ThyDefiantDesire

I am a 40, sincere intelligent caring understanding Dominant male in NY/NJ area. I have been involved in D/s for over quite a while. I meet and shared life with much different type of people. I have come to know life very well and yes it’s wonderful. Not everyday is a glory day, nor do you seek to win all the time. I think I have cultured a good taste in lifestyle and in selecting my friends. I find women from South and Midwest are very much attractive. But women from North East are also different- they are sophisticated and well behaved too.

I have diverse vanilla interests and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, including but not limited to, TPE, bondage. Discipline and many more things.... I seek a mature intelligent submissive female who is willing to explore and expand her horizons for a RT/LTR and or any other combination as long s things are going to be in OK.I would prefer one to be D/D free, capable and enjoyable company.

It would be wonderful to find a submissive should who is not a weekend warrior and has a good balance of life and things in and around it. …..seeking someone who is/can be mature at all levels…I think one should be looking for structure and servitude, care, and passion of being cherished. I would say I am looking for (If possible) a meaningful, compassionate and caring connection. I am found of expression “lets posses each other in many ways at many levels"