my switchiness.�



I have developed the theory that there is not much difference in many ways between a dom and a sub (though there are differences)� A good dom serves the needs and desires of the sub just as much as the sub serves the dom.



More editing to come.


Hmmmm observations:  Really people don't put up fake profile pics of well know porn stars... it screams of epic fail.  So far I have seen Holly Halston, Dylan Ryder (a lot) and Danacia, plus a few others I don't have names for.  STOP.

 

On the other hand I am so lucky to have met my little girl here, very cool.  Though a switch I am currently exploring my dom side and would welcome any input from Doms be they male or female.  Probably should do more of that on FL, but there seems to be a lot more 'traffic' here.

 

Best to everyone but the sock puppets.  YOU should punch yourselves in the face several times and delete your account(s).

Omg wtf and lol! For a good laugh read mistressofpain1 profile.... too funny.

Thankfully there is always hope.  After many recent encounters with frauds and fakes (yeah that's a bit redundant) I've stumbled across profiles of the real thing.  No, most of them won't work out for various reasons but at least I know they are out there and this site isn't a complete waste of time.  Best to everyone and Happy Holidays.

 

In regards to a recent exchange and this is somewhat metaphorical; 

 

She:  I like fishing... get a rod.

 

Me:  Okay.

 

She:  You didn't get the right type.

 

Me:  Sorry, I've never done this before.

 

She:  Stop arguing.

 

Me:  Just trying to supply information.

 

She:  Fuck you.

 

Me:  (in my head) WTF?

 

 

I find it fascinating that male dom's don't ask for tribute, just service and worship.  This seems to be true of the few true female dommes.   As for the rest.... are you kidding?

 

Suggestion:  Rename this site, session or pro me.  SNOOZE.

 

Okay, here I go again.  I think I have invented a new BD phrase (or not) "Bottoming from the top"  This is where someone claims to be a Dom/Domme but needs their sub to support them.  WTF??????  A top that can't support themselves or demands support?  I call bullshit.  As near as I can tell a TRUE female domme is about as rare as hen's teeth.  So far, after a year plus on this site, I have met ONE, count 'em ONE true domme (you know who you are, sorry I panicked ).  Nuf said.  I need lunch.

 

Really?  REALLY????  There should be a whole nuther section of this site devoted to the pros.  You so truly waste so much of my time.  Fortunately for me, I have begun to develop a keener sense of such creatures.  The words tribute, spoiled, financial slavery, and generous etc. are just another word for another form of prostitute (regardless of whether or not it involves sex).  These women have ZERO interest in their contacts except as to how they might monetarily profit from it.  

 

All well and good.  Everyone has to make a living and I fault nobody for it.  If you can find a fool who will do such things, more power to you.  But in the name of all that is GOOD Un-WHOLESOME and, and everything in between...... LEAVE ME ALONE.

 

Thank you.

 

Real people still welcome.

 

 

 

 

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