theywork4me

You know what's weird? When, after you make a post, specifically telling off a clique of losers, all of a sudden someone has hacked your computer, and, all of a sudden some loser with no profile, who only comes around at such times, is back again, to insult and attack you, and in doing so mentions something that there is NO WAY they would know about, if they were not the hacker. 

Yes, they are deviantly dumb, deviantly demented, deviantly disgusting, deviantly diagnosed? Let's hope so, because, the little D'va, needs all the help it can get.

Way to prove how dominant you are, with sneak attacks in various forms, just because you can't get my attention any other way, "ladies".

Get this straight: I do not want you, I do not like you, I do not care to know you, I do not need you. You are nothing to me. 

This shouldn't be a problem for you, "ladies", because, I really shouldn't be anything to you, either. Just another woman on a site filled with them, that's me. So, why are you so drawn to me, subbies? Ooh! I mean, dommies? lol

The lady made a pact to lock it, with little clips she kept in her pocket

Taking her zephyr, she traveled north to where the tigers prowled

There among the lilies, found she peony, and presented it most proud

Still it weren't never enough, no Sire, never enough, to wrest control

For try though she might, and much gold did she bite, she was not

Someone you'd pay a pound for, when for a shiling she could be got

No amount ofroaring, could detract or distract from facts of her whoring

Hence the lock that was needed, though good advice ...

BRB

To the bitch elite of the forum, and you know who you are: 

I am not interested in your opinion, nor do I care to engage you in debate. If I wanted to waste my time on female whores, I'd be paying you to be on your knees using your mouth for something more worthwhile than your constant, idiotic yammering.
However, I don' want to have sex with women and I have no time for whores, in general, so, consider this my gift to you. 

Point of fact: If you take money from men to domme them, and, you domme them sexually, you are a whore. That is your legal designation.

If it incites purposeful lust, causes orgasm, or pertains to the stimulation of body parts that would be considered wrong to stimulate on a person under 18 years of age, it constitutes sex and if you do it for money it is, legally, being a whore.

If you wish to be a whore, that is entirely your business. But, don't constantly try to engage in a battle of wits with me,  over the facts that you are a whore and don't want to admit it, and, don't like it when I see you for what you are and say the name out loud. To you it is an insult, because you are a liar and a hypocrite. To me, it's just the truth.

I am not judging you for being a whore. In fact, it is you who keep judging me based on what you perceive is my falure, in that I am not one.  You take every opportunity to make a snide comment, instead of staying on topic, when I enter the forums. Then, after flaming the thread with your feigned outrage, after you've twisted my words to "justify" them, you act as if I am the one who began it.

You get offended because I do not want to have sex with someone I am not married to. You insult me and harass me for that. It is, however, none of your business. You have no right to judge me and I am not judging you.

So, call me a monogamous person who believes in romance and I shall call you a whore and that will be the truth in both cases. You may not call me a prude or act as if I do not like sex, however, because that is a lie, as much as it is a lie to say that you are chaste or moral. I love sex and I'm very, very good at it. 

But, I am also someone who prefers quality over quantity and that is part of the reason I am so very good at it. I don't have to rely on nasty little tricks and pretending to be the queen bitch of the universe (or the forum) to enjoy myself or to get what I want, because, what I want is not shallow, it is not wholly self serving, it is not based on fear and anger, so it cannot be gotten by your childish domme tricks.

I am a woman, a Mistress, a great potential wife, and a very much beloved mother. I love people and my pride is in doing things right, helping others, not in how much I can pry out of their fingers.

To me, service means nothing if it is not given freely, and, money means nothing if it has to be taken by trickery. This is not an ego trip I'm on. This is my life.

We are not the same sort of women. Accept it and move on with your life. Have fun with your whoring, freely admitting that a whore is what you are. Stop looking over your shoulder, wondering if I think I'm better than you. I won't be looking over mine.

Dated  9/12/11 10:38 AM

IF you are going to break me as in bullwhip me,cane me and beat me to tears.. then will do slave labor for you,but otherwise not... Send a photo as I do not date art work..

theywork4me on 9/12/11 at 3:00 PM:

I'm not looking for a date. If I was, I would have said so. You are nothing at all like what I'm interested in and an arrogant prick,besides, to assume that you have any business writing to me. I am not here to serve you. This isn't one of your little subbie games.

That message, from a man who claimed to be a bedroom slave, is so typically subbie, which is to say it's all "me, me, me, serve me by hurting me" and not, in fact, submissive at all. 
I have no interest in subbies that mislabel themselves. It would be better if they just started calling themselves masochist dominants that like to be ordered around on occasion. It's much closer to the truth. In a bedroom situation, I find them to be a total, selfish, boring turn off. In every day life, I find them to be useless, as well. 

Honestly works so much better for me. The lifestyle they promote is one of strict dishonesty, however. "I want to serve you, by you sitting on my face as I need that in my life." they say. It's bullshite. If you were serving me, I wouldn't have to do that just to get you to do your chores. You'd be thrilled to have chores to do and to be of use.

"Well, that's impractical. Most people want something more out of a relationship." you say? Yes, well, it is ridiculous to assume there would not be more, but, "more" is not "instead of". The relationship will be built around labor of the mind, body and sipirit. 

Real slaves appreciate this sort of thing, because, psychologically, they are a bit like yo-yos.  In this scenario, the dominant is the hand, the slave is the rounded base, and, their relationship is the string.

The slave goes here, because the hand has told it to. The slave goes there, because the slave has directed it to do so. The slave performs tricks, that the hand knows how to guide it through. But, always there is the connection, always there is being sent forth and the returning. 

I was thinking of this earlier today, in regards to the disappointing nature of people who do not understand that connection. Because, when a slave shows up, they really should not be looking around, like they are a contractor, and going "Yes, this needs to be done and that.", unless they have been sent there at the behest of their owner, but, they are not actually with their owner.

Likewise, when a slave comes to you, you should not just say "Look around. You can see what needs to be done. If you know you're job, you'll get to it and fix everything."  That is treating them as anyone else whom you might hire only with distinctly less nformation then you are likely to give to a maid, plumber, pool boy, etc. 

In either case, it dishonors the relationship, by not even attempting to make it a connection. It's like treating the slave, or if you are the slave like treating the owner, like a cheap whore. It's not just lazy, it's disgusting.

What this boy said to me , above, is not strictly along the same lines, but, I do find it just as disgusting, as he is obviously just looking for a good time, sexually, and that is not what BDSM is about. So, he is treating what is a serious lifestyle as a tawdry means to a sticky ending. Gross!

Someone who truly was a slave, would be seeking an owner who could make the right connection, push the right buttons, and, they woud want to serve that person, regardless of looks, social status, etc. Someimes you find your Master in a palace, sometimes you find him in the seashore catching fish. It doesn't matter where he is, it matters what he's made of.

Example of labor needed:

http://www.bhg.com/gardening/gardening-by-region/desert-southwest/

http://www.lulu.com/product/paperback/edible-landscaping-in-the-desert-southwest-wheelbarrow-to-plate/176297

I have a magazine around here, at least I did, which showed a wonderful example of a very beautiful garden that was primarily edible.  It was not a garden planned for southwest weather, but, there is no reason someone could not plan such a garden for this area, then, build it.

It would be lovely to find a slave who was actively into gardening, so they could help in the planning, but, if a consultant could be hired, that would work as well. I know more or less what I want, but, I  am not familiar enough, either with the southwest or gardening, to confidently make all these decisions and begin implementing them on my own.

In the meantime, I do have a yard that needs raking, branches that need to be removed or set aside to use in the creation of the court yard, large pieces of concrete that someone thoughtfully dug up which need to be reburied or moved and used for some other purpose, and, many other little things need doing, such as trimming/pruning trees, fixing the gate, laying ground cover of some sort (maybe).

Example of labor needed:

http://www.pequals.com/at/ccatbench/cobbench.htm

Cob benches. Not necessarily in just that shape, but, there was this place that used to exist, which I loved. I tried to post photos of it, here, but, they were not showing correctly. . It is a home I wanted to get, but, could not. Someone else bought it, and, instead of enhancing what was there, they covered most of it over with more cutesy, banal  Arizona-themed outdoor decor, effectively ruining all it's charm. 

Now, I am not saying I want an exact replica of the courtyard it had. I want one that is in my yard, re, and is unique; but, this is the sort of thing that I love. 

It giant planter boxes, big old palm date trees, benches in odd nooks and crannies, tile work, benches built onto walls, a small fountain built of cob or a similar material, built onto the wall and a large central fountain. 

The inside of the apartments, as it was several small buildings, were equally beautiful and odd and I'd like to recreate that feel, as well, as much as possible, through the building of cob huts or altering portable storage sheds to look more like proper buildings, rather than just being some ugly little lump sitting in the backyard. 

There is no reason why things must be ugly to be functional. And, yes, that includes the lives of slaves. xx

Example of needed work/financial service:

http://weblife.org/cob/cob_049.html

Would need the soil, tarp, slaves to mix and apply it. The rules would probably be something like you have three hours to gather the ingredients, mix the cob and apply it in a 1" thickness to an outside wall of my home. For every minute you go over those three hours, you will receive one lash of my crop to your backside. 

Though, I am not sure what would be considered a reasonable amount of time for mixing cob, so that is just an example. 

I am reasonable. What I am not is here for fun and games.