Each of us will have a different view of a label, and so I would like to express my thoughts on a few of them.
Labels are both useful and useless. When used as a starting point of reference, a label can be a useful tool to initiate conversation. When used as a focal point however, a label can be useless, even detrimental. It is with labels such as Daddy Dom or babygirl, submissive or slave.
I am, to use a common label, a Daddy Dom. Specifically, I am a Sensual Daddy. What you may infer from that may not be the fact of my true nature. My true nature is to be a nurturing and protective, tender and compassionate, loving yet firm Dominant. In addition, I do have my darker, more carnal desires.
Does this mean that I desire an incestuous relationship? No, it does not.
Does this mean that I desire a relationship with someone who has not reached the age of consent? No, it does not.
Does this mean that I desire an age-play relationship? Again, no, it does not.
What is it that makes me a Daddy Dom?
For me, it is firmly rooted in my nurturing and protective nature. I believe that a Master should nurture and guide his submissive, striving to make her the most complete person that she can be. While under his care, he will protect her with all his Spirit—her health, her safety are as crucial to him as his own.
His tender words and actions toward her will help build her respect and trust for him. His compassion will create a safe haven for her, and help her open up to him and enable her to explore the sensual world around them. With deeper levels of respect come deeper levels of trust. The Daddy Dom draws her into deeper levels of submission, creating within her an intense desire to please her Master. He does not command her, but rather, guides her passions to meet their mutual pleasure.
He loves her dearly, and is there to care for her when she is hurt. Nothing pleases him more than seeing her reach her goals. When the monsters sneak out from under the bed, he is there to chase them away. Should she stray from a rule, he is there to deal with her firmly. To the Daddy Dom, she is his submissive, his slave, his babygirl.
So who is she then? Who is this mystic babygirl?
First and foremost, she is a young woman that has reached the age of consent. Before she can consent to submission, she must be old enough to give her consent.
Second, she should have a very submissive nature. There is a lot of discussion as to what constitutes a submissive, and what constitutes a slave. In My opinion, it involves levels of submission, with some starting at a much deeper submissive level.
Third, she is someone with an open mind, willing to accept the realities of life, willing to explore, and to grow. I do think that a Daddy Dom is one who seeks to guide his babygirl, enabling her to become the best person that she can be.
