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Submissive Couple, 32, Los Angeles, California
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Female Submissive, 36, Oregon
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Female Switch, 31, Sydney&Hobart
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About thirtytwoflavors
Please read my whole profile and journal before you message me!
I'm a sadistic bitch when I'm playing and a loving partner before and afterwards.
I'm not putting a picture up, but I'll send one if we speak. I'm short (5'1), curvy, I have pale skin, green eyes, and a pixie cut. I'm constantly referred to as being cute as a button.
Safe, sane, consensual is really important to me, but I like to hurt people (but only in ways they ask me to!)
I'm not interested in online play. Please be local if you are going to message me.
Please also be: interested in polyamory/non-monogamy and relatively close to me in age (i.e. 23-35). I have a partner, I am not looking to replace him, and I want my own submissive. That said, I am only looking for someone for me, not for my partner and I. I am not bi, I am queer. I am attracted to cis men, women, trans people, genderqueer people, and intersex people (and all others).
While i'm at it, IF you are male, I'm pretty much only attracted to tall, skinny men. (Tall for me is relative, as i'm 5'1, I consider tall to be like 5'9+). If you're not that, save yourself some time, because I probably won't be attracted to you. I am also completely turned off by ANYONE who uses text speak. Yes, I'm insanely hard to please and i'm not desperate at all. That said, I'm quite friendly and welcome emails, but put a bit of effort into them.
My hard limits are: Fluids (yes, that includes semen), knives, needles, choking/ asphyxiation, tickling.
If you message me something along the lines of "Hello Miss" you are achieving nothing but to make my eyes roll. I don't like honorifics, and do not message me expecting me to do the work--if you need to start a conversation, something along the lines of "I really liked X part of your profile," "I saw X in your profile, and that was interesting because reasons" is more than sufficient, and I will smile benevolently at you.
My favorite things are: Electricity, whips, impact play, wax, clothespins/zippers, hoods/muzzles/gags/blindfolds, aftercare, pet play
I like genderplay/crossdressing, but I'm not into forcing people to do bisexual activities. Also, I dislike the term "sissy." I hate it when men want to be dressed as women to feel shameful, because it implies that being a woman is shameful. If you have these desires, that's cool, but I won't want to partake in them with you.
Message me if you want to know more or have questions, and I'll probably update this as I see fit.
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What I am looking for:
-A person who is comfortable with their own identity, and comfortable with being a kinkster
-Someone who identifies as queer OR is accepting and an ally of the queer community.
-I am a feminist. I am NOT a female supremacist. I believe that men and women should be equal beyond NEGOTIATED power agreements. That is, I don't believe either sex is better than the other because generalities are icky and I hate them. If you are going to message me, please feel comfortable/enthusiastic about this.
-Someone who wants to talk, get to know each other, and take things slowly before diving into sexy times. Yea, sexy times are fun, but they're a lot MORE fun when you know about your partner and their needs and desires.
-I want someone who has their own ideas, their own likes and dislikes and desires. Yes, as a submissive people generally want to please, but I enjoy dominating people who are strong and passionate, and who give their submission to me as a gift. People who see themselves as worthless/incomplete without a dom/ claim to have no desires or thoughts of their own are not for me.
-I want someone I can collar. That is my ultimate goal, but I won't do it unless we fit together and both desire it and have a healthy relationship, both kinky and outside of kink. I can't be dominant 24/7, and I want someone who is an equal, who I can have fun with, who doesn't want to be a 24/7 slave. I respect people who want that, but I can't give it to them.
-Finally, I want someone who is mine, but I don't want a monogamous commitment. I want/will have/ do have other partners, and you can too, if you desire. The only two rules I have about that are a) you must always practice safe sex, and b) you must always tell the person you are with me. Respect and honesty and communication MUST be practiced by all parties. I will always do these things and I hold myself to the same standards.
-Those are the dealbreakers, the absolute must haves. Everything else I am willing to negotiate, to give and take, for the right person. |
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