Thorin

You ask me about regret? Let me tell you a few things about regret, my darling. There is no end to it. You cannot find the beginning of the chain that brought us from there to here. Should you regret the whole chain, and the air in between, or each link separately, as if you could uncouple them? Do you regret the beginning which ended so badly, or just the ending itself? --- White Oleander

For all things there is a first step, so too in Love, life and relationships. For me the first step is truth. From truth comes trust. Every individual find their own truths in life, about the world around them, about themselves, and about those they meet upon the path of their lives. That being said I will now lay down the truths about me as I have found them, and you can make up your own mind as to my honesty when you have come to know me.

Personally I find myself rough around the edges, a large brute at first glance, and five minutes after you’ve met me the big quiet teddy bear type. Hard work and a quiet life have made me this way. I grew up on a small country farm in the middle of South Dakota. Now with a country upbringing you have a certain set of values ingrained within, hard work, survival, getting by, family first, animals first, making do, and so on and so forth. This is who I am.

When it comes to love I want to develop a relationship slowly, take my time, and do it right the first time. Step lightly ladies, this heart has been broke before, it is a broken mirror with its pieces simply laid back in their place. As far as I’m concerned there is no reason a D/s relationship can’t have softness and romance as well as healthy set of rules and discipline when needed. I’m not here to change you, my responsibility is to support you, allow you to grow, and help you become a better you. I feel this is where many dominants get it wrong, they forget the relationship is all about the submissive, and through their successes we find our pleasure and moral satisfactions.

These are the philosophies by which my heart will follow. Always evolving, always learning, and adapting to make the most of what I have.

Now a little bit about the physical me. I am 6’5” tall, weigh around 350 lbs which varies upon the time of year, as the winters here are quite slow and dull and the spring, summer, and fall are always physically busy. Years of this type of work have left me with a rather strong, muscular and albeit large Viking ancestral type body. I have green eyes, and dark brunette hair which is cut fairly short, gentlemen style.

Currently I am residing on the family farm again, helping my folks raise Newfoundland Dogs, Friesian Sport Horses, llamas, and a handful of Nubian goats. This does not including the upkeep of the 1300 acres of land, fencing, and general maintenance on the equipment and buildings. I’m also a Youth Counselor at a juvenile group home, minimum security. I work the overnights giving me a lot of time to pursue my two greatest passions, reading and writing. This is my life folks and I wouldn’t want it any other way right now.

Feel free to strike up a conversation with me at anytime, on the condition that you leave the Sir, Master, Lord or any other designations out of it. These titles mean a great deal to me, and I would not lessen their meaning by using them in such a common and cheap way. Such respect should be earned and not automatically bestowed to anyone.

This brings to a close the truths about me. The rest is up to you the reader. I only ask to be given a fair chance without judgment until such time as a sufficient effort has been given to become acquainted with me and my ways. Thank you for taking your time to read this, I truly do appreciate it.